Is it easy for men to get laid nowadays?

>is it easy for men to get laid nowadays?
I don't know, ask /r9k/

4chan and reddit are full of salty incels, On reddit I was told based I look above average but I couldn't get a one night stand, then I went out and actually tried and I got 4 in one week.

>>18637032
>What's your take /adv/?
A lot of the whining probably comes from the same few people.

>>18637036
>>18637039

yeah it's what I am coming to realize

Having sex is and has always been very easy for men.

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You see, 20% of males get 90% of the ons/fwb pussy in the world.

The males you pay attention to irl, the males you see in the media, the males that achieve great things, those are the males you refer to as men.

So it is true, it have never been easier for men to destroy holes these days. Now, if you take a look at boys, meaning the other 80%, now that's a whole different story.

It's just how the market works.

Really depends on where you are from

>>18637053
>surprised that an attractive guy gets attention from girls looking to fuck
News flash. If you were presented with a 5/10 and a 9/10 and was told to pick one for pumping and dumping, you would pick the 9/10 even if she was a shitty person.

>>18637057
Not a fucking neo-nazi.

>>18637053
>You see, 20% of males get 90% of the ons/fwb pussy in the world.

I don't think so.

I am not part of the top 20% in looks yet i would have got more matches than the dude in the pic if I stayed more on tinder.

I would also get pretty explicit messages

>>18637073
t b h I would a neo-nazi.

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>>18637077
>20% of males get 90% of the ons/fwb pussy
80% still get pussy, just not quality puss.

>>18637032
but what is an incel
everyne says we're incels

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>>18637032
Daily reminder that dating apps experience is heavily determined by your own looks and LOCATION.

If you live in NY with 10M people in it, you can literally drown in pussy. On the other hand try living in middle of nowhere or be very shit at taking selfies and the pussies might never come.

So all theorizing is useless. Just go and try for yourself.

>>18637032

Ye it's pretty easy OP last time I was single for a few months I was actually finding it hard to find time for all the girls I was seeing. Not even tinder just clubs and uni and shit

It was aite but I'm happier in a relationship, tinder hookups aren't that great it's just pussy

Judging from 90% of posts on this website, it seems definitely hard for some dude to get pussy

>>18637550
why would it be so ahrd for us?
I literally think that atomphysics are easier than knowing what a bitch wants..

so do i really have to go through hundreds of decline until i finally get laid?

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>>18637550
>it seems definitely hard for some dude to get pussy
literally because they don't have friends

>>18637032
>Is it easy for men to get laid nowadays?
Not if you're a social wreck, like most /r9k/ people. A little confidence helps a lot.

>>18637032
>Sure enough I got over 100 matche
Fuck me, man. You must look like a fucking stud.

I get, maybe, a match a day tops but from there its not super hard. Still not plain sailing though, can't just ask and get it.

>>18637032
>I'm a pretty average looking dude
100 matches in 2 days? No, you're not. Unless you live in an area with huge population density and have low standards.

>>18637032
Where do you live, OP?

>>18637036
>I went out and actually tried and I got 4 in one week.
Where did you go and what did you do to get them?

>>18637032

I've tried to register for tinder for years now but i keep getting rejected cause I have barely any friends on facebook and apparently that's a requirement.

I was an incel for a while and tried the whole tinder thing and failed miserably at it. I took a year to work on self improvements like maintaining a decent haircut, losing a good bit of weight taking better pictures and improving my conversation skills.

Now I have a fairly good success rate. I'm by no means a chad and I don't expect to have a crazy high like:match ratio but I went from 0 to having to be careful not to double book.
That being said, I find meeting a person irl is a lot easier than tinder because most of the people you match with are just looking for a confidence boost.
I follow the bee urself meme, I just became a better me.

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>>18637032

some are. some arent. when you're on 4chan you're going to get a lot of a very specific type of people, its an anonymous place where they can be honest about their suffering without it being traced back to them. in many cases they will also exaggerate in order to get more pity, and they will claim certain untrue things in order to fit in with the bigger narrative thats been forming.

I've written several 'beta' pastas for instance, pic related. and like with any greentext there is SOME truth in it, but theres also a lot of fake in it.

in this case, I actually WAS a homosexual all along, i just was reading things in a beta thread and realized if i bent the truth it would be pretty funny.

ugly men with no social skills are suffering quite a bit, mostly because they refuse to date women on their level. but anyone can get laid and date so long as they date women within their range of attractiveness. the ugly ones tend to get it stuck in their mind that if they hold out a hot woman will settle for them because thats what happens in the movies.

>>18637032
The amount of sex is probably around the same as always, possibly slightly up from decade or two ago but it's much more polarized.
Smaller chunk of men gets larger portion of all sex because of things like Tinder.

It's a pretty natural phenomena that happens when competition increases and availability of alternatives grows.


You see the same thing happen in lot of other things.

Take Eggs
200 years ago, you would get eggs either from your own chickens or from a local producer. The big producers would of course supply entire villages but generally products like this must come fresh from somewhere close.
Fast forward to today where number of eggs eaten is roughly the same but the amount of producers has been cut in the region of 99%

Same with sex, back in the day the opportunity cost of meeting 100 males was pretty big, you would have to go out for starters but to really meet 100 available men would take pretty big effort. Today you can do it in 15 minutes with Tinder.
Today there is no real reason not to go over 100 men and choose the best one and since tastes on men are pretty much identical for large portion of womans this results in everyone picking the same guy.
Maybe theres slightly more sex these days but people used to fuck a lot in the past as well. The only difference is the size and convenience of the matchmaking pools which naturally favors attractive men as the pools grow.

>>18637035
There are men on /r9k/?

>>18637032
The average denizens of whatever terrible website you want to visit are not normal people that can give you any sort of perspective on the real world and how it functions, because they are not part of it.

>>18638242
This is bullshit and a poor comparison. A chad can only have sex with a finite amount of women in a given period of time. There is a saturation point (which has already been hit) where there are plenty of women will be left without chad so they settle. The top 10% of men do not have the same ability that a chicken farm does to scale with very high demand.

>>18638263
Well obviously which is why it won't end in 1 guy fucking all the women in the planet, I didn't say that either so not sure what you are sperging out about.

It's pretty clear that the sexual market is more polarized than what it was 10 or 50 or 100 years ago and there is still lot more room to go as new generation grows up with Tinder and similar things

I'm 6' skinny white guy with boyish looks and frequently go clubbing. I'll get lucky every few months but it's so rare that it's not worth it, honestly I got my ego hurt more than anything

>>18638250
They're better men than the 40 year old virgin male feminists you see on reddit.

I was about to make a longer post, but I decided I could make it a lot more concise. Physically, I'm an above average attractive guy. But I'm bad at flirting because I didn't develop socially in a normal way and have limited experience with relationships and sex. I haven't had sex in almost a year. I'm living proof that you need to have "game" or confidence or whatever. Because I'm not a bad looking guy by anyone's standards, I just literally have no game.

>>18637049
false

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>>18638470
>the 40 year old virgin male feminists you see on reddit
I'm legitimately fascinated over how certain '''''men''''' can be such beta-cucks.

>>18638470
And being poked in the non-dominant eye is better than getting poked in your dominant eye. Yet both are shit.

>>18637032
it's really easy if you put in some effort. but i think a lot of guys are not willing to put in any effort. they won't even go outside or try to meet people (women) but they'll spend 10 hours a day complaining about tfw no gf.

>>18637077
Help and dude out. What did you do?

>>18638918
Define "some effort". What do you think "some effort" is compared to "a lot of effort"?

>>18637032

Yes. 4Chan is not a good sample demographic for humans and their general experience.

Weirdos and edgelords come here. So there will.be more rejects, social tards, and people who hide behind keyboards and have no life here then there will be outside.

You are an absolute fool if you took 4chan for the real world.

My roommate invited his co-worker to stay with us for the weekend because she broke up with her boyfriend. I gave her the fertile cummings on the second day. Yeah, I think it's easy.

There's a lot of single male suffering out there. I see it off 4chan too (irl). You may look better than you think, or have a well-put together profile.

>>18639021
I was a bit of a social retard in high school and early college years. I thought no girl could love me.

Despite my shit social skills i started *trying* to go out. Even though on this day my social skills have leveled quite a bit, im still a bit strange to people.

Which is important to consider when i swear ive fucked or had an opportunity to fuck about 1/10 girls ive met. Ive heard the same number by quite a few other people, on a wide scale of social skills and status, too, actually, seems to be a magic number.

>the effort

I showed up places and didnt isolate myself. Thats it.

>>18638167
>ugly men with no social skills are suffering quite a bit, mostly because they refuse to date women on their level.

Lol there are no women on their level, they're the absolutely bottom of the barrel. Even women on their physical Level are above them.

>>18637032
Tinder has caused an explosion in STI is globally
while this in itself is cause for concern is also happening at the same time antibiotic resistant strains of gonorrhoea for example are appearing very soon I majority of those STIs could be like herpes in the way you're carrying them for life and I will scar your reproductive organs and cause problems later in life

Play safe

>>18639021
go to a place where singles of the age group you desire (bar, club, concert, convention, fair, etc.) will be around and mingle. Be proactive but not aggressive and take failure in stride.

Setting up a half complete dating profile and giving up after no matches in an hour is not "some effort"

I was pretty taken aback by my the number of matches I got on different services, too. It blows my mind when I see new notifications for matches on Tinder because all of my photos are outdated and I look terrible in them. The shitkicker here is, I'm your stereotypical recovering /r9k/ poster of several years. I bought into a lot of the toxic shit that gets spread around there, unfortunately. I don't consider myself attractive in the least. I'm a 26 year old virgin, and even though I have a good job and live well, I've only been on one date in my entire life, and it was an absolute disaster. In spite of all of this, I still get at least one match every single time I sign onto Tinder, and I get notices from different dating sites saying that people have checked out profiles I've made in the past and they're interested in possibly making a connection.

My point is, don't sell yourselves short, fellas. Even though >>18637053 is pretty much the reality, you've also gotta look at the numbers. There are hundreds of millions of men and women in the world. In order for you to be on the bottom rungs of the dating totem pole, you'd have to be pretty damn fucked.

>>18639090
to add on to this, are you really the kind of people who want sex from women who are so dumb they match >>18637053?

>>18637032
If you're tall, average-looking, not a NEET and invested a minor amount of effort in gaining flirting skills, getting sex should be pretty easy.

But if you're a manlet, forget it.

>>18639113
Not even. Some girls love shy and awkward guys. They think its cute.

Still gotta be mildly attractive and not short af but.. Social skills really truly arent a must.

Source: me for one. Im decent looking, and at 30 im still retarded around girls. Ive had over 10 partners and one night stands. 5 in a period of 2 months when i really tried.

If you can count going places and stumbling through sentences trying..

>>18639116

thank you. You saved me from all of these bullshits you hear everywhere

>>18639229
If you're young, or look young, try to find an ER nurse. They love guys like that.

Lol, yes, it's very easy to have sex if you want to.

4chan is distorted because people here are either creeps that are in the vast minority and really CAN'T get fucked, and sensitive and/or elitist people that are reserving themselves for a more substantial relationship

>>18637032
Fat and ugly guy here. If I wasn't fat and ugly getting laid would be bullshit easy. Women are retarded and easily manipulated. The amount of times I've seen dudes with average bodies and a little bit of confidence nail girls like it's nothing is ridiculous. Hell, even if you're fat as long as you're the "attractive" (heavy emphasis on the quotes) kind of fat then you could still fuck pretty easily if you're willing to take the other fat and ugly chicks.

>>18637101
Can confirm this. Live in medium town and average and no puss.

I wish I could just find a girl to be friends with me, don't want sex

Married though

>>18639241
I'm confident and I can carry on a conversation on multiple levels. But I don't like to be around middle-upper class bitches and assholes. This is where I freeze up. I'm a little bit chubby but I am also bulky and I have a nice face so looks are not a real deal. Not a manlet. Thing is that if you read enough here and that, the sums of all the advices and theory is: Never ever show vulnerability or you're fucked. But I can't have a good time with a girl if it is like being at war. I also find that being so defensive and acting too much like a cool narcissist is quite a gay thing. It seems to me that in a Freudian sense if you are fighting other males to be the alpha, your attention, and so your libido, is towards them and not towards the female. In nature the alpha state is also reached fucking in the ass other males. For me pussy has more of a loosening and nurturing effect. I'll try on nurses btw.

>>18638161
You're tall, aren't you?

Getting fit or having a better haircut doesn't work for manlets.

I would be better with women than you if I gained 6 inches in height.

Wow, this thread just blew the whole website out the water.

And yet people here still wont accept how getting puss be ez, you just got to decide weather or not its worth it, I mean I fucking hate night clubs and getting wasted but I'm pretty sure I'd get laid eventually if I did that often enough.

>>18639611
It's ez for 20% of men. That still leaves out billions of other guys.

>>18639651
whether or not you're in that 20% is entirely mental. see >>18639564 fell for the manlet meme and no he's never gonna make it.

>>18639651
It's easy for 99% of men. The 20/80 meme is perpetuated by bitter virgin manchildren of /r9k/. It's a desperate coping mechanism to convince themselves they are like 80% of men, and not the bottom 1%.

>>18639113
Another retarded /fit/ meme. Go on /r9k/ and see the virgins there. They're all tall.

>>18639248
The one and only reason why people here can't get laid is because they simply don't try. Any of the bitter virgins here could get laid if they made even the slightest effort.

>>18637032
Maybe it's easy for a regular human being to get laid, but we both post on this shit website, so what would we know about that?

>>18639564
You're just like the tall virgins: you chose to be bitter and alone. It's a guarantee you have never once even asked a girl out or tried tinder.

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>>18640225
I am tall and bitter and alone

it's hard to ask out something you hate

>>18640288
have you considered fucking dudes then? You sound like a drug addict right now

>>18640293
not attracted to guys or masculinity
I'm addicted to porn which is ok, because it's better than sleeping with the fat desperate cows that came onto me in college

>>18640206
>bottom 1 percent
eat my ass you fucking nigger im better than 80 percent of yall

>>18640318
>better than 80 percent
>is in the 1 percent of permavirgins

>>18640322
why the fuck you even come here if you dont want to help and youre so good with bitches?

you could just get out right now, have some party and stop bothering us with that bullshit

>>18640302
have fun being alone and bitter I guess

>>18640325

Sorry man but you're just plain wrong and jaded. Don't buy into the whole 20% thing because it's just stupid.

>>18640326
I'm not having fun
I want to kill myself

Its funny and pathetic how some normiezors dont understand that I and many other ppl are not the typical fat af robot who plays wow all day and do literally nothign

its not like i choosed to be bitter and lonely, life just happens man, its not like i wanted to have family problems, being bullied and being utterly destroyed mentally and morally.

but sure i am to blame for all this, after all i am a god who engineered quantummechanically my life to be this fucked , thanks, cunt.

>>18640337

Don't think that's what they think. 4chan is a place where people anonymously tell you to kill yourself and pouring your heart out to them. Don't expect anything else from this site.

>>18637032
well if it is why cant i laid? I know i'm an above average looking guy so i know that's not the problem. I want to go out and meet girls but going to night clubs by myself just seems retarded, and all my friends would rather play video games then go to clubs.

>>18640331
what ur saying is stupid
being alone gf less is much more common
and i dont look like shit .
its that modern whores are so fucking picky because they have hte money the time the looks, theey get served everything and has no problem destroying a mans moral and esteem to the ground. they worse than men when it comes to bullying.

yeah some guy comes up to you and beat you up, who cares, you can get strong and beat him up next time.

but get shit on by a woman, shell destroy your whole mind, your self picture, your human worth. nothing will be left, just you being mentally crippled forever.

it was a terrible mistake to make it an unwritten rule that you cant beat women.


im not in the bottom 1 percent, that would mean that im a genetic failure which clearrly i am not, or else i wouldnt be alive to write shit to you here.

>>18640335
then what the fuck do you want you retard?
>hey guys please help I hate the way I am
>have you tried changing
>no and I don't plan to

>>18640351

man it's just not true. Sure, there are TERRIBLE people who do that. Guys and girls. I've met girls who literally have plans for their life. how they want to marry an upper class educated man who earns 120K a year and be a stay at home mum. I've also met girls who are amazing and aren't assholes. you're always going to run into this, it's where you interact. My advice is find a hobby that you like and go to an event and talk to people, not just girls. you'll find like minded people who you can relate with. staying on /r9k/ will just reaffirm negative and sexist stereotypes of women and also you won't ever get out of it. I feel like you need to address the abuse you faced in the past. you'll become a happier person if you do.

>>18640372
address the abuse, how so?

>>18640337
>its not like i choosed to be bitter and lonely
you don't? there's someone with a gun pointed at your head forcing you to stay indoors all day and play videogames? You're locked in a prison and all they feed you is junkfood? You've got a chinese firewall that only lets you access 4chan?
get over yourself you cunt. you have no one to blame but yourself for your failings
>its not like i wanted to have family problems, being bullied and being utterly destroyed mentally and morally.
cry me a river you fucking pussy. I'm blind in my left eye, got horrible gyno, a disease where I need to get 5 hour infusions of medicine that cost $400 after insurance every 9 weeks, am overweight, and I'm getting married to two months. Everybody, EVERYBODY has shit they need to deal with in their life, nobody is looking for a whiny cunt your does nothing but wallow in self pity.
>>18640345
then do an activity you like that's social, other single people will probably do it to, strange I know
>>18640351
>but get shit on by a woman, shell destroy your whole mind, your self picture, your human worth. nothing will be left, just you being mentally crippled forever.
what kind of colossal faggot gets so bitter just because he was rejected once? You don't need advice from 4chan, you need a psychiatrist to help you get the fuck over yourself

>>18640374

Try meditation. See a therapist. Practice techniques to calm yourself down and speak the words in existence. such as "____ you're alright" or "You can do it". I was sexually abused through my teenage years and spent the last three years in an absolute hell hole. I know that it'll affect my life till the day I die but I must live with it and fight it. We all have to.

>>18640368
your suggestion for change has been to transform myself into a homosexual

>>18640376
i don't really like an activities that are social, except maybe dancing, should i start doing dance classes?

>>18640376

>you don't? there's someone with a gun pointed at your head forcing you to stay indoors all day and play videogames? You're locked in a prison and all they feed you is junkfood? You've got a chinese firewall that only lets you access 4chan?
get over yourself you cunt. you have no one to blame but yourself for your failings

you clearly dont understand. I had no saying in how screwed I become. Like I dont controll how many damage i get, i get what i get , and thats how it was.

>cry me a river you fucking pussy. I'm blind in my left eye, got horrible gyno, a disease where I need to get 5 hour infusions of medicine that cost $400 after insurance every 9 weeks, am overweight, and I'm getting married to two months. Everybody, EVERYBODY has shit they need to deal with in their life, nobody is looking for a whiny cunt your does nothing but wallow in self pity.

Oh, the classical " I have it worse so you dont have right to complain".

just so you know, i try to get into uni, and i workout almost everyday, but geuss what , the shit doesnt go away, i dont meet better peope, life doesnt becomes shiny and colorful.

>what kind of colossal faggot gets so bitter just because he was rejected once?

once ? kek i wish it was just a rejection, not constant harassing and bullying, squadfam.

always the defeatism ,"everything is your fault" except thats utter bullshit, its the fucking people the shitty parents who raise up shitty fucking kids, that makes degenerate shitty persons like you the acceptable standard .
you're such a tryhard tuffguy retarded faggot it radiates on my skin, the cringe.

>>18640372
I really don't see the problem with wanting to marry a guy with a decent salary and be a stay at home mom. Do you want her to stay at home raising the kids while the household income is 40k? Kids are expensive.

>>18640386
I guess thats how it is,
" they may tear us down but well go down fighting."

I think you just have to find the right situation and pussy becomes easy to obtain.

I work in the HVAC trade and my company takes care of a large amount of buildings for apple, so im around tech girls all day long. These chicks are so used to goofy ass software engineers that when they see a real man like myself they react quite differently. Ive worked here a little over a year and ive fucked 4 different apple girls, all of which I went to their place because they make a fuckload of money and can afford one.

Depends on your situation, you can get a lot of not much at all.

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How do you look? Post a pic. I'm well trained and groomed/dressed but look disgusting. (Red hair, manlet, acne etc) so I get 3 matches per 1000 swipes. 2 of which are landwhales.

It's easier than ever. You can literally match with really attractive chicks on tinder. you can look up youtube vids on dating that actually work. You can literally have a gif/meme keyboard on your phone to send these girls memes or stickers or whatever. If you arent completely lost it's easy as fuck

>>18640409
>>18640399

>>18640393

Yeah I explained it very poorly. She's not a nice person who constantly makes fun of other people and bitches about them constantly.

>>18640399
Your profile pics might not be good. Do your pictures have any personality? Do they show you having fun with your friends? Do they show you doing interesting things? Or are they just solo selfies

>>18640337
What have you done to improve your life? Oh, right, nothing. Why do you deserve to be given a gf for no effort when everyone else has to work for it? Stop being such an entitled special snowflake. It's the first step in recovering from the /r9k/ cult.

>>18640393
because from the age of 5 max they are already babysat in public schools and it takes two incomes for a functioning household now
do you realize how rare it is for someone to have a six figure salary? it's maybe 10% of all Americans, one of the most highest paying countries on the planet
chances are you don't get the luxury of ancient social dynamics and gender roles in progressive egalitarian society, sorry!

>>18640391
Dance classes are not a bad idea. You will meet girls there and have fun.

>>18640414
why is it that he has to have interesting fun pics with friends while women on the same app get away with myspace angle selfies
why does his hobbies have to include skydiving and snowboarding when the matching bio claims netflix and chipotle are a hobby

>>18640392
listen dude, you can either nut up and improve yourself or spend all your time blaming your failings on stuff outside your control. I've browsed this site too long to get invested in anybody's sob story. Choose whichever path you want, just don't expect any sympathy when you choose to do nothing and then complain about how everything is shit.

>>18640432
Couldn't have said it better myself.

>>18640340
Most people here want to die, also this board /soc/ and /cgl/ are full of normos

>>18640399
post face, unless you exclusively pick up chicks at the beach your face is the first thing everyone is going to see. If you fill your profile with pics of just your bod you're only gonna attract people who care about that and nothing else.

>>18640432
Because that's how it works dude it's easier to just do some fun things than change the whole world to agree with you

& Bio doesn't matter, I've gotten plenty of matches with
-blank bio
-stole some chicks bio because it was funny
-shit like "indolent retard"
-talking about how i want to make kombucha
-talking about computer science
Etc

>>18640446
This site is not for bitter kissless virgins. You are a tiny minority and belong on /r9k/. Stop shitting up other boards.

>>18640432
Do you honestly think there aren't guys on dating apps who just load their profile with pics of their muscles and wait for matches? The point of the fucking apps is to match you with people with similar interests. If your interests are banging whores you better start being attractive to whores (IE have good looks, be willing to spend money on them, and generally be a chad). I can't comprehend this kind of doublethink where you assume every guy on dating sites is a quiet beta like you just hoping for table scraps from some magical "deep web" full of hyper-attractive humans who bang strangers all day and somehow you can only access the profiles of the women.

>>18640458
/r9k/ is trash too, you need to go back to ledit where you belong.

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>>18640450
:( don't tell my to cut my hair i love it

>>18640471
you look fine, work on smiling more. You're glasses are full on dork-core but that works for some women.

>>18640471
You look fine dude, literally all you need is pics of you doing fun/interesting/social stuff

>>18640478
Show me some glasses that aren't ''dork core'' then. Also, I have extremly deep dimples so I try to avoid smiling. It looks disgusting when i do

>>18640484
but i have no friends and dont want any :( i just want some tight white pooooontang

>>18640506
i like contacts but have trouble with monthlies
dailies are a little pricier but they're great, you could try those

>>18640513
im getting contacts next week :)

>>18637032
easy as fuck, tinder is like the uber of fucking

>>18640683
For women, yes. But not for men.

>>18637032
That's because 4chan has stupidly high expectations. They're really fustrated over being virgins, but then they list certain aspects
1. White only, with an exception. If the girl is half Japanese then it's okay. (the guy themselves may not even be white)
2. The girl has to be a pure virgin. Never even looked at a dick outside of HBO shows
3. No casual sex whatsoever.
4. Has to immediately submit to the dick after 1 date. (which is completely contradictory to #3)
5. Can't have any fat on her, unless it's in specifically in her boobs, thighs, or butt.
6. The woman can be no less than an 8/10 ( even though the guy himself is an overweight 3/10 )

If the 4chan kids simply lowered their unattainable standards, they would get laid fairly easy.

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>>18640774
What's the point of lowering your standards when morbidly obese women can get tall, muscular men easily?

The vast majority of men will find it difficult to get laid no matter how low their standards are. All the statistics prove it.

>>18640774
I think you are picking at strawmen.

>>18640774
hey overweight men can be 7/10 if you're not a total fat ball of slob

why does it matters so much for women if the guy has some chubs? i dont say that its acceptable to be 200kg ,but you really think that 80kg chubby guys are as morbid as a 200kg whale?

Ya'll need to get of the Internet and walk into the nearest club at 2-4am. Conditions for getting laid in that setting are as follows

Don't be fat
Don't be dirty
Dress fashionably and frame appropriate (i.e. don't wear a wife beater if you are dyel skelly)
Be able to make and hold eye contact
Be able to talk about shit
ENJOY YOUR FUCKING SELF

Nobody likes being around mopy mcdickwank, you don't either. You can be 6'6" built like The Rock but if you aren't fun to be around it won't fucking matter. I am a skinny motherfucker, but I go in and say and do anything to ensure I am enjoying myself. I used to overthink things, what if this, what if that, if I say X then maybe bad thing Y might happen and I would shut tight like a clam, and clams are pretty boring. Once I got over myself and stopped caring and realized that my overthinking wasn't really keeping me out of harms way like I used to think, but was actually giving me the worst outcome every time with 100% consistency; sitting in a corner miserably watching everyone else have fun while pretending I was enjoying myself.

>>18640829
Is being fun can be learned? I dont really think so.
So I guess I'm stuck here

Oh and I'm fat

>>18640829
saved this comment, thanks man

>>18640792
This image is hilarious. If you've ever used Craigslist you'd know that site is infested with bots. There are no real people on it. Don't even take my word for it. Make a post about how you are looking for a woman to devour and cook and you'll get as many responses, if not more. You are hating something based on a lie. You are hiding in a prison entirely fabricated.

>>18640774
What? Maybe some autists have these expectations but most people here are like me.
Average looking and introverted, sometime with low confidence.
I don't have high expectation, I even like chubby girls. I tried a lot of things, I went at parties, tried tinder, went to the gym etc...
I think it's all about the circle of friends you're in. I tend to attract "artsy" girls or intellectual ones. Currently I do parties with rich people (but with lefty ideas I don't know if you understand what I mean), and each social event with them is pure torture but it's all I have. My good friends are not social at all, I love them but I can't meet anyone with them

>>18640864
There are plenty of real-life examples of 200 lb womaen being drowned in attention from at least 5/10 men on Tinder and Okcupid.

>>18640792
>All the statistics prove it.

Then why wouldn't you just post the statistics, so everyone could stop arguing about it?

>>18641177
And there are plenty of real-life examples of horny, unattractive women who would fuck any guy that offered. What's your point?

>>18641193
https://www.girlsaskguys.com/sexual-behavior/a22977-girls-on-tinder-do-smash-a-lot

https://medium.com/@worstonlinedater/tinder-experiments-ii-guys-unless-you-are-really-hot-you-are-probably-better-off-not-wasting-your-2ddf370a6e9a

To be clear, I meant that dating sites, in general, are a very bad idea for men who aren't very attractive.

That doesn't mean average men can't succeed with women in real-life spaces like nightclubs or colleges.

It's also the best time to catch some aids, have at it kiddos!

>>18641206
Dick is cheap, and that's why a woman is unlikely to ever be desperate for sex.

>>18641217
Wait... so I generally get about 4 new girls trying to talk to me online a week.... does that mean I'm attractive? Because I've lived my life under the assumption that I'm dead fucking average.

>>18641237
>it's only true if it backs up my confirmation bias

>>18641257
Show us a picture and let us be the judge, faggot?

>>18637032
Statistics were released which showed a minute minority of men get the majority of sex on Tinder, but staying here will warp your views and it shouldn't stop you from trying.

>>18641461
I want to agree with you but the other guy is telling the truth

>>18641515
after thinking about it I realized that the reason for this is that the number of men on a casual hookup app would clearly outweigh the number of women on the app by a wide margin, and if I was a woman I probably wouldn't want to sleep with the vast majority of nasty pajeets on there too

>>18641598
>nasty pajeets on there too
The people you see on your Tinder app is based on your location.

>>18641628
and the male majority is there regardless of location, except maybe somewhere women are looking for desperate americans to get them a nice greencard

>>18637032
>I recently heard in a podcast that thanks to apps like tinder it is easier than ever for men to have sex.
It being easier does not mean that it is easy.

probably more easy to get laid but not easy to get a steady relation imo.

It's easier than ever, for Chad.

Chad used to have 1 weakness in his otherwise perfect evolutionary combination of traits for fucking females. He was bound by the limits of his physical form. Women all still wanted to fuck Chad, but had to accept the fact that actually finding him was a bit difficult and had to settle for sub-Chads. But now dating apps have expanded the rate and range of Chads mating pool far beyond it's old limits. His phone is like a radar for pussy, and all the pussies have Chad radars of their own. Women no longer pick men from the limited pool of their personal lives, but from every man within their city, possibly even multiple nearby cities. And they always pick Chad.

I'll put put it into perspective like this. Say there are 100 men and 100 women. Normally, they'd be divided into 10 groups, or dating pools, with 10 men and 10 women each. Within each pool, all 10 women are almost exclusively attracted to the top man of their pool, and he alone gets to fuck all 10 if he wants. Pretty dire already, but at least with 10 separate pools 10 men are getting laid. But suddenly dating apps merge all the pools together. All 100 men and women are in the same pool, but the women are still only attracted to the top man. So now 1 man gets 100 women to choose from and 99 men get nothing.

>>18642137
I've been on OKC and Meetup since my ex wife left me for a Chad.

I haven't gotten laid in 5 years. I went out to socials twice this weekend. I tried to talk to women, but they were either interested in 1) Jews or 2) niggers.

You want to get laid in Atlanta? Be a Jew or a nigger.

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>>18640506
these are the ones i use and they're comfy and look good. My advice: If you're a man don't use glasses with rim. Also, the glasses you're wearing are way too big, be more discreet about them, they take too much protagonism. On top of that, they look like theyre for women.

Do you drink soda? Eat lots of sugar and fats? If so stop immediately and drink only water. That'l help for the acne friend.

>>18637032
Extremely easy. Yet women today are also less useful for sex than at any point in human history.

You will figure this out once you are in a relationship, eventually not even constantly available sex will satiate you and you will consign yourself to masturbatory fantasies either alone or with your partner.

>>18642183
You should try OKKKC instead.

>>18642170
No, no, no.

This is a terrible model. The average pools are the exact same, it is just that the skanks in each pool are no longer limited to just their pool. Skanks now have more range.

God, are you just trolling or do you really think that in cities of millions of people you can't find companionship?

>>18642550
>The average pools are the exact same, it is just that the skanks in each pool are no longer limited to just their pool
That makes no difference and is still exactly what I said.

Point is women have way more options, and the average guy no longer has to just compete with a small number of guys in his local pool, giving him a reasonable chance, but who knows how many guys on every dating app. And women still by and large only have eyes for the top men, and don't mind just being Chad's every-other-wednesday girl, and Chad certainly doesn't mind having dozens of women to cycle through as he feels.

>>18641628
tinder was ruined as soon as tech support figured out how to spoof location in all over 2 minutes.

Plus tinder is awash with bots.
I have way more luck with Bumble

>>18642641
The kinds of women who cycle through like that will be alone at 30 and end up settling for guys who should know better.

No reason to buy damaged goods.

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What apps/services do you guys recommend for getting the pucci?

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>>18642550
> cities with millions of people
Millions of people = millions of niggers

All I want is a nice girl to walk through the park with, to see the Confederate monuments, and to laugh about how the South will rise again. But all city women want are niggers and Jews.

>>18642804
Avoid the following:

>Match (pay site)
>Oasis (dead)
>anything with race followed by Cupid or introductions.
>eharmony (uppity old ladies)
>Tinder (botnet)

ok tier
> POF (bottom of the barrel fish)
> Bumble (made by a feminist, but they all just want cock)
>OKC (insane people need sex too)
>coffemeetsbagel (facebook normies)
>Hinge (tinder clone)

Best tier
>meetup (it works because its not for dating)
>Adultfriendfinder (herpes is best when you catch it from a 1/10 fatchick who howls like a dog when you fuck her)

100%Guaranteed sex
Grindr

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Tinder is borderline useless for a nonwhite male unless he's model tier. Ask any black, hispanic, asian, indian etc guy how Tinder's been for him.

In several friend groups it's only ever the white dudes with success stories.

>>18638161
that's pretty wholesome my dude I'm happy for you

even my gf admits its far more easier to get laid as a woman, bullshit on reddit please

>>18637035
They basically just did.

I do so so so much better in real life than I do on tinder. It's kinda ridiculous really.

t. Blackanon

>>18642170
here goes my aspiration to have a family

even tho im much better than a chad
but hey nature is retarded and backwards

>>18642170
Just fuck my shit up

>>18639113

>But if you're a manlet, forget it.

lol complete bullshit. I have a friend who is 5'3" and he gets a lot of puss. He just has good game and knows how to hold a conversation and he's funny.

>>18643455
Well, you're black, so it's kinda cheating these days.

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Na I'm a 19y/o khhv

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>>18637101
I live in NYC and there's more girls but there are also more hot guys.

I'd definitely say I'm not very attractive, I've even had sex with one cute girl but that was kinda a fluke I guess, she did it out of pity I suppose and she was loose. Otherwise, after being on multiple dating apps I've had literally had no play for a good two years.

>>18637032
Yes, feminism has turned them into sluts. The more cocks they can fit in them at once the more 'liberated' they are.