forced to go on vacation

>I could afford a third vacation I just don't want to

Boo fucking hoo first world problems. How about do something nice for your girlfriend instead of being a tit about it because you don't feel like going to Toronto?

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>>18636145

Are you honestly sitting at your computer bitching because your loving family and girlfriend want to spend time with you on a vacation that you have more than enough disposable income to afford?

"Forced" to go on vacation? What is wrong with you?

>>18636161
>>18636154
>>18636154
I'm very frugal at heart and don't spend much money. I plan trips carefully and try not to indulge in excess. Gf is the opposite, although somewhat reasonably so.

I'm honestly going to take that sort of criticism seriously because I feel I may be overdoing it. It's just that for example I don't enjoy plays except for a very select few. They're planning to go to some random one. I hate that they assume you'll pay even if you don't like it and it doesn't matter because "it's a good time". Repeat that over and over for lots and lots of details and you start feeling like you're not really "considered" in the whole picture. "Just follow along you dummy"

>>18636177

Shut the fuck up and go on vacation with your loving family you privileged sack of shit.

>>18636145

No man, if you don't want to go, don't fucking go.

Now, would you go, even if you didn't have to pay? If yes, tell them you will go if they pay.

Now, would you still not go, even if your GF breaks up with you? Well then you don't love her and that's fine (her happiness is not an essential ingredient to your own). And don't go.

Fuck what everyone else says about appeasing people. Make your choices, you own up to you at the end of the day.

Just carefully consider it. Is it worth it? Is the relationship worth sacrifice? If yes, suck it up. If not, fuck em.

>>18636187
Really the best advice. Also a miser and a spendthrift is a recipe for disaster. The number one problem in relationships is money issues.

I'm not saying to break up OP. Relationships require sacrifice if you want to make them work however.

>>18636145
Don't get pressured into doing things. It sets a bad precedent. Next time your gf wants something you don't she will nag you untill you cave in because you would have shown her that she can play you how she wants previously. It's not like you never go to vacations anyways so she can't make the argument that you are boring. Stand your ground mate, that's what I have to say.

>>18636205
Glad you understand anon.
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