Losing virginity stories

First time is over rated, was shitty for the majority of people and you need the experience. So yeah, go for it champ.

Youre a shitty person.

>>18662705
t. fat female friend

>>18662693
Does it count if I thought they were really pretty at that time but later on I realize they were average at best compared to what I could pull in?

>>18662702
This.
My first time was fuckin weird.
My gf didn't even talked to me after it and we both slept soon.
I was our first time and we actually were panicked to the core after Sex.
Like what have have we done.

>>18662709
no, you have to find her unattractive while having sex with her

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>>18662693

I did that and I absolutely regret it. For real don't do it, OP.

>be me at 20 years old
>was desperate to lose Vcard
>messaged with a girl on Facebook that I knew liked me from high school
>she's not fat, but rough 3-4/10
>she openly talks lewd to me
>here's my chance
>we meet up and sneak into my parents basement
>very awkwardly make out. She was into it, I wasn't
>we get naked on couch
>do the deed
>I remember while doing it I was thinking "why am I doing this"
>have pathetic orgasm. She ended up coming really hard tho for some reason
>right after I quickly get dressed and ask her to leave
>I go straight into the shower
>gif related
>she texts me later saying she wanted more the next day
>I made up an excuse not to go

It was awful OP. Don't do it. If anything, that experience made me really insecure. I'm 26 now and haven't been with a girl since. I've had opprotunties but I just don't feel comfortable

>>18662726
I imagine I'd be asking myself the same question to be honest. Thanks for the input, I guess I'll save myself for another opportunity, I'm not unable to get some with more attractive girls so I'll probably wait till I feel comfortable with someone

>>18662693
YES and lost the guy I was really in love with. Too much to drink and had sex first time in the back of a truck with a guy I only knew a few hours. Guy I really loved saw us.

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>>18662742
Jeeeesus, I feel sorry for you anon :/

>>18662740

Yes do that.

I bought into the whole "pussy is pussy" meme. It's not true. For real that 1 experience made me really insecure with the whole sex thing, that's why I haven't seen a naked girl in 6 years.

>>18662693
>I am thinking of sleeping with a fat friend so I learn what to do in my future encounters
I tried doing that and I couldn't get it up. I even went to the toilet to try concentrate and get it up while thinking about an old crush and it kinda worked, but when I got back to my room, my dick went limp again. And the whole deal just feel dirty and super awkward. Now half her friends probably think of me as the guy with the limp dick.

I don't recommend it.

I did it with a friend cause my gf at the time didn't want to have sex yet (we were 16), she was cute but I didn't really like her.

Still regret it.

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>>18662765
>I did it with a friend cause my gf at the time didn't want to have sex yet

>>18662773
I was stupid at the time. Really stupid

>>18662757
I see myself having this problem, I can fantasize about her while fapping but I imagine the moment I lay my eyes on her my penis would crawl back inside my body

>>18662693
horrible idea
fat whales are psyco, dont get tempted, i know it's hard to resist the virgin urges but just dont

>>18662742
slut to the core, got the istant karma you deserved

>>18662693
Nah, lost it to a friend who heard I was a virgin and decided that shit was unacceptable. No romantics but she was hot enough that even when she was taking her shirt off I was only about 75% sure this wasn't a joke, something I am still teased about.

At least be friends with someone before you fuck them. The physical sensations of sex is nice, but the intimacy of being that close with someone you trust and care about, even if you're not in love or anything, is a thousand times better and 99% of what helps me stay in the game without being distracted by how embarrassing it is to be naked and vulnerable around another person.

The one time I fucked a girl just because she was horny and I was the only single, non-passed out guy in the party ended with me barely being able to keep my dick up, not cumming and generally not enjoying myself.

>>18662783
I guess. I had one conversation with the guy I loved and he said he couldn't get the mental image of my jeans and panties around my ankles and my blank stare at him out of his head.

>>18662803
pain will make you grow, hope you learned your lesson

>>18662826
Yeah, don't drink too much around guys.

I was 15 and signed up for a dating website, met a random kid in the area. Told him I was a virgin and on my period, just wanted to blow him and then he should leave. Midway into me blowing him he said he wanted to fuck. Decided to. It was terrible. I fake moaned the whole time (again, I was 15) and he came in like 5 minutes. Had a very small dick too. 0/10, don't recommended. Find someone you care about it.

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>>18662865
>Tfw small dick

>>18662790
yeeah I've known this girl for 2ish years, we're good friends but she tends to get overly attached about every single thing, I mostly just ignore her when she begins to be annoying and it works

>>18662834
Close but no cigar

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My problem is, how do you even get the opportunity to begin with?
>be me
>19
>virgin
>not socially awkward or anything
>plenty of friends
>not looking like complete trash
>can't get a date no matter what
I hate going to night clubs, but a night out drinking with friends at bars n stuff is fun in its own right. However, whenever I am out, I can't even get a girl to look at me. I am graduating soon, and starting to get a teeny bit nervous. Have never been completely desperate before tho
What the hell am I doing wrong?

>>18662865
Are dating sites just a meme? Have always been curious if you can actually find a good relationship through one.

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If you lose to your virginity to someone who also doesn't find you attractive then both of your unattractiveness towards eachother will bond you and gt you closer. You'll be cracking jokes about it 10 years down the line as long as you were friends.

My girlfriend and I lost it together. We were so bad, but it's funny and kinda cute to think back to now that I know what im doing. I'm glad I lost it that way.

>>18663083
This is just a horny female friend that really wants to fuck with someone whom she trusts and I guess I'm that guy. She's kinda weird and seems to dislike every other guy but me ???

>>18663103
Uhh
What?

lost mine at 17 with my ex girlfriend. she was a chubby 5/10 and it was really awkward for me. I'd rather masturbate than to have sex with a non hot chick

>>18663103
OP talking about his friend

>>18662702
So much this

It almost always sucks, I'm fairly experienced and the first time with a new girl is most likely to suck. People like different stuff so it's hard to get a perfect match from the start, what to say of virgins who don't even really know what they like yet...

>>18662693
Yep, he is old and fat and I didn't have much choice. Parents pick and I'm miserable.

My first time was with a UNR cheerleader in front of a group of people - my two friends were getting jerked off by a different girl while watching and commenting on what I was doing.

In no way do I "regret" it, but it's certainly not a story I can tell my kids or share with someone I'm interested in forming a real relationship with.

But I think if I had gone the "romantic" route, I would have been more nervous and such. So it's an equal thing.

I lost my virginity to my girlfriend and was totally in love, so I dunno that feel. Generally speaking, though, sex with friends who are "just friends" is different from sex with somebody you're attracted to. There's a kind of emotional high you get with the second one that just isn't there in the first, and like some people have said, it does take a while to get to know somebody's body and learn what they like.
I still say go for it. You don't need to hang onto your v-card waiting for that special someone if you don't want to, and losing your virginity's an awkward fuck no matter what. Still fun.

I was a virgin at the ripe old age of 26 so I did the only thing possible: went to a prostitute. It was pretty bad, not because she was a prostitute, but because I was nervous and clueless. I got that out of the way and then practiced with more prostitutes until I got the hang of sex. Looking back I don't regret it. Better be awful with someone you will never see again than someone you love.

>>18663235
that's why was i thinking of doing it honestly, just afraid it'll suck since i don't find her attractive, idk how will my dick respond to her

>>18663253
Take a viagra beforehand. Also one, just one and not more, glass of red wine. Pick a good quality escort. Tell her you are a virgin beforehand so she'll know and be able to help you relax.

>>18663185
Ahh, was kinda confused there for a sec, thought some random anon got a stroke

>>18663235

Did the same thing except it was march 2016, I was 18. Caught in the whole 'virgin pressure' thing imageboards forced on me. Did I regret it? No, since it took all that shit away.

If you find yourself pressured or it bothers you in any way, do it. I don't really think men have the whole 'special first time' thing women do.