some folks keep telling me if i don't go out and date many chicks to get "excercise" and "techniques" to make girls really "happy" then i'll have serious problems once i really find a person i can bond with on many levels because i may not be able to sexually please her.
is that true?
i'm no virgin, 27yrs but i am no going out kinda guy. well i do go out but not to score pussy, i got my own agendas and my plan is to let things happen as they will.
is this a wrong mindset towards relationships?
>>18650522
You need certain skill to have one night stands. So if you want fast casual cheap sex, then your friends are right.
However if you just want wife, all you need is luck to find the "one". And thing is, finding one can take years. So it is better to start activelly looking rather sooner than later.
Social events you hate, friends friends and online dating are the places.
http://www.improveyoursocialskills.com/conversation
>my own agendas
That is a good plan. However you need to ask some girls on dates to eventually find the wife. It wont happen on its own. Push your luck a little.