Completely forgettable

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welcome to the 3rd Wheel club

>>18636191
you have to do more reaching out yourself, other people will reciprocate. show a genuine interest

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>>18636191

>>18636301
Guess I'll try harder and see where it gets me.
>>18636369
Don't think I can ever achieve this, was pretty lonely the most of my life this is first time I'm ever in a group.

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>>18637176
>Don't think I can ever achieve this
That might be your problem right there: You are desperate for company and that puts you pretty low in a hierarchy.

>Friends say they're going to hang out today
>Me and the rest said we're coming
>Dorm building is separated from boys and girls so I can't just walk up to their door and see what their doing without one of their permission.
>Decided to text one of them to see if their still up for hanging out
>No response five hours later

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>>18636268
Came here to post this.
It's a curious feeling to know you're never anyone's first choice. I'd rather be hated than just blandly acceptable.

>>18638360
Feels bad, man

>>18636191
This has been me in every friend group my entire life.

>>18638472
Feels horrible, man

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>>18638977
>"Wanna hang out someday?"
>seen 5 hours ago

They are not your friends but close associates. Time to move along and get some new ones

>group of best friends from highschool
>we all go our separate ways for college
>still talk regularly
>two of my friends go to a big concert in Vegas over together over summer
>say that it's awesome and that we'll all go next year so start saving
>save and budget, living like a monk because I'm poor but want to see friends
>no word on the concert
>figure it's not happening
>one random weekend 4 of their snapchats are blowing up with videos from the concert
One of the most painful nights of my life. It was the last time that I cried.

>>18636191
you gotta be that smart or funny guy, or someone distinguishable

>>18636369
this makes you be alone a lot.

>>18639100
Granted that sucks, but did you never once bring it up in conversation? It's a two-way street.
>>18638993
Likewise, suggest something more specific. A generic "let's hang out" from someone with spergish tendencies is not a desirable prospect. Offer a plan to hang out a particular time or place--just not too specific.
>hey anon, we should go to the theater sometime next weekend. have you wanted to see any movies?

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>>18639190
Why does it matter if you aren't bothered by it?

And it only makes you be alone a lot if anything social isn't easily at hand but then you would be alone either way.

>>18639019
Truth. OP has no real friends. Only life-force draining leaches.

>>18636191
Stop relying on others to give your life meaning.

>>18639409
It's not the first time I haven't been invited to hang out like this, it was just the biggest. I ask them to get together when I can, I just don't like to be the person that invites myself into their plans. It was always his event, and I didn't want to make it weird. If they didn't want me going, on account of not asking me, it would be awkward, I guess.
I dunno.

>>18636191
Sorry to hear that, Anon. I prefer to be by myself and have a really tight social circle. I'd hang out with you.

>>18639409
>More specific
They made the plan to go watch movies and chill, said on every occasion they asked I was going.

>friend texts
>Who's up for dinner
>Said I'll join
>Wait for a response 15 minutes and say fuck it
>Go to the dinning Hall and see them leaving it