How to improve one's self-esteem?

>>18640594
since your mother was a model ask her for beauty tips. everything can be fixed with makeup, hair and the right outfit

>no butt
Do squats. You'll never get a Nikki Minaj butt (cause hers is fake, but that's besides the point) but it will start to fill out, especially if you have large things like you say.
>No boobs
That doesn't matter all that much. Don't worry about it. If you get knocked up, they'll fill out on their own.
>Black circles
Make up or surgery.
>Little eyebrows
That's normal. Just shape them and it'll be fine.
>Yellow pale skin
Either change your diet or moisturize.
>Forgettable face
Doubt it
>Ugly haircut
Don't even know what that means. Anyways, visit a professional and ask for help on styles.
>Weird lips
Makeup or moisturizer
>Square body
Refer back to squats, so start working out.
>No personality
Get more hobbies. Read (better) books. Get educated. Hang out with (better) people. Your personality will start to come out.
>Forehead acne.
Wash your face, use moisturizer that won't clog your pores, and exfoliate.
>Singer, but suck at it.
It happens. Just because you can't sing doesn't mean you can't do something within that field, like being a manager for a singer.
>Procrastinating
Gotta force yourself then. Keep yourself busy at all times.
>Autistic
All you need to do is think about your actions and what you say before you say or do it.
>Afraid of talking to people
People aren't THAT shallow. You need to give people a reason for them to hate you, and being "boring" isn't one of them. Yes there are people who will hate you no matter what, but that's just how it is
>1 friend
Better than zero.

You're stressing out about a lot of things, but if you take it one day at a time, it'll get better.

show us your body

>>18640594
be my not so qt low self esteem gf and i will praise you everyday

>>18640594

Let me tell you a little bit about myself:

>5/10 21yo male
>short
>always wanted long wavy hair, but hair is curly and dry and unmanagable
>unibrow
>fucked up eyes
>wonky nose
>uneven chin
>too much body hair (neck, shoulders, back, butt)
>weird looking belly button
>small, wonky, phimosis dick
>genetic skin condition that makes my skin look like leather
>non-white, in a white society; no identity
>spent entire childhood and teenagedom in room; on computer
>no hobbies
>no social skills
>terrified when talking to girls

Here's what I did:

>investigated hair; found theres a particular way of doing my hair that makes me go up by 1 whole point
>talked to barbers a bunch and learned how to describe what i want
>tweeze unibrow weekly
>got glasses that match my face shape
>turns out i can grow a killer beard. but i have to keep it short, else people will think i'm a real killer
>beard increases rating by .5-1
>trim nape weekly
>trim whole body monthly
>stretch daily to cure phimosis; cant do anything for the rest
>moisturize, moisturize, moisturize
>stopped playing video games; learned stuff instead
>got a job
>bought nice clothes
>scared shitless, but force self to socialize with workmates
>people literally avoid me bc i'm weird

Fast-forward 3 years
>i am capable of being a 6.5/10. maybe even 7
>constantly forced self to socialize, i am now a god of socializing
>found good friends
>still like to be a hermit, but no one can tell
>no one cares im not white
>have to tone down social skills otherwise everyone wants to be my friend
>get attention from pretty girls
>finally slept with a girl

Just start researching appearance.
It turned out that I had a particular hair and beard style that made me look great. I would have never found out if I didn't look
You're a girl - there are tons more options for you (makeup, more hair, lots more types of clothes, etc)
Honestly though - people don't care too much about looks in the context of just friendship.

>pic related

>>18640743
Nice pic lad

>>18640594
begone, you attention-whoring thot

Ugh, I wrote a whole thing and it got deleted. Here's a run down.
Pinpointing what you don't like about yourself is a good step, as long as you don't dwell. As a girl, you'll hear about accepting yourself. But everyone (not even exclusively ladies, but guys too) knows how hard that is.

Honestly, find some beauty YouTube channels that you really like. Some have helped me "fix" things I don't like about myself. Plus makeup can be fun.

Butt workouts. Whew. They'll help your self esteem.

Work on accepting things you can't change. Though I don't recommend it, but surgery had helped some people feel better.

Hope you find what you're looking for, fun. everyone deserves to feel cute.

File: 473.jpg (61KB, 500x383px) Image search: [Google]

61KB, 500x383px

>>18640743

Forgot pic.

As dumb as it sounds, I remember the anime Guren Lagann was really inspirational. I highly recommend giving it a watch.

>>18640743
+1

>>18640693
>If you get knocked up, they'll fill out on their own.
That's a temporary state, boobs are rekt by pregnancy

>>18640743
Well done sir. I think we can all aspire to be more like you.

File: 1472876771590.jpg (403KB, 1440x2560px) Image search: [Google]

403KB, 1440x2560px

>all those features
>obvious /fa/ expert

is it possible...

>>18640594
Get a man. Your self-esteem will go up immediately.

>>18640594
sign up for a dating site. You'll get hundreds of thirsty men complimenting you.

>>18642605
Its that you?

>>18642605
you would look great as a light red head and rid yourself of the pageboy cut

>>18640594
On the off chance that OP might still be around to read this.

If people percive you as autistic there's a non neglible chance that you are on the autism spectrum. You don't have to be rainman to get a diagnose.

Go see a doctor who can steer you in the right directon to a specialist, also with all the shit your saying about youself although you look perfectly fine I wouldn't rule out depression.

There's absolutely no reason that i can see whatsoever that excludes you from living a perfectly normal happy life, but you will need tools to get there and /adv is probably not going to be enough.

File: 1472876771591.jpg (90KB, 575x674px) Image search: [Google]

90KB, 575x674px

well i think youre fuckin pretty OP. hit me up! we'll go on a date!