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Ok so to quickly summarize, my girlfriend (19) and I (22) have been dating for almost 2 months now. This is my first girlfriend, and it's her first boyfriend since she was 16. We met at college and things have been absolutely great so far, both of us are clearly super happy in the relationship.
The issue is when it comes to our sex life, or rather, lack of. She is a virgin and very inexperienced, and I am too. I watch porn so I at least have some knowledge about sexual things, but she doesn't. She is religious so she wants to wait until marriage/make sure it's with someone special, which she let me know early on. I've let her know I am OK with this (which I am), and we haven't spoken about it since.
Other than kissing, fondling, and dry humping, we haven't really done too much else. I've fingered her once, but I'll be honest it didn't really seem like she enjoyed it. It could've been because she was super nervous or because it was my first time. She also attempted to give me handjob once but she was really bad at it and it didn't really feel good so I made her stop. She has told me she doesn't like the idea of giving a blow job, and I feel like she will be afraid to let me go down on her.
I'm a little worried that by not having an intimate sexual element between us, it will start to hinder our relationship. Does anyone have experience with past relationships that were like this? How did it turn out?
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Hey Anon, It's really simple you just gotta make sure she trusts you. After you did that it will maybe take anywhere between a day to a few years to sex her, Good luck friend.
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>>18650923
This.
My current thing is still a virgin at 22.
She felt I was special enough to want to lose it with me after two weeks of dating but was so embarassed she didn't tell me til we started to attempt having sex and I noticed she felt different and was in quite a bit of pain with just my hand.
Just take your time, don't be nervous or have her nervous.
I literally had to wrap her fingers round my dick giving a HJ because she just kinda mashed it. She's getting better over time and I don't judge her for it.
If you feel anxious/nervous or judgemental it won't help her. She's probably pretty nervous about it herself.
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>>18650955
I mean, I know I'm more on the slow side of things but I take at least 5-9 months before sex is on the table lol.
>>18651144
Ah, my first handjob I felt some precum and thought he was finished and stopped. Blueballed him accidentally because I was ignorant to how dicks worked. Thanks American sex education.
OP, girls like this just plain do not know a damn thing about your dick, you're gonna have to teach her as this anon suggested.
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>>18651161
Thats what my gf thought.
We'd been making out heavily and reached for my cock and thought I'd came. I just have alot of pre when i get excited.
Basically anon; a dick for a girl is a foreign object, its difficult for her to get what make you feel good or not. She's actually hurt me a couple times getting creative when she doesn't realise the eh, limitations of a dick.
Just take your time and don't be judgemental. You don't have to finish or whatever. Just try and have fun.
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>>18650923
>I watch porn so I at least have some knowledge about sexual things
kek'd
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>>18651170
And hell, I still have some awkward moments with guys because every dude is different. The first guy I was with I could yank on that thing pretty hard, next one though stopped me and was like "Lol chill plz."
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