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I'm a post-secondary graduate and I've never been in a relationship before.
I don't understand how people have dates or start relationships since I've never done it myself, nor have I been taught. Since I never learned this important social lesson in the time the it was easiest to, is it now too late?
I'm not a robot or anything, I have friends and a job. I just can't figure out how to even approach the subject with a woman, even if I can talk to her without losing all composure.
I also hate bars and clubs, and I'm not attracted to the kind of girl who goes there. What do I do? How can I meet a girl I'd like and who would reciprocate my feelings?
I'm not at all attracted to the few women I work with, although its a moot point since they aren't single anyway.
Online dating is a meme and I've pretty much exhausted that approach at this point anyway
And even if I meet someone by some miracle, how do go from being somebody she's met to going on a date with her? How can I make that step without making her feel uncomfortable?
Is it too late for me?
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Please help, /adv/
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>>18644672
Rejection is probably going to happen and it's going to suck. Take chances despite all that.
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you see girl that's pretty, you approach her and say things
you'll probably stutter and look like an idiot
if she's interested she'll overlook these things
that's all it is - you've just been terrified and hid from this aspect of things
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>>18645655
yeah. you make yourself attractive, then you get good at approaching girls and talking to them like you get good at doing anything else: you attempt it hundreds of times and fail a lot. and as they say, failure is the best teacher. so the more you fuck up eventually the better you'll get at it. and before you know it you have a six-pack and you're smooth as butter because you've talked to or approached like 500 different women.
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