real man talk

Learn to love a little less each time. Also, fuck you and this slide thread.

>>18649136
That's not me bro. I'm completely all in or nothing

>>18649135
Been six years now and no, I still carry her everywhere I go.

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>>18649135
>Having a girlfriend
>Posting about it on /pol/
>nothing to do with politics or race

NORMIES GET OFF MY FUCKING BOARD!!!

>>18649138
BRO

six years? Have you tried to seriously fall in love since then?

>>18649139
pol is a board for iron pilled alpha chad bros

>>18649135
Back in high school I thought I was in love with my gf and after it ended I didn't think I'd get over it.

Now I'm getting married in a couple months to my gf of 6 years. Details aren't necessary really, but she'd be pol approved.

You'll get over it man.

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>>18649139
this

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tfw still a hug virgin

>>18649139
>Kekistani faggot telling other to get off /pol/

Back to (((Reddit))) with you pleb

>>18649139
This. Fuck off OP

>>18649141
Since when? I've never seen a /pol/ack who isn't some beta faggot irl

I wouldn't know, it's been 7 years for me

>>18649135
What's your sex life like

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>>18649145
nice digits

>>18649142
And like, yeah you really properly fell in love with her, right? Where the last one became just a memory that'd come and go like the other memories in your life?

>>18649135
It takes as long as you were with a partner to get over them.
The trick is to meet new partners before you're over the last one. Women do this easily.

>>18649145
Kek. Forgot that was still on. I forget why I have it. Usually go with the nazi.

Not reddit. Never used it

>>18649135
I dont understand why you guys dwell on this. Its just a terminated relationship which provided emotional, social, and sexual support in return for the ammount of investment you put into developing said relationship.

>>18649149
Since the breakup last year, I've partied and had fun with a lot of chicks. Realistically this past year has been Fast Times at Ridgemont High for me.


But I'm definitely broken. Hasn't been a day where I haven't been even a little dead inside.

>>18649135

Took me two years of falling into degeneracy and a year of sobriety and training to climb myself back to where I was before. Met a new girl when I was truly happy with myself again. That was over a year ago. Thinking about getting married and having kids. Something something 14 words.

>>18649154
That's because you haven't been in love before.

Nothing in life impacts you the way love does.

Say all of my positions could be stolen and I could move back with my parents tomorrow, after breaking all my limbs.

I'd be pissed, but I'd get over it.

Love works directly with what you perceive existence as. Nothing else like it

>real man talk
>my girlfriend broke my heart and now i'm sad and my fee fees are all hurt

>>18649156
wait

please see: >>18649151


on a side note. I'm into degeneracy as well to help numb the pain. I wonder if guys are more prone to ball out after a breakup than women are. I'd be entirely surprised if she did what I've done

>>18649136
this can help an anon, myself included, let it be

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>>18649135

>>18649155
I haven't seen that movie but I'm assuming there's a lot of sex in it? I'm surprised usually having lots of sex will get your mind off of your oneitis. Have you tried connecting with other females on a more emotional level?

>>18649151
Yes. What I really mean is that I realized that what I thought was love before was... Something less.

And the interesting thing is that I know that 20, 30, and 40 years from now, my feelings will have evolved even further and become more complex.

>>18649135
you get over it after a while

but shit does it hurt

it took me a long time too

>>18649135
yeah because she got fat i got over it in a about a week

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>>18649135
Still heartbroken over someone I lost when I was 16 and I'm almost middle-aged and married now. Fuck those dreams...

>>18649162
Dated a few girls, went on various dates with others...

Problem is that my last girlfriend was beyond solid, inside and out. I KNOW that in order to really get over, the next one will have to be as good as her. Not replacing her, I don't care if they have different skills and hobbies.

It's just hard when your last girlfriend would wake up 15 min. before you do to help make your lunch for the day because you forgot to make it last night, you know?

I've grown astronomically within the past year and I'm ready for a girlfriend, but it won't be easy at all to find a great and trustworthy one.

Not dissing women, I can almost guarantee the average guy is a douchebag

>>18649154
stop looking at things from a (((psychological))) point of view and understand the real meaning and significants of human interaction, you say emotional sexual and social support because those are easy words to say but to behold the real meaning and how it applies to your own life is vastly limited by your own experience of them because there damn well very strong emotions that have driven all of human society
>t. Jordan Peterson

>>18649157
Isnt love just a meme tho? The kind of cringy stuff people refer to what i described.

>>18649163
>Yes. What I really mean is that I realized that what I thought was love before was... Something less.


Fuck.

Yeah, our last relationship we planned out how many kids would we have, where they'd go to school and what their name would be. When we'd get married, who'd get invited, etc.

I really authentically felt like I experienced Hell when it ended, like I must have woke up in Hell, after dying in a drunk driving accident and killing someone or something.


Anyway point is, is that it was really unconditional intense love with her. I really don't think it'll be a 'where have you been all my life' moment with the next one, just to fall in love again and hope to god equal the love I had last time.

I'm wondering if THAT'S possible. To go from intense yet honest love to another intense yet honest love

>>18649169
Nope. After my heartbreak I can feel that my entire character has been re-wired, for the better. Nothing gave me a sense of urgency to improve than the breakup. I've done bad in class where I had to Withdraw from the term and take it again later and etc. etc - nothing is like it. I could probably drive drunk tonight and not learn a lesson at a faster rate than a heartbreak

>>18649170
>>138689349
Not trying to say I know what you're feeling, but back then we did the same exact things.

It wasn't just about her either. I've grown in massive ways since then and I don't think I could have felt the way I do about my fiance now, back then. If that makes sense.

Love isn't a defined, concrete concept.

Maybe I did love my ex, but the love I feel now is nothing like that really. I felt real emotions back then, but they weren't as complex as now.

>>18649181
But to your point. I THOUGHT back then everything was super intense and full.

It's almost like if love is a glass of water, back then it was full to the brim. But now I've got a pitcher.

>>18649170
Ive been destroyed twice between the ages of 18 and 23. Since then Ive looked at women as oppurtunists and blatantly show that I dont take their opinions or anything they say seriously. This doesnt help me in any way in terms of relationships. I do get a decent amount of pussy, but Im pretty confident I wont find another woman I can love again. Which fuckin blows. But the only thing I want is to wake up next to a woman that loves me back, not just some drunk whore i banged out.

28 years old now and seeing things shift, but i hate women in our society, so Im fucked.

oldfag here

I was wrecked when my hs gf broke up with me after we went off to separate colleges. saw school psychiatrist and shit.

every night, i'd stay up as late as possible, doing anything to take my mind off it
then, every night, i'd dream we got back together
then every morning, id' wake up and realize it wasn't real.

each night when i went to bed, i realized that eventually i'd wake up and replay the feeling of loss.

every day. for days in a row

a while later I did start dating a new girl and I thought I was "cured". the excitement of a new relationship definitely helps.

but, when that broke off, the emptiness was back, but nowhere near as bad as before. Cerebrally, I was like "shit, I have already peaked in life. it will never be like it was". it was some black pill stuff.

after that, i also gave up on getting married, and resigned to just having meaningless sex with available girls i got a long with. it made me reasonably aloof and put my brain in the "i don't give a shit" about women mode, and i stopped having such high expectations about girls also.

somehow, this made it easier for me to have sex with girls. years later when i started reading about game/pua/women it kind of made sense - don't care about them, and it drives them crazy.

ironically, this was the state of mind i was in when i met my wife, who is much better than the girl i got all mental about in HS. We've been married a loooooong time and it's great.

i will say a few things
1) the chemistry in your body and brain is just ridiculous when you're a young buck. your brain chemistry changes for the better once you exit your teens and youthful early 20s. biologically, your chemistry is like "DO EVERYTHING YOU CAN TO BREED" and it dominates you - and your emotions

2) everytime a girl dumps you, figure out what to improve about yourself. there's always something. learn. grow. improve.

3) Hollywood ideas of romantic love are bullshit.

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>>18649197
Screenshotting this. Thanks oldbro