Friendless college anon here. I'm at another school hosted party and people are having fun and I've made a few people laugh but idk what to do to actually make friends. I've played badminton and stuff here but I sucked. Anyone have any ideas for how to make friends, specifically with girls?
You'll need to allocate time to hang out with them. If you're having difficulty finding a good reasoning to hang out, just ask them to help you on something and later offer your help to them. The act of give and take will nurture friendship.
>>18664178
that's a great idea :) but i'm having more trouble with actually getting past the initial barrier of approaching them and starting a conversation without seeming insanely socially inept
Having same problem. Gonna lurk here
Bump for interest
>>18664701
Embrace this one idea:
You'll learn more about people in one hour of play than you will in a lifetime of talk.
If you can talk to people and make them laugh, the next step is inviting people to do stuff with you. If you're not swimming in relationships, you have to be the driving force between that initial spark.
As for initially getting to know people, you need to be a part of community. Find a community of people and get involved. Book clubs. Sporting events. Gardening classes. There'll be people there, and the event will give you something to talk with them about.