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Ask Her To Join The Band Or Not? 2017-08-26 09:57:56 Post No. 18660785
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>Finally got together with three people to make a band.
>Still auditioning for a pianist for the group.
>Fortunately, my best friend is a great pianist and my mates wouldn't mind having her.
> Recently we've had an argument, where she revealed personal information about me to people around us at the moment, and even ended potential relationships because of it.
> I've forgiven her, but it's become obvious that If I have a fight with her, she'll undoubtedly start drama with my new band mates.
>The other issue is, is that we've talked about starting a band together since high school. It was originally my dream, but I wanted her in it.
> If I ask her to join, it could potentially ruin what I've been working for for so long. If I don't, it'll ruin a 9 year friendship that only recently started to fall downhill.
>People tell me "oh, you'll make more friends! What she did was awful anyway", but that's just not the case. I'd be the douchebag in this situation by pushing her away from something we both dreamed of.
Advice, please
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if the mean scale is even 7/10 w her, then is it worth it? if what she did was that horrible, why are you friends w her? band dream coming true > toxic friendship
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>>18660799
I think it's because I started the argument. I said something I knew she didn't like, and she overreacted in result-
But I see your point. It's just that if this doesn't work out with my bandmates, I'd be loosing both my only true friend and my dreams.
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>>18660785
A friendship this long is something special, put more effort into not letting it go further downhill
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