angry break-up?

>>18639630
Why can't you just break her off completely? Why do you give a shit what she says anymore?

People in general are going to be pieces of shit. If they can talk bad about someone to give them a perceived increase in some arbitrary attribute, they'll do it in a heartbeat.

My ex-girlfriend used to talk shit about me behind my back, and it would always come back to me one way or another, I realized that she was doing it to make herself seem more appealing, by minimizing our relationship, as well as gain sympathy from her friends.

Your best bet is to block her and her friends, and move on with your life. I struggled with making that same decision as well, I wanted to take the high road and not have to resort to those things, but at the end of the day it's the best thing to do, to get a clean break.

>>18639639
I already did that because I realized how much I ignored my needs and my options in life because of her needs and wishes. Oh well guess thats just how things go after a long term relationship
>>18639633
Because women in order to feel secure and confident, first have to make a man believe how confident and secure they are. They obviously are neither of those two things

>>18639649
What are the consequences of these rumors your ex creates?

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>>18639669
I dont know, I think mostly her feeling better about herself in front of other insecure women or something like that. Im just trying to understand the defense mechanism behind it all because she is the one that dumped me, she is the one that had to make a decision that would ultimately bennefit her more than me. She doesnt get to act like a spoiled child after losing its toy, if it was her own decision to do so.

My ex did the same thing. Turned a lot of my old friends against me.

Difference is: I now make more than all of them combined. I cut off every single one of them who chose to believe her after I denied her bullshit. People are expendable. A few of them came to me asking for jobs. I gave one of them a temporary job.

Keep working out. I did that as well as dropping my bad habits such as drinking, smoking, junk food, etc. My old Honda turned into a Mercedes and my parents room turned into a decent condo. Find new friends at the gym or at your college. You can do this.

>>18639630
Every ex gf will do this, it makes them feel better. When someone comes to you to tell you what an ex said or did tell them to keep it to themselves, you don't care to know.

>>18639677
It doesn't matter. You're over thinking everything.

Ignore it all. Move on.

>>18639630
She feels the need to justify that the breakup was the right thing. I mean she wasn't just over with you when she broke up, you were still the person closest to her and it still hurt her. Because she's a cunt that only cares for her own feelings she needs to tell people horror storries in order to gain nothing but sympathy and positive reinforcement. There you have it.

You're the bigger person to begin with, took the break up like a champ, she's afraid of you