Got used as a rebound

>>18651606
>I'm with her for over a year now, the friend said I should forget It, because now she really loves me.
Then forget about it. What other option do you have, other than to leave your girlfriend?

She had sex with someone else that wasn't you in her lifetime. Why the hell would you stay with her anyways? She seems like a dirt bag

>>18651606
Look. Shit like this happens, and the only thing you can do about it is sit down with her and have a civilized conversation about it. NOT a fight, NOT passive aggressive - tell her how you feel and what is making you feel uncomfortable directly. If she really loves you like her friend says, she should easily be able to articulate how she feels about you and assure you that your relationship is important to her.

I'm coming at this from the other side of the table, I started developing feelings for one of my best friends at college while I was in a LDR with my high school girlfriend. Long story short, the LDR catastrophically imploded on itself, and after waiting a while and thinking on it - I made the move. That friend and I have been dating for over a year now - but there was a long period where she was insecure thinking that she was a rebound. I did everything I could to convince her otherwise and now we're going strong.

>>18651606
And to tack on a little extra, if she doesn't care about the relationship - don't let yourself get sucked into something that will just make you feel worse later on. Take action and stand up for yourself, no one deserved to get used.

>do not become an emotional cuck

I mean, I'd be real offended at first, but when you let it boil down, does that really impact your relationship today? It's been a year, so all things considered, it seems like you won.

Basically what I'm saying is that if she's a decent girlfriend and is putting effort in, then I'd try to let it slide. Talk to her if you are still bothered by it, because you have every right to be.

>>18651606
I was a rebound dude who ended up in a relationship a year long that we only ended because she left for college in another state. We're even still friends now, if she's still with you it doesn't matter if you WERE a rebound before. You're the boyfriend now.

>>18651606
Lots of guys are rebound guys. You have to realize women aren't like men where after breaking up it could easily be a year+ before meeting someone else.

I knew my current gf when she broke up 4 months prior to us having sex.

I think it's pretty sad that she was using you to make her ex jealous and that's something else but the important thing is whether or not she's still doing that shit or if she's done thinking about that guy.

>>18651606
Don't disregard the possibility that your GF's friend is lying to you.
other than that
>>18652398
this