How do I stop loving my abuser?

Are you a woman?:

Anyway, you have to reach out for fucking outside help. Go to mental health professionals, counseling, 911 anything.
You questioning your love could mean you're not having a good time anyway, but feeling too invested to actually let it go.

You gotta break the abusive relationship cycle, wether you're a man or woman doesn't matter much unless you plan on going to a woman's shelter since there's obviously very few men's shelters, you gotta break the cycle and the second they bring you flowers after an argument or whatever they do to make up for the arguements/attacks or whatever goes on, you run out and go to a trusted family member's home and explain the situation, I've had to personally help a friend with a very similar situation and lying doesn't help the situation at all.

If you both live in a apartment or something and they primarily or partially own the property then you need to leave, if you own the property then change the locks before they get the chance to continue the cycle, talk to family about possibly getting a restraining order.

The first step is realizing that as fun as it may seem or great it seems in the moment, they're bad for you and you need them out of your life.

>>18664248
If someone physically hits you outside of some consensual fetish thing, they can't change. This isn't someone depressed talking about hurting themselves, or someone saying something mean in the heat of an argument with you. This is someone physically assaulting you, find a therapist who deals with breaking people out of trauma bonds if you can't manage it yourself.

>>18664248
call the police, or tell a friend... or all of them... or tell HIS friend about the abuse. just tell anybody, really