sexuality

>>18649597
You are actually not alone, though few people react as you do. Half the teenage boys in the world think sex is something only guys want and girls have to be talked/conned into.

The only sure cure is to find a woman you know to be so strong that she could not be talked/conned into anything she didn't want, so that you had to believe that she was doing it because SHE wanted it. Show your girlfriend the respect of believing she is that woman.

>I tall to a therapist
>I prefer the inexperienced counselors of 4chan.

Stop.

It you actually made your gf cum you wouldn't be in doubt

The only difference is that they don't crave it as much as we do every short while if not provoked to. But if you private them from sex for a while and then tease them, they'll want it even more than we do, you're basically starving and waving flesh to a beast.

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Women enjoy sex, they just don't enjoy it with you.

>>18649597
If I don't want you no amount of clever banter or manipulation will get you in my panties. Girls want to have sex just as much as guys. Our struggle is after we have sex and the guy goes and brags to everyone he knows how much game he has and how easy I am and then here comes the slut, whore, cunt calls when I turn down every other guy because I DON'T want to fuck them.

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>>18649597
Why do you care if women enjoy it as long as you enjoy it yourself?

>>18649597
All i can tell you is what i would do anon, i would do it for her, focus on what you make her feel, do it like its the last day on earth because there is always a chance that opportunity will never come again, make her feel loved and worshiped, don't do it for yourself anon, do it for her.

>>18649597
A lot of women try to convince themselves and others into enjoying sex, but the reality is the act of penis going into vagina is not particularly pleasurable at all. There are not many nerve endings in there. It's inherently more pleasurable for men. Why else do you think so many women force themselves to have sex and fake orgasms? To keep their man happy and keep his ego at bay. Women get off way more from hand stimulation and oral than actual sex.

And you might ask, what about women who have fuck buddies or casual sex? They must love sex! Wrong. These are the ones with daddy issues. They equate sex = affection/being wanted. It's not so much about sex but the act of sex itself. if there was a more surefire way to get male attention they would do that instead.

>>18650228
oh boy, another dick that knows my vagina better than I

Women absolutely enjoy sex. Some even moreso than men. My best friend was always one to brag about his libido and when he started dating a girl who was a sex freak he would complain to me about how tired out he was.

>>18650069
>cum
this
learn how to use your fingers, tongue and dick properly, then you wouldn't be in doubt

It's a realistic possibility that women have a lower libido than men due to the way they're socialised, and having lower levels of testosterone.

However, every woman is an individual with a unique personality and libido.

Lots of women masturbate; I think about 60% of all young women (18 to 40) masturbate at least once a week, according to the stats.

If women didn't enjoy sex and only did it to appease men, they wouldn't masturbate.

you probably think this way because your partner isn't making the effort to get intimate with you. Personally, if my gf was having sex with me just to please me I would be very happy.

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This creates a viscous cycle, because any woman you become intimate with is going to think there's something wrong with her because you don't want to have sex, which DEFINITELY isn't going to make her want sex.

Get some cute little vibrators and treat your gf to a sensual night that focuses on her, learn her body and figure out what she loves together. Because it's different for everyone. Let her direct you and have a little control while you build your intimacy up. Then, eventually, your passions should synergize and y'all can ride the wave together.

>>18649597
Girls get better, longer orgasms than men, why wouldn't they like sex