Whenever I talk to people that I don't really know to much, I have consistent problems with figuring out what to say and shuddering frequently on words.
What can I work on to be less of an awkward fuck?
>>18644862
practice singing and rapping and tongue twisters. being able to do those makes it harder to trip over your own words.
when it comes to other people, stop trying to impress them. if you want to talk to them great, but the intent is to see if there is common ground. a lot of people have accidentally tricked themselves into thinking that its their job to 'entertain' everyone else, and if they don't find that common ground it means they are now a weird loner loser who deserves to be shunned.
so what if the conversation is short, or quiet or just awkward? its not your job to carry a conversation. you threw some stuff out, didn't find anything, and thats okay.
and finally, think before you speak. think about exactly what you want to say, take a deep breath, and slowly let it out. even if you sound robotic, probably better than stuttering.
>>18644862
Practice makes perfect.
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