I'm only 18, married and struggling to find reasons to keep on going. My husband has cheated 4 times, my best friend sent my nudes to everyone on my facebook, and I suffer from severe DID. To top it all off, just this year I lost my job and ability to breathe independently, having to use a respirator almost every day. I don't know what do to anymore because I know I'm a burden to my husband and my abusive mother. Anyone got any advice?
guess ya shouldn't have gotten married at 18 ya dink! LOL
>>18651444
bait thread
>married
>18
Doubtful
>>18651444
Just pull the plug.
>>18651472
>>18651481
Had to get married to get away from my abusive parents legally, if i could've chosen to get married later and still get away from my parents I would've
>>18651444
you're going to make it and i want the best for you. you will pull through this. am praying for you
>>18651487
Planning on it :( I've got nothing left
>>18651492
shoulda just joined the military like any other dysfunctional adult
>>18651493
Thank you, i appreciate this so much, blessings on you and your family
>>18651502
the military dont accept people with mental health issues
>>18651509
depends which mental health issues they are
also you could just lie
>>18651514
It's hard to suppress D.I.D without taking medication, it's what's inspired me to dig my own grave
>>18651444
>Married at 18
>Namefag
>Abusive mother
>Lost job
Let me guess, your mother left before you were born and you have glass bones and paper skin.
>>18651538
No, I still have my mother. I also wouldn't say I have those either, honestly. I'm lucky to have lasted this long.
leave the husband and get on disability or something. if you can, babysit in your free time for extra revenue so you can rent a cheap apartment
>>18651553
Never give up, never compromise, never settle. There have been people whom have gotten out of worse compared to what you currently have, work towards better things and don't let your surroundings overwhelm you.
Get out of your marriage, if you're a woman than you're guaranteed to succeed. If you can't afford the process, get legal help provided by the state, reevaluate yourself and your friends so things like that don't happen anymore. Figure out a way to become independent financially and find a roommate that you can live with. It's going to take a while, but killing yourself won't fix anything.
>>18651444
Don't worry, you can climb up unto my bed. I'll sleep on the mattress.
>>18651444
Try to not have kids and divorce asap unless you want to end up as pic related.
Also
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>>18651577
It's not that he's a bad person as he is making an effort to change his. He hasn't cheated since we got married in April but thank you for the advice. However, we both are working together to change and I hope it works out, I'm just looking for a way to get out of this mindset nothing is going to work out
>>18651579
You're so sweet, anon, thank you.
>>18651580
Yeah, I'd love to have kids if I got settled down and had a career but I'm sterile so i can't, which is a blessing and a curse.
>>18651613
>Cheated 4 times
>Getting married to anyone at 18
You're setting yourself up for a miserable life. Get divorced, my mom did the exact same thing and it did not work out for her at all until she got divorced. Doesn't matter if he's a nice guy or not, things can change and getting married at such a young age is a horrible idea.
>>18651613
Steral? Why would your bf cheat. Your basically a flashlight.
>>18651492
Different anon here. Ill give you the benefit of the doubt that you didnt know better but you picked the obviously wrong guy and you friend circle is fucking terrible.
Ive seen a lot of bullshit on adv people are going through, but i can tell you with absolutely consequendes the social life (husband and best friend) youve found yourself in is more extreme than anything ive *actually* witnessed in real life (and i know a lot of people and ive been in an abusive relationship) so i can fully, confidently guarantee you with conviction, you can find better people. Theyre everywhere.
Start by doing everything in your power to get away from this entire group. Move, meet new people, whatever.
Because yeah with an entire friend group like that anyone would want to kill themselves. It would be a great first step.
>how
Thats on you sadly. Im just saying you can have much better and if you achieve it your life willl improve a thousand fold.
See if a womens shelter can help.
>>18651627
Yes, I understand. However legally I'm not allowed to be without a relative and divorcing my husband would require me to go back to my mother's place which wouldn't end well for me as she's emotionally and physically abusive.
>>18651652
I'm 4'9, and I basically have no tits and from his Pornhub search history, I can tell he likes the opposite to that :( . I think that might be why :(
>>18651654
I've gotten rid of the 'friend' but I know every one of my colleagues has seen it. My husband may have cheated by I don't see him as bad, honestly, it's just disappointing to know that he'd prefer someone else's body to his wife. Regarding the meeting new people, I'm in the process of breaking out of my shut-in shell and learning how to meet new people and stuff which is fully encouraged by my husband, who is glad that we're both making progress. Thank you so much for the advice.
>>18651444
Could you post those nudes here? I need a good hard fap.
>>18651728
If you look hard enough here, you might find them
>>18651732
Hmmm... Nope don't see them. You're just going to have to post them directly here.