So I've finally snagged a girlfriend and now I don't know what to do with her. I honestly didn't think I'd get this far so I didn't plan at all for the future.
Yes I understand take her out but is there a reasonable timeline for events and escalations in our relationship?
I have this exact same problem
>>18642442
It sucks because if you don't act she's gone
>>18642437
Hey good job!
Girls like dominance, unless you got yourself a dom girl (which is sort of rare) you'll have to be calling all of the shots. If you dont, she'll get bored. Heres what you do.
Whats happening in your city? Take her out places, show her a good time. Just because she's your girlfriend now doesnt mean you should stop wooing her into loving you. Dont rush sex either, if youve already slept with her good on you but dont push that agenda like you count on it to make your relationship work.
Do small things, buy her her favourite cereal or something. Write her love notes. Send her goodmorning/goodnight texts. A relationship is not a race and the little things count far more than you think. Treat her like you want to be treated (unless you have some sort of weird torture fantasy). No timeline of events, no planned escalations. Just show her that you love her. When you're out in public, act proud that shes your girlfriend. Show her off. Make her feel special. The foundation of a relationship is what makes the months to come even greater. Create a strong bond and keep it.
Most of all. COMMUNICATE. Dont hide your feelings but dont bring them up with a surprise or an exaggerated manner. The end.
How to keep a gf and grow with her 101.