pic unrelated, i am atheist
I am not going to do the long text. I will put it as simple as this. Does sex come back or no? We had it in the beginning, it's decreasing over time. When does it even stop getting worse? Should I dump her now or suffer for another 3 years and then have to divorce her?
>>18652825
depends. for the mosdt part it doesn't. once in awhile there will be a sort of 'resurgence' where it happens again, but then it fades out again. and resurgences can be only if you're lucky.
kinda your call. your life.
Not really, no. I hope you enjoy her company for more than merely sex and perhaps one or two other aspects. If not, break up. If you're only in it for the sex anyways, just break up and hire hookers if it's that important. Or, Tinder if you're charming enough.
>>18652825
This is why they say relationships are work. You have to constantly try to find new ways to be interesting to one another. If you get plowed 50 times the same way, you're going to get tired of it. That's hard for you to understand because your dick feels good no matter what. But for someone on the receiving end, the same shit is boring as fuck and eventually you don't feel the need to do it. Talk to your partner and find out what they want and desire and what they'd like to experiment with. Learn what makes them tick. Are they more affectionate when they have a few days off from work? That's a good clue that stress makes them upset, and they don't want sex when they're stressed. So try to make life less stressful for them. Do they tend to be more affectionate when they have their period? Figure those dates out and capitalize on them,
A woman will never be as gung-ho as you for sex. So figure out their patterns and work with them.
Take control of your life. If you're not satisfied with your sex life, discuss it with her. Communication is necessary in all things, especially sex. If she's not willing to compromise or accept/offer a solution, and that's a deal breaker for you, I guess you'll have to go your separate ways.
When you talk with her make sure you use only "i" statements, (e.g. I feel.., It seems to me like...)
God this board is full of boring paranoid faggotrons.
I've been with my now-wife for 12 years, and we have sex at least twice a week on average.
You gotta try, fucko.
>>18652825
When sex ends, the relationship ends. Pick up what's left of your dignity and move on.