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I'm currently "friends" with someone I like. I'm not in the best of moods after realizing that I'm on her backburner/an Ego-Boost.

I didn't start liking her until a few months after we met and became friends. She was always positive and happy about something, which is a big reason why I came to like her.

Unfortunately, when I told I liked her and asked her out, she changed. She stumbled over herself telling me it's ok for us to be friends and we already had a good bond. She told me things like "My boyfriend isn't really my boyfriend he's blah, blah, blah..." (It's a convuluted and long story.) And "I want to find you a girlfriend, nothing but the best for you!"

She's trying to keep me around but I'm legitimately feeling seriously betrayed by someone I thought was good. Can anyone offer me words of encouragement? Maybe some hard-hitting advice?
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You asked out a taken girl and when she declined, you feel betrayed? Had she left her boyfriend for you, what kind of person would she be? I understand your feelings of disappointment but I don't really think this is her fault. Move on, cut ties with her if you have to.
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>>18650902
She didn't say anything concrete about her bf so I asked her without knowing for sure.
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>>18650921
She has one nonetheless. Just bad luck man.
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>>18650893
Even if she wasn't already taken, she probably would not consider as a romantic partner a man who expresses himself using cute anime girls and cutsie emojis. Most girls consider that a turn off
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>>18650999
What does my choice of images have to do with anything?
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>>18651271
It has to do with why you find yourself on the back burner. You're probably too feminine, which is why you find it easy to become friends, but not lovers. Of all the reaction face images available on the web, you chose a teenage girl. What does that say about you? It's like a form of cross dressing, honestly.
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>She's trying to keep me around
Because you're friends...? She told you what the deal is, why are you acting like she has some sort of ulterior motive? Tone down the saltiness because if this is how you're going to be whenever something doesn't go your way, you're going to lead a very unhappy life.
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>>18651286
Your logic is really confusing here. I'm a feminine cross-dresser because I picked a picture of a distressed anime girl? That's the strangest constructive criticism I've ever received...
>>18651292
It doesn't feel natural the way we're going along. She initiates most of our interactions and I feel like she's trying too hard.
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>>18650902
This

You were retarded, now just fix the mistake and cut contact
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