Turning someone down

>>18655421
Tell em straight up. It's always better to be direct then alittle bitch.

>>18655421

Straight up, nothing good comes from the second one.

>>18655421
Straight up while stepping on my nuts please, master.

>>18655421
Depends on how assertive the "hint" is.
"Sorry, I can't come, I have a date already that day" is a hint everyone is going to get (it is barely a hint anymore honestly). On the flipside simply answering his texts late is likely not going to cut it.

>>18655421
I'd prefer the latter be done to me, seems less embarrassing.

>>18655431
>>18655450
^this
>>18655452
^not sure

I'm a dude and don't mind a hint

>>18655421

I'm honestly surprised people legit would rather be ignored/made retards of rather than be told the truth upfront.

I'd be much more comfortable if any girl simply told me she wasn't into me. Of course you can be a huge bitch about it, but if you act like a normal fucking person the dude should get it just fine.

>>18655563
You're stupid and wrong.

>>18655593
kys avoidant faggot

I hate to be "that guy" but young people are passive-aggressive as fuck and it pisses me off

>>18655597
I'm 31

>>18655597
>>18655600
Guys calm down, there's no right answer. Different people want different things.

Anyone else advocating for giving hints over directly telling them?

>>18655421
Straight up. I do the same, I tell them directly because it's not right to lead someone on or make them feel like shit by ignoring them.

>>18655421
First one.
Saves both of us time and energy.

>>18655421
There's not much of a difference really. If you're being clear and persistent enough in your approach, she'll be clear enough with her response even when she's not being that direct

Depends on when you do it. If you didn't say it the first time then waiting and being blunt on another occasional is the worst and is bound to cause an over dramatic scene.

Some people also can't make up their mind with what they want either

>>18656177
You think so? Going on a second date and telling them you're not interested is the worst?

>>18656177
>>18656312

depends on the guy desu if hes the type who no matter how many hints he gets still has hope tell him straight up
if your feeling nice a guy with any self respect will appreciate having his ego spared with hints

>>18655600
I'm 9 and what is this