Girl that I know at uni got drunk and is saying all sorts of shit via FB messaging about how she thinks I'm cute, perfect, all this stuff.
Normally I'd be over the moon but I really don't want a relationship with this person, and I'm getting a bit stressed about this.
I tried to gently let her down and reaffirm her self esteem but it doesn't seem to have worked. She herself has said that she might regret all this tomorrow so I at a certain point I said I'm ignoring the rest of her messages tonight. This seems to have set her off and through the small previews I caught messages like 'I want to die' etc. I'm not opening them up to avoid triggering the 'read' thing.
As far as I'm concerned she's lucky because if I pulled this shit with a female classmate I'd be lucky to not get dragged in front of whatever the HR equivalent is of university the next week about sexual harrassment.
The fuck do I do? I have a compulsory once a week meeting with this person in a larger group. I don't want to be responsible for whatever brash action she might take. As soon as the semester is over I plan to sever contact in all ways I can.
>>18659463
She'll be fine, people get drunk and do embarrassing shit all the time
>>18659463
First, get screenshots of the drunken messages. You need to protect yourself if you accused of "taking advantage" of a drunken woman. People 'mis-remember' things the morning after a drug or drink-filled night. Especially in uni.
Second, don't get romantically involved with a alcoholic.