>22 yo virgin
>Been with my girlfriend for 7 monthes, both virgin
>Attempt intercourse last night
>Barely got a semi, and came while trying to insert
>Didn't even get it in
I don't get it, it's like my dick is fucking broken. I almost never get fully erect when I'm with her despite being very attracted to her, and I cum fast as fuck. I don't have a very high libido, nor do I masturbate or watch porn a lot nowadays but at least when I'm alone I can get it fully erect.
I'm guessing it's some sort of performence anxiety but I have zero clue as to what I can do. She's supportive and all but just saying have fun and don't sweat it isn't actually going to help since I can't help it.
Up till now we just did lot of foreplay and dry humping and I've gone down on her a good amount of times but even when she gives me a handjob I can barely get it as hard as I can when I masturbate.
What do I do? I just want a normal functioning penis and this piece of shit doesn't even work when I need it.
stop watching porn
do you feel worried about getting caught during sex?
erectile dysfunction can be your body thinking it's not safe to fuck, for a variety of reasons like her dad killing you if he finds out or a fucking sabretooth tiger lurking nearby. it's obivousky not related to actual reality but our bodies are wired for a very vicious and dangerous environment.
there's another cause for ED that is rooted in low self-esteem. basically your body assumes you're not the "alpha" of your tribe and that this girl isn't "yours", meaning that if you get caught fucking her you risk getting beaten up by the bigger, scarier monkey that usually fucks her.
again, very archaic and might or might not make sense to you.
>>18662116
cool post anon. I'm w my gf and her friend but her friend is on her period and I'd if a bloody threesome is possible
>>18662166
not gonna happen.
most girls have a hard time having sex when they have their period because they feel grossed out by their own blood and are really ashamed of it. so how high are the chances that 2 of them will not be grossed out by their own AND their friend's goopy period sludge?
>>18661953
Pretty much exact same thing happened to me last night. Got her off with my tongue, put on the condom, then from there just couldn't get it fully hard. Got softer and softer the longer we tried. Pretty sure it was nerves from being first time.
I have performance anxiety every time I'm with a new partner. It usually goes away after the second or third attempt. It's not even me having anxiety, it's just my dick having a mind of it's own and refusing to get hard despite wanting the sex badly. After trying to have sex with the new partner a few times (on different occasions), I'm suddenly capable of getting rock hard. Perhaps it'll be the same for you. It's super fucking inconvenient for random hookups but I've just gotten so used to it by now that I accept I'm never going to fuck a girl on the first attempt, so I make up for it in other ways.
>>18662256
Oh man, I'm literally exactly the same. Feels good to see I'm not alone, thanks bro!
>>18662182
yeah, it didn't get close to happening. banged my girl though. she's freakiest w liquor. likes the whole rape deal.
>>18662285
>likes the whole rape deal
oh boy you might be sitting on a ticking time bomb
live out all your fantasies while it lasts so you'll have something nice to remember once she snaps and dumps you
>>18662079
I don't really watch porn anymore.
>>18662116
I did read something about how when the body feels "danger" you cum faster.
>>18662194
Did manage to get a semi and cum while trying to enter it though.
Maybe you're gay.
>>18662285
That's hot as fuck.