Dating / Women

First, you need to stop thinking you are perfect and it's the fault of women for being too stupid to date you. Learn what those other guys are doing right and you wrong. Then work on fixing that.

Also what do you mean trying? Did you set up a dating site account? Or tinder?

>>18643792
you didnt mention your weight
also, the women probably dont know you have those things
take pics with those things on fb and youll get women messaging you

>>18643851
Fuck no, I refuse to use crap like that.
Chat with a random girl I see in the elevator.
Over time (1-3months) try to see if she's interested.

>>18643880
1.84m
84kg
I hate social media. I do not have a single account.

I do not have a smartphone, I have an old simple mobile phone.

Sorry for the slow reply was making dinner.

>>18643851
I do not think I'm perfect, and I'm not trying to be.
I always assumed that women wanted someone stable and reliable.

>>18643978
You won't have any success picking women up in the elevator/on the street unless you are really attractive and confident in your actions. It'll come off as creepy and an invasion of personal space if you are not these things.

Do you have friends to hang out with? All of my relationships (and all of my employment coincidentally) have come as a result of connections through people I know. If you can't meet new people through the ones you already know, and are unwilling to use some kind of dating service, then the chances of you actually meeting someone who will even hear you out let alone want to get to know you are much lower.

It makes you difference how good you look on paper if no one knows you or wants to know you. Stop being such a Luddite and adapt yourself a little bit

Keep rolling the dice. Get out there and meet people.

>>18644011
Usually the women chat to me and ask me questions. I reply and that way a dialoge develops.

Sometime we grab a lunch or a drink at the local caf.

>>18644011
No I do not have friends, not a single one.
I moved around alot due to my dad's work, I never really build friendships or social skills.

>>18644011
Who want me to sign up for the STI ridden mess known as Tinder?

Fuck off! I'm not going to pay some dating website.

You know most of them are just scams to loot people's wallets.

>>18644014
I'm too old be "Get out there".
That is something you do 18-22, not at my age.

you have to use online dating or something to meet people dude, there really is not many alternatives
the good thing is you and the other person are there for a reason and theres no pretense
the bad thing is most women on there really are just obese and ugly or single moms

>>18643792

post a picture of your self first. this will let us get a first impression of you, just like everyone else sees.

>>18643978
>I refuse to use crap like that.
>I hate social media. I do not have a single account.
>I do not have a smartphone, I have an old simple mobile phone.

>im an edgy hipster
Thread over, we found OP's problem

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I don't get it!

> 29
> University grad
> Work at a financial institute
> Apartment
> Car
> Work out 3 times a week.
> Well dressed
> Can cook

Still never had a gf.
My only sex life stems from hookers.
This is a shitty world and a shitty time to be a white man.

Youre either ugly (most likely) or youre constantly doing/saying something really off-putting (less likely).

That goes for everybody with OP's dilemma.

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Because women care about looks. More so than men. I'm sorry.

/thread

>>18644525
/board

2bh 2bh

>>18643978
>3 months to try to date someone
You have a week max to ask someone out

>>18644525
Virgins will never accept this, so don't bother.

>>18644028

you talk like the sweet boy of mum and auntie

People get out at any age, you fucker. According to your opinion I'm 29 and so I shouldn't get out. Fuck you and fuck all of the lies that have fucked up your brain, your belief sistem is a shit.

>>18643792
My husband met me at 34 and he was a virgin before me, so don't give up.

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>>18644559
>34 and he was a virgin

>>18643792
Op if you think a video like that is real that's why then

>>18644564
Yup. How does life change.

>>18644573

from 0 to 1 in 34 years. What a magnificent change.

>>18644573
I actually feel really bad for him. I hope he is happy now.

>>18644585
He is, and I'm very happy to be his wife as well. :)

>>18644525
This is the final redpill about women. They are just as visual as us, if not more.

>>18644617

Novels and films are the real conspiracy against men. Women knows these things are bullshit.

>>18643851
>First, you need to stop thinking you are perfect and it's the fault of women for being too stupid to date you
Hi, roastie toastie!

>>18644472
OP here.
Fuck hipsters, I'm no trying to be one.
I just do not see the use in buying a smartphone.
I have nothing too look up. I have not friends to contact outside working hours.

For my a mobile phone is for emergancies only.

>>18644473
You're probably not attractive enough to get the caliber of girl you want

>>18644554
Correct ! you should not be going out you pervert.
Going out and having fun is only for young, hip, trendy and attractive people.

>>18644554
Woah, we got a rasotie gettin toastie over here!

>>18644627
I read 4 romantic novels targeting women and it was amazing just how much they emphasis his appearance.

>>18644018
Well there's the problem then. You're a good man who's achieved some shit you can get that too

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>>18644694

Yes, but the women in there are always classy and nice, and profound princesses, no matter what is their social level, I'm talking about personality. And they are functional for a nice ending full of justice and completeness.

Reality is that they shit and fart, and like cum and dicks, and burp, and are gross in the same way a man is.

You act nice because you fear you'll hurt her or you fear that you have to be kind or you'll be discarded. You crave for justice and for the ending you dream for, the price for the hero who endured all the bad things, who transformed himself, who gave rebirth to himself, ho rised up again.

Reality is that while you keep yourself in the state of mind of the nice gentleman, they are looking at you, and they know how pityfull you are, because you are emasculating yourself with your own hands.

And probably while she looks at you, she farted and has a piece of turd in her nice pants with butterfly pictured on it. Or she is thinking at what junk food to eat next. You know, they are human too.

Only thing that "saves" them from being totally human, animal and gross is that they actually are scared about suffering, more than we are. And are more prone to a relationship that would fullfill them with love. Probably this is why they are so "armored". If you want to see that girl from the novel, talk to her about love. 9/10 she will run away, 1/10 she is gonna have sparkles in her eyes.

>>18644694
yeah, as oppose to all that media about how sexy a woman is focusing on her intelligence and personality.

>>18643792
you forgot one very important thing; get /fit/

>>18643880
How to attract the wrong women 101

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>>18644746
No one ever denied that men want hot women. It's just that this ''women want a kind meme man'' meme, has to die. Women are just as visual as men.

That's the point.

>>18644772
when you're an adult you'll realize everybody asks for something when they really want another thing

Why do any of you stupid cunts give a fuck about women?
They're annoying as fuck especially around their fuck headed friends.
Here's what women bring to the table.
>sex
>saying dumb shit
>you spending time and money on dumb shit
>entitlement
>boring routine phone calls messaging
>judgemental bullshit

Listen turbovirgins especially you OP, you have a choice in life; you can either conquer women or conquer the world. Women are nothing but a distraction, if pretty shiny things distract you that much you maybe should reevaluate your life and who you are.

Disgusting!

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>>18644778
??

How do men do that? We're wide open about what we want.

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>>18644772
>>18644783
These guys gets it, except for the dumb part of conquering the world, is pretty much like that.

You want to get laid, just go find a 10/10 woman and pay her, if you got the money, use it, don't waste on dating too much stupid girls.

Now you want to get chicks, then go around, get some friends, go with them in any shit you got, doesn't matter how stupid and garbage is, eventually yoy'll meet some girl you can hook it up.

Now, the problem is that you'll probably will be so stupid to get too much involved with some girl (or two o three girls) and you are gonna spend any penny you got with you, just because you think you had to use it. And then you have to use social networks to be more involved with her (or them), sorry, but chicks are social, they like send stupid texts and memes as long they are not offensive for her (or them).

The trick is you have to be cool, not looking so desperate, be smooth, don't being too extreme, girls like somebody strong, but you have to control yourself and don't being a dick about it, girls want a serious guy, but not to the point of being a fucking wall of boredom, girls likes smart guys, but not being so intelectual so they feel like you are a smart-ass everybody hates.

Well I can put in a few words for you: "don't be a dick".

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>>18644817
Don't listen to this guy, be a dick.

>>18644783
>Here's what women bring to the table.
>>sex
everyone wants this, even women
>>saying dumb shit
yeah cause you're a real bastion of intelligent thought
>>you spending time and money on dumb shit
oh no, women want to buy clothes and makeup instead of videogames and toys
>>entitlement
>im-fucking-plying you don't already provide that in spades
>>boring routine phone calls messaging
god forbid the person you fuck wants to talk to you
>>judgemental bullshit
and what exactly is your faggy tirade if not judgement?

>>18644897
I see he's right.

Who the fuck wants 24/7 of this bullshit?

No thank you, keep your feminine sarcasm and average vagina to yourself. I'd rather be happy and cashed up.

>>18644525
this isn't true because i'm ugly as fuck and have been with some lookers.

>>18645167
Fun fact: no you haven't

>>18645170
Yes i have

>>18644525

No.

Women want your money

>>18644652
Well you're not going to make friends (or relationships) either if you don't have the trivial agencies needed to contact them

>behaves like a spoiled autist throwing temper tantrums
>has never tried to get a gf
I wonder why OP is a virgin.

>>18644008
Women do want someone stable and reliable. That's your problem. You don't sound at all stable or reliable.

>>18645598
cope

>>18646377
why are little shits so sure what women want? have you not seen old goats, fat ppl, ugly ppl with top women? are you literally this retarded because of your age? ofcourse they want money, number 1 attraction

>>18646388
If you're going to call someone retarded for saying something wrong, don't correct him with something equally wrong.

>>18643792
It's literally all about physical attractiveness mate.

Are you tall?
Are you white?
Are you handsome?

If you answer yes to all the above questions, then you'll succeed with women.

>>18646626
t. virgin

Physical things matter less to women than men. Someone can be what you described and be a kissless virgin. And you see ugly fat guys with hot gfs all the time.

>>18646643

they matter MORE

>>18646651
How do you know this?

>>18646626
Tfw you are everything but tall and no gf

Post a pic of what you look like.

>>18645170
Not him but I often get the 'how did you end up with her' comment.

I'm an ugly 7 at best and i score 8-9 girls. Must be my charm and uniqueness lol fuck if I kne

>>18643792
I don't know why I am replying but in my opinion you are lucky that I am.

I am a self made successful normie with a normie wife and great life.

The main question I have for you is:
What do you do that is Chadlike?
You literally just have to start enjoying what Chad enjoys and women will follow.
You just need to have fun like chad. And you will be him.
Maybe you play sports or guitar or throw parties. Ideally all 3. You can cook, great, but do you enjoy showing off your cooking and developing and impressing people with it?
Maybe you stop fixing computers and start fixing cars. Or racing bikes. Idk.

ONCE YOU HAVE CHAD TASTES YOU WILL FIND WOMEN, BECAUSE YOU CAN TALK TO THEM ABOUT NONAUTISTIC THINGS AND THEY WILL KNOW YOU DON'T NEED THEM.

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>>18646731
I would never want to showoff or act like a "Chad" or "Brad".

When I was 19-21, I felt too young to be going out. The people I saw out and about felt like +30 to me. I had this feeling of guilt and that "I had no right to be there".

Now that I'm +30, I really want to experience life and have fun. Sadly I feel that I'm too old to go out and I feel like my life is over.

The idea I have is that when you are +30 you are no longer allowed to have fun, it's only for young people and early 20-somethings.

The picture related is how I fear people will be thinking of me. Some old pervert that has no right to be going out and migle with young people.

>>18646653

because I have a lot of female friends and I talk a lot with them. They would still hang out with an ugly or fat man, while a man has a more precise and common sense of sex appeal (except for fetishes), but only if they actually like his body and face. So they are more visual than we are, they notice all sort of details. Thing is that women are picky, but they are also like more easily a person of the opposite sex (if they are straight, of course). So if you see a 4/10 man with a 7/10 woman, the answer isn't always money. Probably the woman like his body too.

>>18643978
women are very social, so make some accounts,
facebook, tinder, Instagram, snapchat

>>18644028
Why do you believe that? Why that specific age range?

You sure have a lot of excuses for why you can't change.

>>18647209
Obviously. People come to adv for validation not advice. OP wants us to tell him them "roastie Stacey's" are at fault and that he is a flawless human being.

>>18647112
Fuck that anon. 33 here and have 20 somethings clamouring for my attention.

>>18647387
37 here. This year I have fucked girls from ages 22 to 31.

>>18647209
>>18647274
I'm not OP but how do I get them to date me?

I can see some flaws in me. Firstly, I'm too rigorous when it comes to falling in love. I've only fallen in love twice in my entire life. All other instances of passion or "crushes" ended as quickly as they started. My main criteria - besides attractiveness, which is a given for any human - is the girl's morality. Is it similar to mine? Does she have a good heart? I melt when I see people being nice people and I can easily become romantically attracted to them. For example: If she smokes anything it's a instant no. If she drinks in excess it's also a no. I am fine with tattoos and piercings but these are a redflag. And so on. I'm your typical boring ass conservative guy.

Given that, people keep telling me I'm nice and loyal. I've been compared to an angel a few times, so I wonder what I am doing wrong. The few times I actually asked them out on dates resulted in them taking it as a friendly activity. The few ones who took it seriously friendzoned me in the end. My friends tell me I'm way too nice and that women like when guys are mean to them but I really doubt this is the case.

I'm willing to take advice and change.

>>18647404
Hi-five 30s bro.

>>18647418
Depends what you mean by nice. Showering her with gifts and constantly texting her or doing everything for her in general don't work well.

Try again. And again, and again, and again... And it shall come to pass.

>>18644525
Women choose looks over money??

>>18647449
I listen intently and usually offer to help when people are in need. I also often hear about how i "genuinely care", probably because after someone tells me about something sad that happened to them I do ask them later if they are feeling better, what happened, and so on. I'm not doing anything special really, it's just that people are so cold and unable to love nowadays that they stopped doing the little things like these.

>>18647112
>The idea I have is that when you are +30 you are no longer allowed to have fun
>The picture related is how I fear people will be thinking of me. Some old pervert that has no right to be going out and migle with young people.
You have got to stop giving a shit what other people think of you. You can live your life anyway you want to. If other people judge you for it then fuck them. FYI not everyone actually thinks like this, especially among early 20's. I'm 21 and i'll hang out with whatever age of people if I enjoy their company. I also know people in their 30's who are friends with people as young as 18. Past 18 everyone is considered an Adult, so I really don't understand why anyone would have objections.

OP here.

I do not want to use dating sites or crap like tinder, because that feels forced and as if your are desperate and scared of ending up alone.

I was love/relationship to develop naturally.

>>18647467
Maybe you're coming on a bit strong? After asking try steering the conversation to something more lighthearted.

>>18647488
Any potentials at work? Join a club? Dancing/cooking lessons are always stacked full of women.

>>18643792
Go out into the world and make friends with girls. You can do this by joining social clubs, taking up hobbies, doing sports, etc. I recommend going to the gym to build muscle. Not only will this make you stronger, but it will also make you more attractive to girls and studies show, more intelligent. When you get truly interested in hobbies and stick with them, you become more interesting, have more to talk about, and therefore become more attractive to girls.

If none of this works you can always use drugs like MDMA. Go to drug dens and other places where you can find girls as desperate and weak as yourself. I find the easiest girls are freshers by far because they are so desperate to fit in, and will do anything so that they can.

>>18647201
If you are over 24 and still use facebook, tinder, Instagram, snapchat you are nothing more than a pedophile.

Social media and stuff like that is for young people. Not old loser like myslef.

It just feels wrong using apps like that when most people are teens / early 20s.

I hardly watch YouTube as I saw a news report where they showed that the average age of people using youtube was 11-12.

After that report I felt as if I was a pedo, and refuse to hardly do anything on the internet.

>>18647404
go report yourself at your nearest police station

>>18647490
Is it really? They just never see me as dating potential, only friendship potential

>>18647504
I'm almost 30, going out is wrong and immoral at my age.

OP here, theses are my Posts:

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>>18644018
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>>18647468
OP Here.
No, no and no. Going out at my age is werid and wrong.

When I go home from work, and I see people in bars having a drink after work I feel ANCIENT.

To me all those people in their seem young, hip and trendy. If I hang out there I feel as if i'm some creep perving on little girls.

>>18647508
>>18647514
>>18647517
All these posts are by someone delusional, or just bad at baiting. Don't give him an more (You)s.

>>18647534
Get yourself checked if you are OP, and a (You) for you if you aren't.

>>18643792
Maybe you are just have dead/repulsing personality so nobody wants to stick around.

>>18644652
>I have not friends to contact outside working hours.

And you don't think this is going to be a problem when you're trying to hook up with women?

People can fucking sense this shit, man. The only people who can get girls without having any real friends are total sociopaths - and those guys have a strong mastery over their social skills, enough to the point where they can fake it with ease.

Even the nerdiest, fattest, most obnoxious asshole has friends. When you've literally got none and you don't want any, there's something off about you that's going to keep people at an arm's length.

>>18647516
Obviously impossible to say over the internet. How soon are you asking these women out? Have you been friends for a while beforehand? Try being more direct after knowing them for a short period of time and learn to walk away if they aren't interested.

>>18647561
Friends for a while, yes. Being more direct could work too.

I'm also wondering about beard. I don't have beard, and I heard that most women just love beard, and being shaved is a redflag for them. So I am considering growing a beard.

>>18647577
Try some stubble.

>>18647418
You wanna be "kind" not "nice" you wanna be compassionate, but you don't want to be desperate. You want to hold a door for them, but you also want to sling out slight banter as well you wanna include them in things, but you also want to portray yourself as someone who doesn't need them. Women see being "nice" as being a doormat or being thirsty. You want to be kind, but also assertive and forward.

>>18647664
I'll remember that, thanks anon. I assume I can turn to being nice once I "have" them for granted.

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I don't get it!
>28
>just an AS
>make much less than 50k
>live with parents
>12 year old car
>dress like a slob
>can cook

I'm fucking tired of sex.
All I want is a proper relationship, with emotions and words.
Sex is cool, but it's like getting nothing but frosting when I wanted a piece of cake.

>>18647664
This is good advice. Don't take the banter too far though. This isn't banter you'd have with your friends, it's very gentle teasing.

>>18647698
How

>>18647706
I wish I knew man.
I had a gf for like 7 years.
Going to college got asked out like 3 times.

I'm not even good looking, nor am I tall.
They just kinda bite the hook.
Maybe they don't think me as threatening.

Sure I'm not pulling in 8 or 9s but a solid 6 or 7 is enough for me.
I think I'm funny, that's a another way into women. Entertain them I guess.

>>18647488
Everyone is using dating sites and tinder these days. Refusing to use them is literally retarded. How would it in any way make you look desperate and scared when even all the best available men and women are using it?

>>18647435
Being a single male in your 30s is great, isn't it? Best decade of my life. There are so many things you can do that you couldn't in your 20s. And getting girls is easier than ever.

>>18643978
>I hate social media
No wonder you are a virgin

>>18647418
Date christian girls I really hope you are not an atheist or you are going to die alone

>>18647802
Yep. Decent income, girls 20+ interested in me.

>>18647112
Man. You know what your problem is? You can't think outside of this loser paradigm that you have created for yourself. Women don't all think the same and aren't all attracted to the same things. TONS of women will sleep with you even if you live with your parents if you're cool enough. I've been cucked by dudes that lived with mommy and daddy because they understood the nature of women.

Women want a guy that's fun, interesting, and exciting. Throw away all your preconceived notions about women and think about this: how do you make a woman wet? How do you fuck a woman? Though role play and FUN. Make things exciting for her. Rile her emotions up. Piss her off, make her giggle, anything to get a rise out of her. Make things light. Sex ain't serious business, it's supposed to be fun. Women find you creepy because you aren't being conscious about this. You're desperate for sex, you don't get female attention, so you look like you're a beggar.

Fuck the whole woe is me I'm 30 bullshit now. The fact is you're too scared to change. You have to address this first. Change is hard. It doesn't feel good, and will often remind you of situations you had in high school. But you have to keep pushing. Take trips. Go to seminars. Meet people and go out with them. Above all, remain centered in yourself. People say a lot of mean things and you just have to let it roll off your shoulders. You can't get laid without experiencing some pain. But you have to figure out what you want and how far you are willing to go to get it.

>>18647726
I never went to college, I guess that's that.

First of all you are being vauge about your advice and the comments are mostly shit i recommend 3 things for you.

Pornhub live stream
Ask people who you find attractive on port hub stream out for sex and include maybe something more in the context of concern to the person on stream

Second be ominous about you sexuality it might be a issue in confidence

Your issue is that you haven't decided to put yourself out there
Check your mental psychosis

I know your problems over 50% of just reading your stupid get laid commentary post o.o

Do you care to get layed or have a relationship?

Are you being a troll? Or is this really you cry for help?

Facebook or MySpace also

Inb4 I swear it's hygiene isues

Bs. No future comment

>>18643792
You need to take chances instead of wanting them to fall out the sky.

Mommy and daddy may have given you everything you wanted when you were a kid, but you need to get pussy yourself. Faggot.

>>18643792
Wait OP, if you make so much money why dont you pay a whore, after all you dondt deserve a gf

>>18644595
How many sex partners do you have before you got married? How did/does he feel about it? Is this ever a problem in the relationship?

>>18647795
Have you not seen that episode of House?
Where House, Wilson and Chase go speed dating?
That just look sad.

>>18647895
OP here.
Social media is for teenagers and early 20-somethings.

My moral compass tells me when you are 26 or over, then you have no right to be on a platform intended for young people.

My Moral compass tells me that anyone over 26 on social media platforms is nothing more than a pedophile looking for it's next prey.

>>18647950
OP here.
I have no reason to go out. Only when there is a job related goal am I allowed out. Beyond that I've been taught to remain inside.

>>18647997
My parents never gave me anything. I had to earn it.

>>18648089
I'm not in the mood to get an STI

>>18643978
So you're autistic

>>18648498
Then why do you expect your parents to give you a gf? You need to earn one.

>>18647387
>>18647404
Looking forward to these days my guys. I'm almost 27 and I can definitely feel the increase in sex appeal. Just the other weekend I had my first ONS with a fine ass 21 year old. I couldn't believe how EASY it was; I think it's a combination of not having a baby face and not giving a fuck anymore. I'm confident and know what I want and women seem to reaaally react to that. Feels daddy af.

Only question: does it work if you're bald? I'm starting to lose my hair and it sucks feeling like I'm a late bloomer who won't get to bloom.

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How does this make you feel OP?

You worked hard all your life and actually achieved what many men say they want to achieve.

But what women really want is a criminal with nice cheekbones.

HAHAHAAHAHA

>>18643792
You sound like you have a touch of the 'tism and I don't even mean that in a mean way. What's your social life like? Do you have friends? Hobbies?

>>18649535
you read this OP?

Your post reeks of autism because you can't get a gf.

it's over.

>>18649541
OP sounds autistic because he's demonstrating a fairly evident lack of social adjustment. Not "getting a gf" is a symptom of that but not even the defining quality.

>>18649534
I honestly feel bad for the guy who makes these. He really seems like an Elliot Rodger type but without the NPD/courage to go kill people.

>>18649550
of course he is I agree entirely please help this poor autist

>>18649552
that's an interesting way to look at it.

if he had courage he would kill people because that's what you would do with this outlook.

>>18649534
OP has never worked hard. He hasn't done shit in his life. He's just another entitled /r9k/ manchild. But then again, I don't expect any semblance of connection to reality to someone who posts a cartoon that's pitiful even by /r9k/ standards.

>>18649527
Going bald shouldn't have any effect. You've already got the one and only thing that matters: confidence. Once you know how easy it is to get laid, you will get laid easily. That's really all it is.

>>18649554
The sad part is that the creator is clearly projecting himself as a highly educated, highly paid, highly respected professional. When it's obvious he's a basement-dwelling NEET.

>>18649552
That cartoon just screams NPD.

>>18649563
What this anon said. Also if it is knocking your confidence start working out. Focusing on that will help you get your head in the right place.

>>18644473
>shitty time to be a white man

Lol this is some /pol/ bs
Maybe you have shit social skills and come off creepy. Maybe you don't dress as well as you say. Somethings wrong and it's something to be fixed with YOU. Not the world lol. Fucking man child.

OP here.
I did not post the comic!

>>18649561
I work my ass off.

OP's problems:
>Creeping on girls in public when not a Chad
>Has no friends
>Has an old phone like an old man

Work on your social skills.
Youtube stephen erdman

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>>18647466
Any worthwhile woman do.

>>18649834

OP here.
I feel too old to own a smartphone. I feel wrong.
Smartphones are only for young people who use apps and social media.

As I said before:
Social media is for teenagers and early 20-somethings.
My moral compass tells me when you are 26 or over, then you have no right to be on a platform intended for young people.
My Moral compass tells me that anyone over 26 on social media platforms is nothing more than a pedophile looking for it's next prey.

>>18649841
Everyone over 26 who is in social media is a pedophile!! Bloody hell mate

>>18643792
You don't own 100 btc....that makes u sexy and a king e.g. sovereign wealth

>>18644011
I have picked up at least 10 women on the street, in the elevator, on the bus, at a ferry port....no worries

>>18649841
Your moral compass needs to be calibrated. It's pointing all wrong.

>>18649862
The media, news, tv, absolutely everyone keeps telling me it's immoral to be on social media over a certain age.

>>18649874
I think it's not correct the 20-something, 30-somthing are able to interect with teens on some random platform.

I agree with what a new program once said. That social media and such app are covert pedophile programs. To enable adults to interact with childs.

>>18644559
>>18644564
At that point he's lucky to even get sloppy seconds. He gets SOMETHING and she gets to settle down after the cock carousel. Everybody wins.

>>18649877
Really? Post one example. Just one.

>>18649883
>it's wrong for 20-somethings to interact with other 20-somethings
You need professional help.

>>18649889
It was a talk show, years ago. I dought I can find the clip.

>be me
>28
>highschool dropout
>less than 10k a year in money
>low income apartment
>no car
>dresses very plainly
>can't cook

Have had multiple women in this year alone express their desire to fuck me. I have only fucked a couple of them, I keep the other ones around in case my main girl leaves me. These aren't some trash dumpster girls either, they are all college educated and well of financially.

You have to understand that having those things you listed don't mean shit when you are a fucking autistic cringey poor is me little fag bitch.

>>18649892
Oh, that's it then. One talk show years ago said it was wrong, so that means it's objectively wrong!

OP Here.

Look! I've never had friends. Therefore I see not use in social media platforms, as no one would interect with me.

Plus, I do not want my former classmates from School & Uni spying on me and seeing how misserable my social life is.

OP here.
Another thing that sickens me is that "Sexting" and sending "Nudes" nonsense.

>>18649904
Start your social life then. Go outside. The site meetup com is a good one, see what interesting events are happening around you.

Please, don't reply with something about how using meetup is morally wrong.

>>18649911
How many catfish / scammer are on that site. No thanks!

>>18649911
...And yes, meetup to sound like another social media platform / app, therefore it's immoral and wrong.

>>18649911
That website is sick making.

You see 3 adult males playing volleyball with a clearly underage child!

The talk show was right. Social media and apps is just a stealth method for pedophile to fulful their urges.

>>18649920
The only one paying attention to little girls here, is you.

>>18649920
This has got to be a troll. Good job OP.

>horrified at normal polite sites with rules
>is on 4chan

>>18649916
>>18649920
You didn't even check the site did you.

>>18649933
OP here

I browsed the categories and nothing interests me.

I click social and the 1st thing I see is "Club Crawler".

Then I see gorgeous, trendy, hip, people which I have not right to mix with.

AS I'M AN OLD GRUMPY MAN !

>>18649933
I'm a pleb that has no right to mix and social with these people.

I think it's sad that society is no longer able to socialise without the aid of technology / apps / websites.

People no longer have social skills.

>>18649950
>People no longer have social skills
Oh, the ironing.

>>18648474
Firstly sitcoms are not indicative of reality. Secondly speed dating is very different from online dating.

>>18649967
explain pls.

>>18649985
Speed dating is moving around trying to get to know each other in a 5 minute period, then chatting up the next person.

On okcupid you describe yourself, read someone elses page, and if you click you chat them up and maybe meet them for coffee. It's a lot more relaxed, there's no rush, none of that bullshit.

>>18649996
both seem desperate and demening. As if people are not able to get someone the old fashioned way.

>>18650015
What are you looking to achieve by this thread? You reject every piece of advice.

>>18650015
>As if people are not able to get someone the old fashioned way.
I mean you always can, I just find it to be useful. I find it to be more of a supplemental aid since I don't have a lot of free time and you meet very few women in my field.

>>18646626
What if I'm only tall? Will that work?

>>18650018
I want advise, but it has to be morally correct and not illegal

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>>18650044
I fail to see what's illegal or immoral about making a profile on okcupid.

>>18650015
>As if people are not able to get someone the old fashioned way.

You aren't able to do it this way. Because you are a social retard.

You admit as much yourself

>>18649941
Have you ever had yourself screened for an autism spectrum disorder?

Be honest

>>18650083
Lel projecting much?

>>18650089
Hey look, you deflected

>>18650053
It's immoral to have a gf according to him.

>>18649941
What is your nationality op?
Your language skills are are hodgepodge of decent vocabulary and a lack of grammatical understanding.
Your problem is that you are unlikeable and a downer. People dont want negative people in their lives and this whole thread you have tried to maintain a smug superiority about your lack of social media usage. You are on 4chan right this second which is social media. If you dont want to use dating apps or social media it has nothing to do with your age and has everything to do with your personality. Get social media and add all of your coworkers and when you meet people you like add them. This will fix your issue whether you want to admit it or not.

>>18650083
OP here.
I have undegone diagnosis. I've ben diagnosed with Asperger syndrom.

>>18650103
The use of social media feels wrong at my age.

>>18650132
How do you explain everyone else your age and older using social media? Don't seriously tell me your mother doesn't use them.

>>18650132
My mom who is 50 uses social media. My grandparents use social media. My father contacts all of his employees on facebook group chat. The only coworker who isnt on social media is a ghost and never comes out with us. What do you think that does to his social life?

>>18650142
When Johnny jumps off a bridge, you would do the same?

1. I can not explain why old people use social media

2. I consider anyone over 24-26 using social media a pedophile.

>>18650142
My parent's do not use social media.

My dad does not have a smartphone.

My mom only uses Whatsapp to message my sister and a few other family members.

>>18650145
That is another thing I find wrong!
Work and personal life should never mix.
I was always taught that it was wrong to socialise with people from the office outside work times.

>>18650148
>pedophile
You don't understand what that word means. Is the problem maybe that you are a closeted pedo and are afraid of getting aroused at the sight of children?

>>18650148
I'm not a nerd, so of course I'd jump off the bridge. Sounds like fun. More fun than not jumping off a bridge.

>>18650168
Nope. I actually hate kids. If it were up to me I would send all of them to some kind of military school.

>>18650181
Forgot where you came from eh?

>>18650187
I was sent to a boys only boarding school from the age of 6

>>18650166
That doesnt mean you were taught correct. You could have been raised that physically abusing your wife was normal.

>>18650187
Ignore him, he thinks he's a mature adult when he's really a curmudgeonly old cunt

OP here.

I think we can close down this thread.
As most of you want me to engage with that filth known as social media.
I have come to the conclusion that my destiny is to live like a recluse. Maybe I should become a priest and ashew science and technology.

>>18650198
>priests
>eschewing science and technology
I'm afraid you don't meet the mental faculty requirements to be a holy man. You could be a hermit and live naked in a barrel, or perhaps a luddite.

>>18650148
>jumping off a bridge meme
That is extremely lazy thinking. The benefits of social media have already been explained. You were the one who said you arent doing it because other people arent supposed to be doing it so someone mentioned that they do do it.

>>18650215
I stand by what I said.

1.
Social media is for teenagers and early 20-somethings.
My moral compass tells me when you are 26 or over, then you have no right to be on a platform intended for young people.
My Moral compass tells me that anyone over 26 on social media platforms is nothing more than a pedophile looking for it's next prey.

2.
Look! I've never had friends. Therefore I see not use in social media platforms, as no one would interect with me.
Plus, I do not want my former classmates from School & Uni spying on me and seeing how misserable my social life is.

>>18650223
>Moral compass
You keep using that word. Somehow you are implying that the 99% of people ages 26 to 40 who use social media are immoral.

>>18650231
So you see your own hypocracy?
You yourself have set an upper limit up to what age it's acceptable to use social media. Which you deem to be 40.
Then why is my "finished from Uni" age limit seen as wrong?

>>18650223
I see why you have no friends

It really says a lot of this forum when NOBODY has realized how hard this dude is trolling you all.

>>18650250
Even with the succes that I've had. I'm still embaressed who I'am.

>>18650252
Welcome to 4chan. Where autism and trolling are sometimes hard to tell apart.

>>18650252
I'm being genuine. I want help and advise, but social media is not the answer I need.

>>18650252
If you actually think posts are serious then you just got double trolled
Unless you were merely baiting

>>18649830
I very much doubt you worked your ass off. You probably sit at a cubical and shitpost for 7 hours out of the 9 hours you're actually at work. You say you worked your ass off, but you only want to put in the absolute bare minimum to get laid. You have this weird ass baby boomer mentality. Newsflash: you're a millineal just like me. You either use millineal tactics and suck it up, or deal with the fact that you'll forever be a virgin because you're sad, boring, pathetic, and want to blame all your problems on others.

>>18650252
Nah man, bait wouldn't last for nearly 3 days. He truly is either this egotistical or autistic.

>>18650550
Bait lasts as long as he keeps bumping and retards keep pretending to be retarded

White?

1. Take a trip to Asia
2. Fuck a handful of hot women (trust me, it's easy over there)
3. Gain confidence
4. You will magically start attracting women in your own country due to the confidence you exude

>>18649841
Just to point out that i see more postst from 'organisation leaders' on social media (facebook and twitter) that arent at all childish.they might be pedophiles though.

>>18650596
How many people out there do you think are pedophiles? 99%?

>>18644473
I'm a white guy (blonde hair, blue eyes, pale skin) and I feel like a fucking king when I walk around my 15% white neighbourhood.
You just have a victim complex.

>>18648448
>no reply
I'm not an Incel fag, but you do have a point

>>18644652
desu girls probably think you're a serial killer when they hear this.

If you don't want to meet someone through a dating app (and I don't blame you) why don't you try different socials, for example you could join a book club or go to a life drawing class? obviously choose something that best fits your hobbies!