Losing or already Lost gf to SJW culture

You're scared to leave her because you'll be alone and no, not every girl is an SJW nut.

>>18641172
>sjw detected??
oh no, shes nutty alright, I fear reprisal

>>18641160
Maybe just point out to her that her worldview is brand-new and obviously influenced by her new friend. Then, point out that private conversations between you & her don't influence world events any more than they did 5 months ago, so it's okay to crack a joke or two without getting angry about it.

>>18641197
That's the thing I tried to point out, that she's alot different from since before, I tell her even if all these things about the world are true, it doesn't affect you are I. She continued with SJW things like "you invalidate me, blah blah blah"

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>>18641160
>Losing or already Lost gf to SJW culture
I had to break up with mine, and I'm a centrist if that makes any difference. SJW culture reminds me of the Christians anno 1066. Dogma, 80% of it.

>>18641250
I'm closer to centrism too, bruh. it hurts because its not like she was this full blown SJW when I first met her. she pulled a real good chameleon job

>>18641235
Just be solid, keep your sense of humor, don't change just because she's changed. Agree with the parts that are true, but continue to call her out on the bullshit manipulation tactics and the out-of-place anger and hysteria. Refuse to reinforce her brainwashing.

She'll either get through the phase and settle back into normal relationship conversations and behavior, or she'll sink deeper into it and your relationship will end. Either way, you keep your dignity intact

>>18641269
>agree with the things that are true

That's the thing with SJWs, its never enough.
they are never pleased because if they are pleased their who movement and purpose not longer exist

>>18641269
This.

Also tell her to reel it back a bit. You support her changing and growing and changing, but you're not into this stuff too. Just be honest.

Once you let her know how you feel, the ball will be in her court. Hopefully she's mature enough to see that she's going though a phase and it's making her alienated from you, and possibly other friends and family.

>>18641160
Virtue signaling is not attractive. Unless she's up in protests and being militant for the right reasons, you shouldn't bother with someone like her. Most SJWs are like flies, fucking annoying.

Especially if lately she is making you feel like shit, that's no good.

Find another awesome girl with who you can have normal conversations and small debates that make you feel like you grow off of each other. This one (I will assume she's 18-25) just seems like she's high on feeling righteous, that she's doing you a favor by educating you. It's all BS man.

note: trust me, I used to be a feminist tumblrina and I left all this shit behind and my life is 110% healthier.

>>18641160
My sister went all sjw for about a year then eased up. I mean she still claims to be feminist but now she makes fun of sjws. Unsure what the catalyst to the change was. I think she first got sucked in to it through tumblr, but tumblr also got her out of it once people started making fun of them on tumblr as well.

Hey it's >>18641288 again I posted before I saw >>18641269 and I'd say do this if you don't want to leave her.

>>18641278
Yeah, but that's only true of the most fanatical members of the "movement." There are a lot more people who kind of dip their toes into this lifestyle because their friends are doing it, and then realize over time that it's mostly retarded. I've seen a few friends of mine go in and out of it.

People are very easily influenced by the "carrot-and-the-stick" routine - e.g. blindly praising "correct speech" and blindly attacking those who disagree. But most people aren't really wired for extremism, and the brainwashing doesn't stick.

>>18641282
I'll give it one more go, I'll tell her she has to chill out a bit, she will most likely tell me some SJW buzzword to not come to understanding with me, the whole existence of SJW is exactly that a Social Justice WARRIOR, they live off of conflict

we had an arguement last night over me saying ill read her "sources" after we had a 4 hour convo.

>>18641197
>>18641235
>trying to use reason and logic with an SJW
there's your first mistake. if she was reasonable and/or logical, she wouldn't be where she is now.

I think she's a lost cause, OP. Not sure what kind of reprisal you fear. Record yourself breaking up with her so you have the record later if she tries to call rape or something.

>>18641288
She's wasn't like this last year, it only happened when she befriended a 19 year old liberal arts major(it figures, lol) and yes, once our fun jokey banter is now filled with, "I don't like that" "that's misogynistic" it's like a 180 from how she used to be. she's not even watching TV shows she used to enjoy, anymore

but i'll try to see if I can reason with her otherwise it's a forgone conclusion

>>18641317
She's afraid of her new friend, lol. She's in an emotionally abusive friendship. This new person came into her life and trained her like a dog, to say "the right things" and never think bad thoughts.

It really, really is just like a religion for atheists. They come up with a set of rules by which they can judge you a "good person" or "bad person," and if you're willing to buy into their logic then they can control you like a puppet.

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>>18641317
I hear you, good luck to you my friend.

One last advice, life is too short... You don't have to take anybody's shit.

>>18641327
THISSSS

this is exactly what I brought up to her!
I think she's is scared of her friend, her friend is one of those aggressive SJWs

how do I get my girl back?
or should I let it run it's course

>>18641334
If her friend is another man, you might have a bigger problem on your hands.

>>18641456
no her friend is a girl, 19 year old liberal arts major who I DO think has a crush on her

>>18641467
>who I DO think has a crush on her

Shit dude, this just adds a whole other level of complexity.

Your girl is changing, and she's more hostile to you. I wish I could say just have a heart to heart with her, but it sounds like you already tried that.

There has to be a way to get through to her, because it sounds like ever since she became friends with this girl, your gf's quality of life went down. And now she's on the verge of losing her boyfriend.

>>18641480
I just sent her a message saying we should take "some space"

>>18641160
I know someone who had to breakup with their girlfriend of 10 years because of the SJW brainwashing. It's filled with manipulative sociopath douchebags. They preyed on her desire to help people and manipulated/shamed her into thinking like them. She's so far off the deepend that she's convinced that all of her failures are because she's not white despite the fact that she fails so much because she can be lazy about things shes supposed to take seriously.

SJW culture is a fucking cancer and I've lost multiple friends to it now. Women who go apeshit over a woman on TV being topless/"exploited" for sex yet we found 8 tabs of rape/dom porn on her phone that she had forgotten to close. Your girlfriend is beyond saving, OP. Just ditch her now. She's poisoned and is not coming back.

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>>18641661

Thanks, Anon. your post was very sobering indeed, I gave her the lets take some space message, don't know if she read it yet, hopefully she will accept it and I can fade away without retaliation.

She really isn't coming back :(

>>18641661
>All of my personal flaws & failures are someone else's fault
>It takes a lot of effort to be strong, it's easier to angrily demand other people to cater to my weakness
This mindset is like a drug. Easy, pleasurable, addictive, and progressively destructive

>>18641611
rip your relationship

>>18641611
tyrone will enjoy this

>>18641682
I am black so is she, so this joke falls flat, Try Again

>>18641706
it doesn't change what i'm saying about you "taking some space", chimp

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>>18641710
>chimp
>lel

I'm the one doing the "taking space" thing, I'm the one ending it, If she wants to fuck Tyrone it's her choice.

>>18641269
>this

>>18641718
Be VERY careful, anon. You'd better hope she has her "Tyrone" lined up already, it is NOT OKAY to surprise a girl with a breakup like that. If you deprive her of sex and affection when she thought she could have it, that's a form of rape. You're a rapist. She did NOT consent to being single again

>>18641718
just walk away permanently, don't hide behind the illusion that it may work out later. you don't want the responsibility of dealing with somebody who is so easily influenced by another person. now have a nice day, jamal. i hope things work out for you.

>>18641728
Lol haha thanks for that laugh

>>18641732
nah it's over and I'm good with that, thanks though, Bryce

>>18641160
Here's the thing, keeping politics out of it the problem is not social justice.
The problem is her expression of her beliefs.

What many of these people don't realise when they carry on like this, on a human to human level it sends a very clear message- my needs and wants are more important than yours! The devilishly clever but bitis this is camouflaged under concern for others.

If you look at the way they express their beliefs, the way the refuse to compromise and viciously target others, then change the subject and scenario, say you're dating and are choosing where to go out or worse yet say you're married and are getting divorced, do you want to be on the wrong end of such a person? Do you think it's worthwhile even getting involved with such an aggression person, a person who clearly states that the way you think is wrong?

If you don't care about your self identity, if you don't care about your own thoughts, if you don't mind being a verbal punching bag, then stay with such a woman.
Ten years from now when you're happy and living life, she'll remember you and be miserable because she'll realise she was brainwashed.

Caring and understanding people do not belittle or attack those around them for their beliefs.
In fact it's when people can't control their own emotions that they try to control the behaviour of those around them.

Leave her.

>>18641773
Thanks, Anon. That definitely made me feel a bit better. Yeah Im done with her, just gonna take getting used to.

>>18641160
>will an SJW ever wake up at a certain point in time?

No.

I say this every time this happens to a dipshit guy who doesn't know when to quit it;

THE GIRL YOU FELL IN LOVE WITH, IS DEAD. SHE HAS BEEN REPLACED WITH A REPLICUNT.

That's how you need to see it. The girl you fell for is never coming back, ever.
All you got left is a replicunt in the same damned body foolling you.

To scared to dump her, then cheat on her with a women that doesn't hate men.
Seriously, straight up find a woman who actually likes you and makes you feel wanted, and start fucking her.
And don't stop even when caught.
If the replicunt has a go at you, just say "I'm gonna keep seeing her no matter what, I'm putting my foot down and you can't stop it".

She'll either walk, or she'll try to win you back by doing everything short of being nice again. But actually being a pleasant person to be around is a little to far, she might offer up some blowies instead because "men just wunt one thang".

If she offers sexual shit to try and win you back, turn it down because you wanna be loyal to your mistress.

>>18641980
I broke up with her anon, im already snapchatting thots

>>18641160
he'll probably end up in the friend zone

>>18642102
Not in the friendzone, I'm the one initiating the split

>tfw used to be a sjw tumblrite
>now I'm a rightie conservative
I don't know

>>18642132
So you have no convictions and you're desperate to be told what to do.

>>18642142
No, I just grew up

Trump happened confirming their fears so now they're not taking things in stride

gonna have to break up with her

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>>18641160

0/10

This pasta sucks, dude.