So I've been dating this guy for about a month now. Things have been great so far and we would talk every night and get along very well.
We both went on vacation last week and didn't see each other for a week. While he was there he started talking to me less and giving me very short replies.
Last night I went to see him and he didn't speak to me at all. He was more focused on his friends (which has been happening every day) and I just ended up going home.
He has told me he doesn't like the situation I'm in even tho I did make it very very clear that it's something he'd had to deal with if we dated and he said he could handle it. So I do feel like that's maybe the reason why he's been so distant. He also said his friend thinks I'm weird because I'm shy
He said I can spend the night with him tonight so I'm going to talk to him about it.
I'm mainly going to ask him why he is so distant but I don't know how to word it.
Okay wtf you gave yourself advice
>>18660990
Idk what to say I'm a brainlet. I'm so bad with confrontation and sometimes I make myself sound like I wanna break up
>>18660974
>He has told me he doesn't like the situation I'm in even tho I did make it very very clear that it's something he'd had to deal with if we dated
We cant help you if you dont say what this is
It's probably some stupid shit like you still live with your ex innit
>>18660974
He talked to someone and had an epiphany, he realizes that your situation isn't going to play to his favor and he's cutting his losses. Whatever your situation is, it would help if we knew, seems like it's killing your relationship. Although it might be something else but since you mentioned it I assume it's bad, I'm sorry for your loss
>>18660974
What situation? It sounds like you don't think it's an issue, or you're trying to hide it which is suspicious.
>>18661271
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>>18661228
I'm paranoid schizophrenic that's the situation
>>18661374
lmao
>>18661377
Lol please don't say I'm being paranoid about my situation, it is clear that he is acting different