What's her endgame?

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I've grown a lot since starting college and I've gained self-respect and confidence. I want some advice and instruction on what to do with someone I know.

I have feelings for a friend and I told her a few months back. She was really strange about it, she didn't want to reject me outright and we just talked for awhile. She admitted that her boyfriend was just a friend she's very barely involved with. (It's not my business but she built up a huge lie.)

I told her I wasn't okay with being just friends and she sounded really sad. She told me she would be sad but would understand my decision. (I didn't buy that.) We didn't talk for about a month but I decided to talk to her again, just to see what happens.

She was "really concerned about where we stood" which I found odd. I just reassured her we could be friends after all. Ever since then, we've had arguments and disagreements like any normal human beings but she isn't quite herself?

Normally she's a talkative and kind girl but she's become more emotional when we've gotten into deep discussion.

A big moment is when she talked about her "needs". She talked to me about needing comfort and reassurement and when she brought up needing comfort if she and her "boyfriend" broke up, I was pissed. I told her she absolutely cannot expect that type of attention, especially from me. We just got into a whole big argument where I had to explain why that was wrong and she almost cried when she says

>"Anon! You wouldn't change for anyone?!"
>"Hell No!"
>"But I-I would change for you!"

We haven't talked much since then but we arranged a hangout for when we get back to school. Can anyone tell me what might be up with her?