How to be more sexually aggressive? I feel like an huge idiot.

just be yourself around girls, be engaging and funny, and be you. don't think about trying to get that pussy. when a girl starts hanging around you, laughing at your jokes, that's a good sign. do some very innocent, occasional touching and see how she responds. if she enjoys it, keep chatting her up, then create a situation where you two will be alone. go for a walk, say you had plans to go somewhere else, that sort of thing. say you're planning on watching a movie at your place, or say you'll kick her ass at cards or something. if she's game she'll come with you and end up at your place (or hers). badda bing badda boom.

>>18661395
that's cool and all and I didn't have problems with that part so far but how do I get sexual since apparently as a guy it's all on me to make it sexual and take the initiative

>>18661373
I'm not the lovemaster, so I can't tell you about what level of aggression you're supposed to have.

all I can say that is leaning towards being more aggressive, since you asked for that, is

a. all new and uncertain relationships come with a level of awkwardness that is nobody's fault
b. all of the women who were so aggressive I didn't need to be turned out to be fucked in the head

Alcohol.

>>18661373
Bumping because I have the same fucking problem, fuck.

As one anon already mentioned, you need to check for the signals. Does she listen to what you're saying? Is she laughing at your jokes? When you talk, does she switch her eyesight between your eyes and lips as you speak? Look at small things.

And then you need to create a situation in which you're alone. I smoke and most of my friends smoke, so 90% of the times I got laid was when I was talking with a girl on a party and went to smoke a cig with her.

Alcohol is good, but don't use it as a rapedrink. Drinking is cool, but if you drink too much you're going to be too sexually aggressive. I know people who normally are very shy but then try to play Casanova after 10 shots.

>>18661373
I'm kind alike you OP. All the chicks I've been with me practicaly had to jump on me otherwise they'd be put in the friend "bin" I put everyone. Also I'm blind as shit to signals. Like clinicaly blind

this could help, but might not be an option:
go out for a weekend with friends, somewhere where you know no one will ever remember you. kinda like vegas.
once there, go to a normie-ass club and start hitting on girls, get super drunk, do whatever it takes, now here's the kicker: it's not the one who gets laid who wins, it's the one who has had the most girls reject him that night. the goal is not having drunk sex in a hotel, the goal is realizing that getting rejected is not a big deal.

>>18664171
ree normies