Been talking to a girl for a few weeks now (I met her once in person and we've been talking online since) and she basically hits everything on my dream girl checklist. I found out she's in a relationship with a transwoman a few days ago and I was fucking crushed. To top it off I was going to event shes going to be at this weekend and her girlfriend is probably going to be there and I'm not entirely sure how I'm going to take it or if I'm even going at this point. I was hoping to basically confess my feeling this weekend and this happens.
I don t know if I should make up an excuse to not go and just try to move on or if I should meet up with her anyway since shes still a pretty cool person.
>>18633167
>Butting into a relationship
It doesn't matter what combination of sexualities are involved here, still a douche move that would make everyone upset. Honestly she might be a good friend, but if you don't feel comfortable in the friendzone then I'd recommend moving on entirely.
>>18633167
>confess my feelings
what is this a chinese cartoon?
>>18633167
She is a freak like her "girl"friend. Find a better women.
>>18633180
Didn't mean to imply that I was butting into the relationship, that's not my intention at all. I'm fine with being friends its just that don't know if I'd be able to see her with someone so soon after finding out about it since I've been hyping this up for myself. It's rare for me to find anyone that I enjoy talking to as much as her.
>>18633184
Couldn't think of a better term at the moment. I was basically going to tell her that she's cute and I want to go out with her.
>>18633167
Don't pretend to be her friend if you have ulterior motives.
>>18633167
Dont go, move on. Its will pass within few months.
Or you can go and drop it like, wow i didnt know you are gay, well there goes my chance with you and laugh it off.
If she wanted anything she will think about it, if not, then you didnt lose anything anyway.