how do you get a guy to text you first

It's hot when a girl texts first.

Maybe he does not like texting or social media? I hate it because I am shit at it.
I can hold a conversation for hours in real life but with instant messaging I have no clue what to say and it gets awkward.

I avoid it out right unless I need to make plans.

>>18659967
would you prefer if a girl were the one to ask questions or keep the conversation going through text? or do you consider it borderline clingy?

>>18659988
I would prefer effort on the girls part, if she constantly texts me I will try and text back.
I have texted girls before and been expected to do all the leg work, like I would just get replies like "Yeah lol" or "haha" and then when I stopped replying they would message me.

>>18659995
This.

OP if you actually like a guy don't do that short text thing, if he's smart he's just going to start distancing himself. Not talking at all is better than if you half ass it

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>>18660008
i tend to text a lot, like as if im having a normal conversation so i send around 2-3 texts in a row. I figured he's disinterested since hes never asking any questions and decided to send something only once every 2 days, or am i overthinking this

>>18660022
He's either not interested or just not a texting kind of guy. For how long do you know each other and has he flirted with you before?

>>18660022
I think you are overthinking this. Do you know his texting habits with other people ?
I tend to be weird with instant messaging, he might be too.