Soooo I actually got a girls number about a week ago. Been texting each otherm, I think it's going good, but I am on 4chan so I might as well be fucking retarded. Anyways, We've been trading compliments and shit. Tried asking her meet and shit. However, the problem is shit don't work. She be comming up with excuses and shit, like - I'm hanging out with friends, I don't have money for cinema.
So /adv/ am I cucked? Should I send a dick pic to make sure?
Don't send dick pic. Don't try and repair it. Be real and ask her if she actually wants to hang? If she doesn't, move on
>>18650689
if a girl says she cant afford something the response is generally 'my treat'. this indicates its a date and if shes interested should go along. its not foolproof but its a step forward.
that being said, you are neither alpha nor beta. alpha and beta are the polar extremes, whereas most people live somewhere on the middle. its a spectrum.
the fact that you're asking instead of addressing your actual issues sounds like you swing closer to beta than alpha, but most of us are just barely outside of the very middle.
How about posting the chat. Could be that she might be really busy or she is rejecting you soft. Usually girls make time for the guys they like.
>>18650689
>I don't have money for cinema
The guy is supposed to pay for everything in the first date
>Bitch making excuses
Dump her
>>18650689
Move on anon
Generally, if you ask a girl out and she says she's too busy or whatever, and she doesn't suggest an alternative day where shes avaliable, then she isn't interested.
>>18650689
Not paying much attention to them has got me a lot of girls. Try hitting one of her friends.