ITT: You tell me your problems and i try to give you advices.

The only people that like me are the ones I never get to see, and I suspect the friends I have from my hobby don't actually like me at all. I often dream I'm stuck up high, on like a mountain or something like that, and I see people below but I cant do anything I can just see them.

>message girl and ask if she will be at a party on campus
>"yep"

I've never met this girl and only asked because I need an excuse to not go to a different campus party
Not sure if I should respond or just show up

>>18657339
How the fuck do you approach girls that are complete strangers to you, e.g. in a bar, or in an event or whatever.

>>18657350

>I often dream I'm stuck up high, on like a mountain or something like that

It shows you are seperating yourself from people

>and I see people below but I cant do anything I can just see them.

You know there are people who can understand you but you are too afraid of them and don't know how to get close to them.

My cards shows that you have a long road ahead of you. So in time you should learn how to shape your relationships with people. Don't rush anything. Also i think you had a bad relationship and your heart got broken. It's time to leave it behind.

>>18657352

You should respond and speak casually. My cards show that you think nothing is important and you lost your hope. If you want to change stuff, it's an opportunity.

how to get my life moving? Im a neet at pparents home and every time i try to pick myself up and inject momentum, something inside me crumbles by next morning and it feels like i had a "motivation hangover." ill be depressed and eat like shit until the cycle repeats

>>18657377

I smoke cigarettes so i usually ask for lighter if i see them smoking. If they are not smoking, i just ask if i can sit with them if they are not expecting company since drinking alone is not fun. Direct approaches like that is always better. Just don't act weird.

>>18657393
well your cards are accurate
I dont know what to say though
I dont want to seem like a creep but I need to get our my dorm tonight

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I went to therapy because my suicidal thoughts are getting pretty intense at winter. I have got a small social circle which I enjoy. In spite of that fact that I made myself loaded, i.e. went to martial arts club, gym and so forth, plus university, saved money from my old job, I think I am unable to do the work, I feel somewhat detached from people. GF broke up, but still writes to me. I always dream and imagine myself being a godlike public speaker, craving for fame, actually I live alone and my only way to beat depression is to dance and dream simultaneously, while I am isolated, I can do this for hours. I am somewhat lost.

I want to be castrated, but I can't have it done without doing something awful. Advice me shaman OP.

>>18657397

It's fear of unknown you are experiencing. You want to know how it's like to live by your own, yet you fear what will happen. You are a bird, you have wings, yet you are afraid to use them. What good will come from not flying? Use your wings.

“Only the unknown frightens men. But once a man has faced the unknown, that terror becomes the known.” Antoine de Saint-Exupéry

A girl likes me to the point of crying when I haven't seen her in a while, even though she has a boyfriend. Is that something people do for just friends?

Should I continue being her friend until something happens or just stop hanging out with her?

>>18657410

You have what it takes to be a godlike public speaker actually. My cards tells me that you are actually pretty good at human relations yet you didn't realised it yet. Is there any dance courses near? Why are you not joining one of those courses? So you can socialise and do something you like at the same time.

>>18657400
I don't smoke, nor have money to spare to let's say buy her a drink.

Any other ideas?

>Direct approaches like that is always better. Just don't act weird.

I mostly go out with one or two friends of mine. I can't just dump them and go after a random girl I just met.

>>18657437

My cards tell me that you are getting attached to her. If you keep it that way your heart is going to get broken by her. If she truly loved you she would be with you my friend. I you want to make sure about her feelings just talk with her but no good is going to come out of this.

>>18657421
thank you, shamanon.

could i bother you to interpret my dream, please? basically I meet an ex gf. we get along, which is nice because we ended on bad terms. But she suddenly stops talking to me. On this one, she morphed into my close male friend. i wake up.

also I had a dream of a snowy mountain thats been bothering me.a lot of snow, and im alone.

also i sometimes have night terrors. recent one was of a fast moving snake the size of a log and covered in feathers circling me and scaring me. i was terrified but i grabbed it by the head and tossed it up into the sky. when it landed it was just a rug and some boxes.

>>18657451

You can always try apps like Tinder. I'm a poor shaman and if i can have a gf it means you can do it too. Also i checked out my cards and i see some woman who might be in love with you. So be careful and open your eyes.

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>>18657438
I dance not because I like to, but because it helps me to get a movement I lack, helps to get rid of suicidal thoughts. Therapist told I have a repressed anger. I think I'll stick to martial arts, temporary. Also I should cut the friendship with my ex, yet I am not sure. It feels she might be a good friend, but I don't know anything.

I also deeply care about my best friend. We do not chat with each other as often as we used to, he had lots of his personal troubles. Wish him the best.

Thank you, shamanon.

>>18657421
i did some more thinking of what you said.

Im terrified of leaving my parents. i know ill be fine. but once i move out, i feel like that will be the last i see of them, as i truly remember them. a blink of an eye will pass. and ill come back to visit, and theyll have already become haggard and senile.

I lost my grandmother to alzheimers very very slowly as a kid. My mother was tough, my dad was busy, but gramma had time for me. she lived with us, and shed cradle my already toobig body in her lap, saying buddhist prayers, telling stories, or telling me how happy she was to have a grandson like me.

then her stories started to get repetitive, she called me by names i didnt know. she stopped responding, she started needing around the clock care which drove my mom crazy. none of it ever made sense, not in my entire life until now. i dont thinj i even thought it affected me, and it made me feel cold. I didnt even cry that much when she finally passed.

but now im getting the idea that since the beginning, watching her slip put a deep fear of aging and loss inside me that ive never really looked at. i just love them so much, you know? i loved my grandma more than anything in the world. i love my parents too despite everything. and i didnt do anything for them and yet im going to move out and let them age into the same fate, it tears me up deep.

>>18657466
Well shit who could be in love with me?

Also no legit dating apps like tinder in the shithole that I live in.

>>18657457

>I meet an ex gf. we get along, which is nice because we ended on bad terms.

You want to have a gf and get along with her after your last experience

>But she suddenly stops talking to me. On this one, she morphed into my close male friend.

Your subconcious blames her for leaving you. Your friend helped you through your hard times and took the place of your gf in time.

>also I had a dream of a snowy mountain thats been bothering me.a lot of snow, and im alone.

You are feeling alone in a very bad situation. You should be strong and try not to be alone anymore. Otherwise you will never see the sun again on that snowy mountain top.

>also i sometimes have night terrors. recent one was of a fast moving snake the size of a log and covered in feathers circling me and scaring me. i was terrified but i grabbed it by the head and tossed it up into the sky. when it landed it was just a rug and some boxes.

Snakes usually symbolise enemies. Which shows that you are nerveus and can't relax. You are basically expecting something bad to happen all the time. You should realise you are not as weak as you think.

>>18657481

I checked my cards for you again. You can keep being friends with your ex if it's not bothering you but don't get emotionally attached to her. You are kinda doing it right now. It's not good for you.

Also your best friend is going to be okay as my cards say. You can even support him at his strugle. Don't be distant to him.

>>18657339
I have zero friends or social skills, but am attractive. Should I go to a bar? What should I do there? Is it okay to just sit with a drink, if you look good?

>>18657499
your gf interpretation really clicks with me.
I will try to not be alone, i dont really know how. i think i actively avoid friendship because of some weird fear.
Ill try to have faith in my latent strength
thank you man

>>18657490

I see... I can relate to you since my elder brother killed himself when i was 6. The thing is time is passing my friend. You can't hold it still by staying with your family. You have to make peace with your fears and keep on moving. You can always come back home when you wanted to. You don't have to be far away from your family.

I always like buddhist people. They are peaceful. I'm sure she tought you many important things. Hang on to her memory and what she taught you not to your fears.

>>18657493

Well, i don't know but definitely someone likes you and she might be closer than you think.

>>18657540
Closer than I think?

>>18657517

Being a man is a weird thing my friend. If you were a woman you would just sit there and people would come to you but you have to do some stuff to get a gf as a man. If you are really attractive, you should try dating apps. Because people literally only judge you by your look on that kind of apps. That would be a good starting point for you to learn how to speak and interract with women.

Will I ever have best friends? Hpw about will I ever actually be happy?

>>18657541

Yes, she might be someone around you. Do you have any female friends who are really close to you?

>>18657549
Thanks for the advice. Also, could you tell my fortune? And one last thing: most of the dreams I have revolve around eating a lot of food. Does this mean anything?

>>18657561

Yes, that dream means you have needs which must be satisfied. Also my cards tell me that you are having bad time in relationships right now but in the future it's going to change. You are going to fell in love.

>>18657339
After a couple years, I still check up on my manipulative and emotionally abusive ex.
I don't know why. i dont know how to stop. I absolutely hate him for cheating on me and giving me trust issues. When i see him i just wanna go up to him and ask why me. Why did you keep trying to reel me when you found yourself a new partner. Why did he treat me the way that he did. I saw him the other day and i was literally shaking and panicking.
The whole situation was fucked up. I initially said yes to being his girlfriend because I was excited that somebody was wanting to be my partner and I was finally going to get attention.
I broke up with him after the first two weeks and he attempted suicide, saying that our break up "triggered" it. So i got back with him, thinking it will fix his suicidal thoughts. But I only damaged him more by not reciprocating the "love" he had for me. I put quotes because we were way way too young to even understand what love was. This turned him into an angry, emotionally abusive cheater and we were in an on and off relationship for a year. Some days I wonder if it was my fault. Some days I wonder if I was the one that fucked him up, or if maybe it was just him. Either way, we were absolutely toxic for each other. I have no mental disorders besides a bit of an anger issues. I later found out long after we broke up he had a mental disorder the whole time. I just want to know why after years, I still remember everything he did.

>>18657557

You are going to have a best friend. He is kinda brown skinned and has dark hair. You will know him when you see him. Also happiness is not the destination you should arrive, it's the path you should take as they say.

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>>18657583

>>18657339
Ok so I've been dreaming about people trying to asault my home, first it was a guy that broke the door the shining style, I screamed I'd call the police and he ran away
The second dream was with 2 innocent dowm syndrome kids who had entered my house, one got a gun and started threating everyone in the house (funny I know)

The third is about a demon-ghost-like child who is trying to hunt me down


So, yeah, I've been reeeeally stressed because I have to work on my dissertation that I feel will take one year of my life. I also have to work from 8 to 6 pm every day and I get tired easily when working on the dissertation

I'm also getting fat oh wow, surprise surprise. The guy I like won't even talk to me. And I have 0 friends. Can't make friends for now because work and dissertation and my uni are killing me at the same time. Also, i have to pay for my mother's meds because she's got the canceroo

I am also getting a major in something I don't like. I don't enjoy my job but it's bearable. I hate myself because I did a lot of things badly and I mistreated potential friends because I was going through really rough times. Now I'm lonely as fuck and I hate myself.

If I am able to do everything quickly, my dissertation will only last one more year, but after that. I will be at a total loss. I will feel that I lost 5 years of my youth and I will want to kill myself.
I'm not in debt. At least I'm good at finance
But I can't help but cringe at social media seeing how everyone is so fucking normal and happy, with real comfy friends


Jesus fuck, I just want to end my life but I have hope, I hate this hope. I'm so anxious. I think I've had anxiety all my life.


And that's that
Also, I'm incredibly sexually frustrated, I'm a khv and It sucks I can't even imagine myself being intimate with a guy.


I sound neurotic and like a bad person, and I probably am, I just want some good friends and stop the anxious eating

What should I do OP?

>>18657451
>I don't smoke, nor have money to spare to let's say buy her a drink.
Not the OP, but fix your monetary problem with yourself first, then go after girls. Relationships are expensive and you might as well avoid focusing too much time and effort on them before you're financially stable "enough".

>>18657339
OP, I'd like my fortune, if you don't mind. Specially on love affairs.

>>18657579

Okay, let me tell you that first. My cards are showing that he had problems even before you. The things you did had no effect on how things evolved into that fucked up situation. You should stop blaming yourself. You are an emotional person. The reason behind why you are still checking him out is obviously you cared about him back in the day. You're not obsessed or anything.

Your future is not crystal clear because you are kinda hesitant about everything. When you learn to not think that much about everything, you are going to be a much stronger person.

>>18657597

You don't care about anything but love right now. That is not healthy. Someone is going to help you about your love life. If you let him lead you, you might find love. Otherwise your love life is not that bright in the future.

>>18657610
Do you think he hates me? Or maybe feels remorse for what he did?

>>18657624
Thank you! I might even know who's the chap that might help me.

I have 3 major problems I want concluded.

1. Anxiety. I want to cure my anxiety through nihilism. I want to change what made me anxious to begin with, I want to move on and I want to stop worrying about my myself and my future.

2. I am afraid of death. I want to stop being so afraid. I feel like every day is wasted, I feel fragile and mortal. I am afraid of dying with loose ends. I want to make amendments and find fulfillment.

I have a burning desire to be remembered, like someone famous, and I think its linked to being afraid of death. If I am remembered by everyone, I am not truly dead. If you know what I mean.

3. I want to get over her / make amendments.
We haven't spoken in half a year, I know she wouldn't turn me down if I did contact her, I just know I would never find the conclusion I've always needed by doing so.

These are my 3 major problems.

I guess I am also not looking forward to my future, but idk. Maybe it will be alright cause I have a few plans going.

>>18657589

>Ok so I've been dreaming about people trying to asault my home, first it was a guy that broke the door the shining style, I screamed I'd call the police and he ran away

You are literally waiting for someone to break your invisible walls and reach to you but at the same time you can't even imagine being close to someone. You should be more open.

>The second dream was with 2 innocent dowm syndrome kids who had entered my house, one got a gun and started threating everyone in the house (funny I know)

Yeah i chuckled... it's the same dream with different people. You want someone to reach you, understand you, love you but you have that invisible walls around you and you are afraid of they would fuck your life up even more.

>The third is about a demon-ghost-like child who is trying to hunt me down

This one i believe don't have a meaning. There are two types of dreams. Some of them have real messages hidden in them and some of them are just... well... dreams.

First of all, you are not a bad person, you are just feeling bad. That doesn't make you bad. You should spare yourself some time if it's possible.

My cards tells me that you don't like the place you are living in and you are in quite a bad spot right now and you should stop eating that much. In the future i see love.

You are an hypercritical person. Don't be too harsh on yourself. You are doing just fine, and you are going to do even better in the future. You just have to plan what you are going to do. Your mother is going to be okay too.

That was my last advice for today guys and girls. Now i have to sleep because i worked hard today and it's 3 am here. I'll be back tomorrow.

>>18657583
Thanks shaman chan

>>18657632

He blames you, but you are not the one to blame. He is the real problem.

How do I stop fearing death. Is god real?

>>18657678
And now I am crying op! you are right Wtf, but ty, I guess hope is never wrong. I do have lots of it ;_;

>>18657665

1. To cure anxiety you should reach the higher understanding of everything that surrounds you. When you understand life, you will no longer be anxious.

2. No one is brave enough to not fear death. It would be weird if you didn't fear death. My cards tell me that the thing you should look for, the essense of your life is love.

3.If you love her you should go after her and contact her. Like i said before, love is the thing you should go after. I promise you, you are not going to regret it.

Goodnight everyone.

>>18657690
Dude, me fucking too.

I made it worse by listening to a podcast with steve-o where he talks about his experience with drugs and seeing angels, demons and ghosts and shit ALL the time.

I know full well it was caused by auditory and visual hallucinations, but man, I can't say for certain it ISN'T real.

I'm agnostic, I am too afraid to denounce a god just in case I die and there is one.

I am so afraid of death. And afraid of others dying.

I feel so bad for those who lose their loved ones. I often feel like I want to be apart of their life to help them, but often find they don't need that lol.

I know I would.

>>18657707
Thanks for the response.

Very quickly though, with number 1, do you think I should do LSD? I heard it helps a lot, and could be a way to understand myself and life.

>>18657665

Also i forgot to say that, you are kinda control freak. Don't try to control everything.

What do I do, I kinda want to move on with my bf of 1 year, we love and respects each other and so on, but he never said he wants it and me neither. We are both introverts and really love our separate personal space (computers) and I don't know how does it even work out.

>>18657716

One of my friends tried using stuff like LSD and he got even worse. He is shaking non-stop right now. Don't use anything besides marijuana.

Hello OP

I can't have fun with the opposite sex because girls find me boring. Thing is that I'm searching for my soulmate even if I would like to have some fun. But I can't help myself to stop behaving so selective, even in friendships. I don't want to lose other opportunities to mess around a little bit without overthinking or overfeeling too much. And girls also don't like perfect husband wannabes.

Also I dream about a blonde wife and a blonde daughter, who love and care about me, they are from a far country, and I always fear that my wife will run away taking my daughter with herself.

Second dream is about an indian saviour with his snake. The saviour is next to the house of the mother of my aunt's husband, an old woman. Next to the house there is a courtyard with 4 entrances, populated with chickens and childrens playing with stones.

The last dream is about a bunch of mayan dwarfs carrying buckets of pure fused gold pouring them into a great stone pool.

Last but not least, it seems I really cannot find a job, I am always on the verge of changing my life, but somehow always happens something bad and everything goes to shit for a little detail.

can you help me?

>>18657729
I meant move together*
I'm not a native speaker

>>18657721
True actually. I don't know how not to be though if I'm honest.

>>18657731
Interesting I guess. I've heard lots of positive comments on using LSD in a controlled environment and people watching over you.

Supposedly creates new neurone connections or something along those lines?

I'm reluctant to try marijuana because
>smoking / cancer risk
>I don't want to do it often

I want a one time thing to give me a new perspective on life and the world around me.
I want to be an observer, so to put my thoughts into words.

Idk if marijuana really does that.

I can always kill myself if it fucks me up I guess

>>18657686
So if he blames me, should i try to talk to him to get closure? What should i do? How do i get over it?

>>18657713
>>18657690

God is definitely real and also there are other things you might call smaller gods yet none of those need your prayers and stuff like that. It's so complicated.

You can't stop fearing death. Death is an awful thing.

>>18657756
How do you know god is definitely real?

Why is death awful?

>>18657747

You don't need his forgiveness, he needs yours. Forgiving someone stops the karma. For what he did to you he is going to suffer but if you forgive him he will not suffer.

I just wouldn't speak to him to be honest. Just forgive him and get on with it.

I'm seriously sleeping after this post guys, see you later. Have a good night.

>>18657758

Religions actually does not revolve around the concept of god but concept of spirit. The first religions never talked about god yet they found out that everything living had a unique soul. They believed they could do everything with their souls yet they failed miserably. Human spirit can't generate enough power to do big things. Human beings found out about magick and other stuff like that when they realised there is god and started channeling his power for he is willing to share his powers with people who are willing to aid others.

God is real, because if there were nothing superior than me, i would not be able to fortune tell, heal, talk about dreams and stuff like that. It just happens that i can channel some of his powers through me so i can aid people. My mother did the same for such a long time and she taught me it's how it works. I guess it's about our bloodline.

>>18657339
I've been experiencing a recurring dream in which I am floating in a whiteroom, and my childhood crush is wrapping her arms around me as well as confessing her love "I love you anon, I've always loved you." This causes me to freak out and wake up in a panic, and it's destroying my sleep. What does it mean?

>>18658081

>I am floating in a whiteroom

You are living your own life, doing your own thing

>and my childhood crush is wrapping her arms around me as well as confessing her love "I love you anon, I've always loved you."

Since your childhood you wanted to be loved but you couldn't get enough love from anyone. So even now you are in need of being loved.

My cards show me that you don't like where you are living right now and you might have problems with your parents. They might be divorced. Your struggle is going to be about family, and being loved.

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>Be me
> Meet the most beautiful qt girl at work
> we talk and offers me lifts home if we clock off at the same time
> start getting attached, dream girl, see no flaws.
> Tell her i like her, says she knows
> receive the following

"so kinda put me in a bit of a situation.
i'm flattered that you like me, i really am, but i just don't think i'm ready for anything right now, i know that'll probably hurt, but i've just got so much going on.

i'm clearly not going to cut you off, i'm not like that at all,

all my last 3 relationships have been back to back; like no break what so ever, and that's what i need, i'm planning on going overseas for a while so i'm not going to lead you on.
it's not a waiting game because i don't actually know when. i can't give you a time frame.
you have gone above and beyond and i can say i've never really had that before and it was nice, i'm sorry if i have lead you on in any way and i know this isn't really the answer that you're after.

i don't need time to come up with an answer. i just don't want you waiting around for something that may not happen, right now, i can't say i have feelings for you, i'm sorry."

Ive never wanted to die more in my life than i want to now, every time i see her at work i wish i was dead, i miss her smile and the way she tried to make me smile everytime she saw me.

The pain is unbearable. What Do?

>>18658992

My cards tell me that you acted too fast on that one. She actually kinda likes you too but she needed time and your fast actions made her kinda scared. You should take it slow from now on. Be friends at the begining, and then it might evolve something more than friendship by itself. It's tricky since you acted boldly.

Also, as i see in my cards she has trust issues. So it's going to take a long time before she trust you.

>>18659045
Do you have any advice on how to recover?

>>18659050
give her space but not too much

>>18658992
Blow her off bitches love that sheit. And remember to never quit the game homey

>>18659050

I can't give you any advices about that. Whatever i say, you are going to feel the pain of your broken heart. So it's pointless. Only time can heal the wounds of your heart. I can only tell you that you should not try building a new relationship while you are still feeling that pain.

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I hate my boyfriend, I love my ex. My ex is a bad person and would probably hurt me if I tried to get back with him. What do I do?

Will I ever get back with my ex? I'm not able to think about any other men. Since we broke up, he's been on my mind every single day.

>>18659093
stockholm syndrome?

>>18659093

My cards tell me that if you get back with your ex you're going to break up with him again after a big argument. Also your feelings towards your ex is not completely love but basically you got used to him so much now you can't leave him.

My advice for you is if you hate your bf, you should break up with him and just get your thoughts straight before building a new relationship. You are too hesitant to be happy.

>>18659117
No. He's not that bad. He wasn't physically violent. It's just that he's bitter because I left him so if I tried to get back with him I'm afraid he'd try to mess with my feelings. It's something he's done with others before.

>>18659120
I just don't think I'll find anyone else who feels like they're a part of me. We felt similarly on so many things. We could talk all day without getting bored. Ask the cards this: will I find anyone else who will feel like my other half?

>>18659117
He was the type of guy who fancied himself to be a "puppet master". He messed with people's minds and feelings because it made him feel powerful. That makes me feel like I can't trust him and I can't lay my heart bare for someone I can't trust, right? Yeah, I think I can't get back with him. It hurts, though. It almost feels like a Romeo and Juliet situation, like we should be together but we can't.

>>18659126

Yes, you are going to find your other half. The thing is you are going to make changes in your life because of him and you are going to be kinda annoyed about that but he is going to love you so much, and you are going to love him so much that you are going to learn to tolarate each other.

>>18659135
Where will I find him? Where should I look?

>>18659141

I can't know when or where things will happen. I can just see if they are going to happen. He is a white male with kinda brownish hair though. You might know when you see him.

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>>18657481
>>18657511

One more time, shamanoid. I just refused to be friends to her, in spite of that fact I agreed the first time, I just made a notification. I can't get over it, it's unbearable. Considering that fact, what do cards show about love life?

>>18659159
Will we have kids?

>>18659172

Nope.

>>18659170

Hello again! You did the right thing. I don't want to shape your lives so i'm trying to only give you advices but the right thing to do was to leave her for sure.

In the future you are going to meet with someone yet you have to be careful. Some problems are going to occure. The thing you should understand is that you both are going to be on the same team against those problems. Instead of arguing you should focus on solving them as a team. You are already mature enough to understand this but your future gf is not going to understand it that easily.

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I've got 2 things I need help with

1. How do I make friends? I can get friendly with people but we never really hang out. Whenever I want to I'm worried that I would annoy them. I have some friends that I know well enough to be able to confidently ask them if they wanna fuck about but I fucking despise most of them.

2.My gf broke up with me a while back. She, 2 of our friends (one F one M) and I used to hang out all the time. This was about a month ago. I was on vacation for pretty much the entirety of that month. I would really hate to lose this group of friends just because of her. How do I make sure I don't lose them?

>>18657740

bump

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How do you keep the power in a relationship?

What do you do when your girl insults you over text?

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>>18659187
After my notification she read but didn't even answer. I started to feel extremely shitty, immediately.

>>18659281

I'm terribly sorry for i missed your post.

>Also I dream about a blonde wife and a blonde daughter, who love and care about me, they are from a far country, and I always fear that my wife will run away taking my daughter with herself.

You would like to have a serious relationship but you have trust issues. You have to overcome your trust issues first.

>Second dream is about an indian saviour with his snake.

You are waiting to be saved by someone who is stronger than you.

> Next to the house there is a courtyard with 4 entrances, populated with chickens and childrens playing with stones.

You are going to socialize but most of those people won't appeal you. Number 4 is important for christian belief system. In dreams it usually symbolizes that you are going to have to make important choices in your life.

>The last dream is about a bunch of mayan dwarfs carrying buckets of pure fused gold pouring them into a great stone pool.

It basically shows that you care so much about money and probably it's because you don't have enough money.

Jobs are everywhere. I'm a collage student. I walk dogs, teach english and do shamanist rituals for people and still manage to survive. You should think outside the box.

>>18659276

1. To make friends you should find people with similar interests. If you love playing video games, go and find people who likes it. You will make friends really fast that way.

2. It depends. If those guys you are talking about is closer to you then her, they will stay around you. Otherwise you don't have much of a choice.

>>18659299

Well, it's only normal. Think like this, if you kept hanging out with her you would get even more attached to her emotionally and how hard that would be to break those bonds after that point. You did the right thing, if she wants you she should have not broken up with you at the first place.

>>18659286

Well, last time my gf insulted me by saying "I don't need your money." and she lost her credit card. Then she begged me for money. It's one of the advantages of being shaman. If i was not a shaman i would try to show her that how childish she acts but wouldn't insult her. You are the man, you should be the man.

I don't know what kind of relationship you guys have but in my relationship i'm the one who dominates in the bed, who brings home the money, who makes decisions and my gf just loves it.

>>18659325
>1. To make friends you should find people with similar interests. If you love playing video games, go and find people who likes it. You will make friends really fast that way.

The thing is, I'll only attract either complete fucking losers or violent people who are two steps away from becoming criminals.

>>18657339
How should I approach the

>>18657339
What is the best approach for me to becoming rich?

>>18659349
I asked her "Why are you always like this" and she told me "Either deal with me or leave me"

Would it have been appropriate for me to just stop texting her at that momment?

>>18659352

Well, all of my friends are losers and nerds. I think they make the best buddies. It's up to you when it comes to attracting certain group of people. What you wear, how you speak, your interests... These are all important parameters. The reason why you are attracting losers and violent people is your energy and your style is similar to theirs most likely. God knows i'm attracting nerds, hippies and losers because my energy is much closer to their energy than normies energy.

>>18659315

thank you man!!!

>>18659368

She is obviously not giving a single fuck about you my friend. Probably you loved her too much, now she thinks you are not that important. Just stop texting and wait for her text.

>>18659368

Also, did you asked her if something is wrong? Something looks wrong on my cards. Ask her if she is okay first if she keeps humiliating you just tell her that you are going to leave her to be for a moment because obviously she needs it.

>>18659386
We broke up after that convo. She lost attraction to me, told me she doesn't love me anymore and it feels like we're stuck. I have no fucking idea what I did for her to lose attraction so I think that she stopped respecting me and it all went downhill after that.

>>18659394

Well, it is not about respect. Let me give you an example. One of my friends were in love with a girl. I warned him multiple times about that girl because she was a total bitch inside. After a couple of weeks they broke up and my friends heart was broken. I looked into their relationship and i found out that bitch met with someone else on Tinder so she gave up on my friend.

So what i want to say is, some people are just not mature enough to experience the love. Love is something special and not everyone can feel it or make it work.

You just met with one of those people.

>>18659405
Not trying to be a dick head, but, how are you so sure about that?

>>18659409

Did you do anything to lose her respect? How can you even lose someone's respect if they are in love with you, seriously? Even if you did something wrong to her, if she loved you she would come and talk with you about it to solve the problem. You are saying she just insulted you and said "take it or leave it". That's not how love works, right?

>>18659422
I guess. But I think that she had more control over the relationship than I did.

I'm in love with a Witch.

>>18657377
Just say hi

>>18659429

That's because she didn't care about you. She acted carelessly and that made you feel like she was in chage. Actually she just did whatever the fuck she wanted to do because she didn't care about you and your feelings.

>>18659433

Damn, good luck. I did the same mistake once. You might think Shaman and Witch would get along well, but witches are batshit crazy.

>>18659433
lol

I don't know how to form relationships with people. Even if I like someone I'm unable to get closer and form a friendship. Basically I don't know how to go from acquaintance to friend.

>>18659446

By saying hi and having a casual talk. That's how you do it. If you are having hard time about that you should practice it on internet first. It's always easier when you are not face to face with people.

>>18659436
Idk. At one time i was pretty pissed at her and she tried to fix that.

>>18659455

My cards shows that she respected you. Your relationship was short because you two basically couldn't get along with each other.

>>18659473
>My cards show

what.

how does that work?

what ethnicity are you?

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Something's been on my mind for a awhile now,

How do you deal wtih studying a major you hate and an inability to feel love? I'm tight on options and I can't transfer to another program since I fucked up my only chance. Now I just self study what I enjoy in my spare time, but there's something agonizing about spending 1000s on shit you hate.

Alao, the one brief period where I was given the opportunity to try and transfer into a program I wanted, I couldn't meet the average since I spent 8 months feeling terrible from a breakup. I tell myself now that I've moved on, but I still catch myself thinking about her every once in a awhile. Ontop of that, I don't feel much of a spark anymore when it comes to relationships. Will I ever really forget or learn to live with it?

>>18659477

Ethnicity doesn't matter. Let's say i'm from earth and i'm a shaman. My mother was also a shaman.

how should i formulate the question itt? ALL the details?

i girl i thought that liked me is now on almost 2 days of radio silence. I do not understand since things seemed to be going well.

>>18659493
I thought you were native american or something. Anyways, how does that work exactly?

Ok I've got a dream for you:

I'm walking towards this house in the middle of a forest, not particularly dark just a spread out, light forest;
there's a tall dry bush near a corner of the house that envelops it and it's filled with hanging snakes, they're all perfectly still with their tongues out and their heads cocked up,
I try to be careful and take a long way round to get inside the house but one of the snakes (the one with the lightest green color) start moving as if he noticed me and drops down the bush to follow me.
I get inside the house, the interior looks like my house but I only remember seeing my room, it's pitch dark inside and a few of my friends are hanging around my bed with only one flashlight just chilling, I sit on the bed with them and I notice the snake entering the room and in the darkness somebody quickly cuts his head off and it falls right between my legs on the bed.

Then I wake up freaking out trying to push the head away.

What did they mean by this?

>>18659491
Oops, forgot to add shamanon, I also had a dream where I was in the military. I was in the middle of desert, surrounded by dead allies. I had enough supplies to go, and I walked forward into vast. nothingness. I knew I had to fight for something, but it was for something I didn't evdn know myself.

I have a problem. I'm a college student living with my emotionally and verbally abusive narcissistic single mother. I also have siblings that are very young. How can I make sure they're safe when I'm able to leave? Our extended family is full of enablers. I worry about their safety because my mother is lazy and sometimes brings men to the house "as friends". However, it's not enough to call cps

>>18659491

I like that gif.

First of all, i'm studying something i don't like too and i understand you are frustrated about not making your only shot count but we all miss certain opportunities. So you can't blame yourself for not being lucky enough. Life is like a running river. Don't struggle for going to the opposite direction but be in harmony with it.

About your second question. My cards shows me that your heart is really broken not only because you break up with your gf but also you were not ready for it yet.You were in a bad spot in your life when that happened. It's going to get time for you to heal but don't worry, you are going to be even more passionate about everything in the near future after you get on your feet again.

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>>18659516
Thanks shamanon, I'll try to remember what you've said. Have another gif.

>>18659497

I've never been to USA. It's really complicated. Also i'm going to eat and do some stuff i have to do. I'll be back at night.

Reading all these answers from OP made me so calm for some reason, i really enjoy this thread.

>>18659494
should i tell more details?

>>18659560

Just give me enough details to understand the subject like everyone else.

>>18659501

>I'm walking towards this house in the middle of a forest, not particularly dark just a spread out, light forest;

You have some problems, yet you are still pushing forward since they are not that big of a deal for you.

>there's a tall dry bush near a corner of the house that envelops it and it's filled with hanging snakes, they're all perfectly still with their tongues out and their heads cocked up,

There are some dangers on your path, so you should be careful while you are dealing with your problems.

>I try to be careful and take a long way round to get inside the house but one of the snakes (the one with the lightest green color) start moving as if he noticed me and drops down the bush to follow me.

You are careful but you can't avoid some of the problems.

>I get inside the house, the interior looks like my house but I only remember seeing my room, it's pitch dark inside and a few of my friends are hanging around my bed with only one flashlight just chilling, I sit on the bed with them and I notice the snake entering the room and in the darkness somebody quickly cuts his head off and it falls right between my legs on the bed.

Your friends are always there for you. Don't hesitate to ask for their help when you are in a bad spot. One of your friend cuts the head of the snake. It means he solves the problem for you.

You have great friends.

>>18657339
Im having trouble in the relationship department of life.
>Not particularly unattractive but girls tend to stay away
I'm really outgoing and overall a nice guy compared to every other dude that goes to my school, i'm respectful to women, i know how to make and hold conversation for hours with no silence if needed, but everytime i express feelings towards any girl the common answer is they arent interested. Adv?

>>18659510

Damn, it's a bad situation. Can you ask for help? Is there any relatives who can help you? I'll try to cast a spell to calm her down a bit but i'm not really good at casting spells.

>>18659504

> I was in the military. I was in the middle of desert, surrounded by dead allies

You've been strugling and lost many things.

> I had enough supplies to go, and I walked forward into vast. nothingness. I knew I had to fight for something, but it was for something I didn't evdn know myself.

You notice that your strugle is over for now, but in the future you know you have to strugle again. You just don't know with what. The important part here is that you have enough supplies in the dream. So it means whatever comes in your way, you know you have a power to deal with it in real life. Supplies symbolizes that.

>>18659603

I need more details on that one. Are you acting impatient or something? If you are expressing your feelings too fast, that might cause some problem.

It takes some time to find the right woman also. You have to ask for a date to many girls and one of them will accept it. It's how it works.

Last night I dreamt that I was kicking all these people out of my house (or something that was supposed to resemble my house). Shouting and physically dragging them out the door. There was something going on outside in the world, like some kinda crisis I think. The people kept trying to come back in. I said I was gonna call the cops and I felt my voice shake and even my wrist limp as I felt like I was going to cry. I was talking big but deep down very insecure.

Later on I come to a body of murky water with a bridge in the distance. Attractive man in a full suit and briefcase comes past me and enters the water like he is gonna drown himself. I pull him back and ask whats wrong. Give him a hug and stay embraced without even asking. I straddle him and he rests his chin on my head as he tells me his troubles. Water starts swaying us and we end up kind of grinding and getting really hot & sexy. Pulls out "my wife and kids" mid convo and I slide off him like woahhh..I can't be doing this.

>>18657339
Hey man. I've got an issue in life. I'm stuck in my own head most of my days and because of this I've accumulated so many disastrous habits and self-defeating beliefs. Sometimes I catch myself going off on the moon(i.e. not down to earth). I'm severely entrenched in escapism.
What would you recommend to someone to overcome such habits? I've heard that routines, time tracking, and appointment setting can help get you back grounded since these things are expressions of responsibility and worldly affairs at their core.

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>>18659631
Pic related. This is the most recent example.
>Girl is off at college but still lives close to our home town
>I went to school with her and participated in the theatrical productions with her so we know eachother a decent amount
We've never really talked on a personal level though, mostly just shooting shit and small talk, but she is beautiful both inside and out so i can't help but have a little crush on her you know?

>>18659569
> date this girl 3 times
> she has student introduction week in my town
> she stays over 2 days
> send her a 'have fun' yesterday
> radio silence since

note im always initiating everything never her. I am frustrated about it and jealous/insecure that she is not making me the priority

>>18659650

Her short answers shows that she was not interested in you at the begining. So you should choose your targets wisely.

>>18659639

>Last night I dreamt that I was kicking all these people out of my house (or something that was supposed to resemble my house).

You are sick and tired of everyone. Sometimes you just want to be alone.

>There was something going on outside in the world, like some kinda crisis I think.

You don't like going outside that much.

> I said I was gonna call the cops and I felt my voice shake and even my wrist limp as I felt like I was going to cry. I was talking big but deep down very insecure.

You can't be alone, because you need other people actually. Without them you feel emotional and insecure.

>Later on I come to a body of murky water with a bridge in the distance. Attractive man in a full suit and briefcase comes past me and enters the water like he is gonna drown himself.

You have problems and you actually know how to solve them. Also you want to have a good ol' fashioned sex. Because of that you are looking everything sexually right now. It kinda blinds you. Yet you are still aware of what you are doing.

My advice to you: Have sex and focus on passing that murky water by using that bridge in the distance.

>>18659667

>note im always initiating everything never her.

Here is the keyword. If she is not initiating anything that means she doesn't want to do something with you anymore. There is no point of insisting.

>>18659679

:D Many thanks. Yeah, I do think I need to get dicked down real hard. Just broke up a long term relationship for several reasons, lack of sex being one.

>>18659645

You should find real stuff which intrests you and also you can try appointments and stuff too. It's a good idea.

>>18659685
why did she always agree then?

>>18659699

I don't know. Did you guys had sex? Maybe she needed that kind of stuff and you didn't provide it or something who knows.

People usually lie to be polite. So you should understand that they might say something good but actually they might mean something completely different. You should be more carefull about their mimics and stuff.

>>18659708
we were pretty close. we had sex/sexual contact. we both slept together and also just chilled and cuddled. Maybe me saying initiating everything was overreacting but planning the dates is all me.

>>18659690
Yeah I can try doing that. At this point it feels just so natural to detach myself from everything around me. It has affected my ability to think critically and behave appropriately in social situations.
My issue here is that I'm inconsistent with my interests.

>>18659712

Interesting, did something bad happened at your last date or something?

>>18659716

Maybe you should try some group activity then. You can't let your partner down so you have to be consistent this way.

>>18659719
it was not a traditional date. like i said she had a student introduction party week and she stayed over 2 times after a night of partying. I mean either there is nothing wrong and she just not texting me right now or she met someone else.

>>18659731

I guess she just hanged out with you for 2 days and then just kept on going with her life.

About a month back I was outside a bar having a cigarette when a girl came up to me and asked me for a lighter. Instead of going back over to her friends, she decided to hang around and strike up a conversation with me. Nothing particularly overly flirty was said or done (apart from a touch on the arm), we were just making small talk and asking each other a few things, but it was mostly her who was keeping the conversation going, as I was being pretty shy like I usually am. But she only decided to go back to her friends when she said she owed one of them half of her cigarette and seemed really keen to get the conversation going as much as she could. As I left to go back inside, she stopped me to ask me my name.

Fast forward a month later, and I keep seeing her around the area that I work in, so she obviously works around there too. At least, I'm 95% certain it's her. She's really good looking and I'm kicking myself for not asking for her number. Would it be worth approaching her and striking up a conversation? The thing is, I'm worried that she won't remember who I am. It was fairly late into the night and presumably she'd had a bit to drink.

Thoughts? I'm a pretty shy guy so how would I go about approaching her, if it is worth approaching her? Realistically, what do you think would happen if I went up to her and said I recognised her from that night? Would she also appreciate some guy accosting her while she's on her lunch break or waiting for the bus home or whatever?

Also would there even be any point in talking to her, or would she have just wanted a one night stand and that being the end of it?

>>18659735

You'll never know without asking it to her champ. You should just casually speak with her i belive. If she acts close to you again, you will have a reason to ask for her number. If she acts distant you will just pull yourself back. You lose nothing.

>>18657558
Only 1
She keeps mentioning other dudes all the time though.

>>18659722
That has worked great in the past. I suppose it would also help with self esteem issues. Two birds with one stone. Thanks anon.

I am worried about everything. I dont know if ill every find a girl that really loves me. I dont know if i will find a happy and enjoyable future.

I have this reoccuring dream that keeps me from sleeping.

It always starts with me sitting at my kitchen table eating a bowl of salad with a girl sitting in front of me, it's always somebody I know but the person changes every time I then make eye contact with her and she asks the following question: "Why do you always turn a blind eye" I then look down to see that my salad is growing/expanding out of the bowl very fast I then get up and back away a bit as it shapes into a humanoid. The saladman then violently grabs the girl and bends her over the kitchen table, takes her pants off and starts raping her I then feel the urge to take out my dick and start stroking it at the same rythm as the saladman is plunging his into the girl.

At this point I usually wake up in a sweat and have trouble getting back to sleep the loss of sleep is starting to affect me. Any thoughts on what this dream means or on what I can do to stop it from reoccuring?

I met this girl about a month ago, and we've been texting every day since. A few weeks ago I discovered she was dating a guy, but broke up with him about a week ago. We can talk about anything to one another, and nothing is off limits. I feel so good when I talk to her, and we love spending time together; but I don't know how to convince her that we should start dating. I feel like we're too close, if that makes sense. Advice?

>>18657729
Pls respond, shaman chan

>>18657788
Why would you not be able to talk about dreams if there were no God? That statement is one of the dumbest I've ever read.

Also, you can't see the future or heal people.

>>18659882
You feel guilty and ashamed of something. It isn't one incident, but two. You hold a negative association with sex, and regret choosing what you believe is comfortable over what you believe is right. The latter point seems to exist in two different ways. Personal choice, and physical events.

To make these dreams go away, you must come to terms with yourself, and your choices. Accept who you are, or become who you must.

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>>18660618
Thank you so much OP, my eyes are open now I know what's left to be done and who I must become...

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>>18657339
How do I open up to people? I'm 3 weeks in into my freshman year of college and most of my classmates have already found their own group of friends. I'm pretty quiet in class but that's because I don't know anyone. Also, my friends tell me I never call them and it makes me feel like a piece of shit. Why are people so fucking complicated?

>>18657339
i can never get a gf anymore since my ex and i broke up about a year or 2 ago. Im always being played with or not shown intrest by others. I am a 6/10 tall, skinny guy who just wants to do something other than being at home browsing /b/ all day

Okey OP, could you tell my fortune? Im going to start a music college this year and i'm wondering how the path im going to take is going to work out.

I used to be obese, to the point where I was disgusting to look at. My personality was fantastic, people liked to hang around me, I was hilarious, had no problem talking to people. 3rd year of college, I fall into a depression. I get even fatter, become less social, drink more.

2 years out of college I lose weight, smallest I've been since highschool. My personality is a complete train wreck. I have no idea how to speak to people about anythign of substance. I follow politics, read, watch film analytically, play videogames, yet I can never convey any of that in a conversational manner except amongst close friends, of which I have few and interact with less and less. I'm attractive physical now, just ugly mentally. I always thought it was how I looked that led to having no girlfriend and being a virgin. It turns out I just dont have the ability ot be attractive, no matter what I look like. Im sitting here on a saturday night, no plans, only a bottle and videogames. I want to drink alone and cry. I think I'm a broken person and no matter how much I try to improve myself, I can never escape the feeling of being empty.

Feeling so overwhelm with life right now, I'm 22 turning 23 soon and still dependent on my parents. Got a shitty job that pays peanut, but stuck with it to pay some of the bills and help out at home, an excuse to live with them honestly. Procrastinating a lot instead of working on some form of education to get out of my current mess. And feeling sad, depress and lonely. I do have a friend to talk to. Anyway the point is I'm unhappy and I don't know where to start in order to turn my life around. Love that you're helping out people Shanon.

>>18660049
Anybody?

>>18657339
Thanks in advance, anon. I've tried analyzing my situation until I'm almost comatose, but I think I'm just too close to make any sense of anything.

So, a few years back I got involved in a local community theater group. It was fun; I hadn't done any of it since high school. There were a lot of beautiful women around as well, which didn't suck. That first year I worked tech for them, and during the show noticed one actress in particular. I didn't get the chance to learn anything about her, but when I decided to try for a role the next year we finally met. Long story short, we became (and still are) really close friends. The kicker, though, is that there's an age difference. I'm 33, she's 19. We talk all the time, have similar senses of humor and tastes, and she's told me that I'm one of the few people she feels she can talk openly with. I'm content to be great friends, truly I am, but I now I'm realizing that I've fallen for her. I'm terrified of the age difference, plus how we're both in two different phases of our lives. I don't know what to do, because I don't want to ruin our friendship, but sometimes I think I catch a vibe that there could be something more on her end. I even heard it from a mutual friend that she's admitted that she'd want to date me were she my age. I'm kind of a hot mess right now, because I don't want to be the creepy old guy, nor the guy who ruined something great because he "wanted more." I tried opening up to a few close friends of mine who know us both, but they're advice was much more staid, along the lines of dating a single woman only a few years younger than I am who was also in the theater company this year. I'm not opposed to doing that, but she's not exactly "my type," plus there's all my confused feelings about my friend.

Anyway, I know it's a wall of text, but I kinda needed to get it out of me before I ruptured something. Any advice or wisdom you could offer would be awesome. Peace and love.

>>18657339
Already made a separate thread for this but I'll ask here anyway: I've been feeling like shit since a few days ago for no apparent reason at all. I mean real fucking bad. I think and think and cannot figure out why. Nothing bad has happened to justify this.

I have no social life and this has bugged me before, but I'm not exactly a neet since I go to uni, gym etc. What is making me lose my shit is that I can't seem to find the reason for this feeling. It has come and gone in intensity throughout these past days and I'm legit worried about it.

>>18657339
My ex left me a few months back

She thought I was using her for sex, and towards the end I wasn't there for her like I should've been (she's got depression and anxiety)

After she left I apologized but to no avail in fact if anything it might've made it worse

She rebounded to another guy but I don't think they're together anymore and I have a feeling she has a mother guy but I really don't know

I still miss her a lot, she was my first love and I was hers

Haven't spoken to her since the end of May and that was me apologizing

This is what troubles me :(
I still want her back and I just don't know anymore
So I open to advice about this

>>18661742
I'm just adding on to this

I dream about her sometimes, sometimes I hurt her in those dreams and wake up feeling sad and sometimes I dream that we're together again and I awake feeling sad also cause we're not

>>18657339
I need to get up and start doing shit, but most of the times I go "meh" and spend the day staring at the phone, as my computer died.
All the friends I had already gave up on me, they still check if I'm alive sometimes, but don't try taking me out any more.
I know it's wrong, but can't make myself do anything.

I dream of lotsa shit, but the most hurtful ones are where I live a life I could have lived if I weren't a potato. Like hanging out with friends, finding a good job, writing books, learning to play the guitar and stuff, studying and finding a girlfriend.

>>18657339
Shaman, is astral projection possible?

I've been out of touch with my emotions for the past year. Nothing feels the way they used to. I rarely laugh, smile or even feel sad when I'm supposed to.

How can I get more in touch with myself emotionally?

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How do you deal with a friend with bpd? It's extremely hard to manage sometimes but also sometimes ask myself if I am handling it correctly.

For some context:

>me and friend at a bar watching the fight
>he's extremely stingy with money and is incredibly demanding when I owe him something
>understandable but at times he can be a dick about this
>says something like "you're paying me as soon as we get home"
>this makes me feel somewhat awkward so I make a joke saying "actually, now we are even. Every time you use the wifi at my house I've been adding $5 to your tab"
>gets genuinely angry at this, takes it seriously and starts talking about all the times I've been at his house and had food there
>tell him to calm down, I was just joking
>think at this point he realizes he misunderstood the joke but refuses to admit it
>starts acting weird and bubbly, this concerns me so I point it out
>say dude if you were actually angry with the joke just say so, you don't have to shroud your emotions (I drew parallels to another time he's done this)
>now says yeah he was joking to, and that his joke was rapidly fluctuating between moods
>I think this is weird because it almost sounds like this is a defense mechanism
>think he was embarrassed by his bipolar response and tried to cover it up
>said something about "I know you care about my bipolar disorder so I manipulated you to make a joke of it" and basically get me all riled up

This obviously isn't normal, and I wasn't definitely upset at the last thing he said. Throughout the excursion I was just trying to tell him that he should critically self reflect in the moment about what's he's feeling and judge if it's an appropriate reaction. He got mad at this.

Maybe I did something wrong for putting him in a bad spot, but I was genuinely just trying to get him to realize this, and that he should feel comfortable enougharound me to be honest about his reactions.

How could I have better handled the situation? If at all

Yo OP. A girl had a thing for me but i didnt pursue it for sometime. Then when i began to realise i did aswell some fucking medical shit came up and i havent seen her for like a month. I know she still likes me but all i have is this feeling of being too fucking late- coupled with the thought of having it reflect my personality ultimately hurts. I dont know how you would help but hey- if you could.

Hey there, first time poster here. I feel like I'm in a weird spot in my life right now and I don't know how I should deal with it.
In the past I was extremely shy, depressed, had really low self esteem and on top of that I was fat. Now I got in shape, I'm a lot more sociable and don't let bad thoughts get at me. I also have a lot of things I want to do with my life, alongside a couple of hobbies such as drawing, photography, lifting, reading and playing instruments. Basically I'm striving to be a better me every day.
But it's never enough. No matter how much I improve I am never pleased with myself. Friends and family are complimenting me on my achievements but I feel like I don't deserve them. When they say "wow, you are really good at [x]" I'm thinking "I'm not. It's nowhere near my goal. I must be better.". In everything I do I only see the imperfections.
Another problem I have is that I can't understand love. I can't imagine myself loving another person the way my friends do, for example. I think part of it is because of my parents who are always arguing, or perhaps it's because I am expecting too much from other people the same way I expect a lot from myself.
Can you help me, shaman?

My boyfriend left me because he heard i cheated on him and that im a slut.I would never cheat on him but i doubt he would believe me...is there a way to get him back?

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can you do the card reading thing for me too?What kind of info do you need?
As for dreams, I only remember the shitty ones where I'd get in conflicts with people I know. Because real life anxiety wasn't enough, I have to dream about it too.

>>18657731
I just want to give my input on this because lsd had the opposite effect on me. It helped me realize things about myself and a single trip helped me realize that I wanted to stay away from all the hard drugs I had been taking for 3 years. I've been over a year clean from everything but weed now, and my mindset has been much better, I've been able to deal with my anxiety in a more rational manner and I would definitely recommend tripping once or twice a year to indulge in a "spirit quest" of self realizations. But that is just my experience, and although I have met people whom have had similar ones, I've also met people like your friend who did not have such enlightening trips. So it all comes down to personal choice and how the first experience is that sets the tone for what lsd does for you.

I've made a lot of life progress despite still being low class. I feel like I could be making a lot more if I didn't still feel bad about getting my heart broken by my ex almost a couple years ago. I just want that sinking feeling at night to go away