How do I stop caring about a girl who wronged me so much?

I just read you subject.

tl;dr Zen Buddhism

Replace her.

you can get better than her. agree or disagree? you deserve better than her. agree or disagree? all that crap didn't happen because you suck, it happened because she sucks and made selfish shit decisions. this is a reflection of herself, not of you. don't accept less than you deserve; don't expect more than you've earned. and that bar is not set by her. it's set by you. simple as that.

>>18638881
Do elaborate
>>18638888
I get a lot of mixed responses about rebound girls. Why do you think it would work?
>>18638915
Agree with everything you said, but I still can't help but feel that if I had done that thing differently or that thing, she wouldn't have done those things and she wouldn't have broken up with me even though I'm aware she probably would have done it either way.

You need to forgive both her for fucking with you and yourself for fucking up. Until then the emotions will stay with you though they will probably still dissipate slowly over time.

>>18638938
>Do elaborate
Listen to Alan Watts until you get it.

>if I had done that thing differently or that thing, she wouldn't have done those things and she wouldn't have broken up with me even though I'm aware she probably would have done it either way.
But what happened happened.
She did those things.
She made you feel the way you felt (to be fair though, you made yourself feel the way you felt, she was just a mediator)
You don't have to do this anymore.

You don't have to do this anymore.
You don't have to do this anymore.
All your questions are stupid. Don't take it personal. You don't have to do this anymore. Tell youself this, and that's how you stop.

It takes time, but that's okay.

Oh and you miss her either because you gained validation from being in a relationship or you believe your life would be significantly better if you were still in that relationship (or both). You know you're better off without her, you just need to actually believe it.

>>18638938
the rebound girl thing is kinda like a shortcut way of convincing yourself of those things you're already aware of but still holding onto regardless. reaffirms my first post in a more tangible way that's much harder for a stubborn hurting psyche to deny. at least that's the idea. usually it works. sometimes it doesn't. but hey that's the nature of shortcuts. i don't know shit about alan watts but everything that anon is posting is solid as fuck. would recommend/10

>>18638875
>How do I stop caring about a girl who wronged me so much?
If you nut in a semi-attractive girl, any negative thoughts about your ex will melt away. And I mean NUT. like ejaculate like a goddamn firehose deep inside her. it's literally impossible to give a fuck about some other bitch when you're balls deep in another.

Make a list of the things you don't like about her/your your relationship with her/ keep it in your pocket and read it when you think about her. Make sure to add stuff as it comes to you.

>>18638969
>>18638972
Alright. I'll look into him when I have some free time.
>>18639005
>>18639421
Okay then. I'll try to snatch me some fresh pussy in the near future.
>>18639428
I'll have to buy some extra pens then.

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>>18639764
>. I'll try to snatch me some fresh pussy
Do, or do not. There is no try.