How do I cope with the fact that I'm a 21 year old guy and every girl my age already fucked 15 different guys and sucked 30 different dicks?
>>18631466
just don't go looking for virgins at that age, you'll only make matters worse.
>>18631466
>every girl my age
You mean every attractve girl who will fuck you or suck your dick.
You can usually find at least a couple mormon girls who havent done anything if you become mormon.
You would still need to be somewhat attractive or at least smart in more than a smug self satisfaction way (ie straight A student).
How do you know? I was a virgin until the age of 23, but nobody could tell because a) I didn't talk about it, b) I seemed so confident and brash that people assumed I must have fucked everyone within ten kilometers. Besides, becoming fixated on having a virgin gf is stupid.
>>18631485
I don't necessarily want a virgin girlfriend. I'm not that /r9k/. It's just hard to stomach to hear that a girl fucked around 15 guys before me. If a girl I'm dating told me she honestly fucked 5 guys so far I'd be like "Yeah alright. That makes sense you are 21 after all". But in today's culture women are for some reason okay with having sex with a gross amount of people like that doesn't make her a cheap slut with self-respect.
>>18631501
without self respect*
>>18631501
>having sex means you dont have self respect
Thats like saying if you masterbate you dont have self respect.
Having sex a shit ton with one guy who is hung is going to stretch you out way more than a couple of times with a bunch of dudes.
Even if that isnt your point, the point of having sex is to either have a child or to reach orgasm.
If you are mad at her for getting off then you shouldnt be masterbating.
>>18631466
By going after younger women, you dummy.
>>18631509
I wouldn't get mad if she masterbated too. When girls hop on the dick train I find it disgusting. There's plenty of other ways to satisfy yourself then fucking around a lot. It can be unsafe and can leave a woman full of insecurities
>>18631509
Wow those were many strawmen. Since I have a lot of time right now
>Thats like saying if you masterbate you dont have self respect.
That's right. A man should go out there and pursue women. Not masturbate alone in his room like a loser
>Having sex a shit ton with one guy who is hung is going to stretch you out way more than a couple of times with a bunch of dudes.
And? I never said that. Also a vagina is a muscle. It can not be permanently stretched, so tightness is purely genetic.
Rest of your post was also pretty unnecessary
>>18631510
Already am, but we both know some 18 year olds could have fucked dozens of guys by now
>>18631509
People can't catch STI or become emotional attached, then soon enough jaded, by having masturbation.
>the point of having sex is to either have a child or to reach orgasm.
What about intimacy between partners, something that will be depreciated the more people slut around. See:
https://ifstudies.org/blog/counterintuitive-trends-in-the-link-between-premarital-sex-and-marital-stability
>>18631501
15 is way above average. Stop being so /r9k/. The majority of girls in their early 20s will have had 0-5 sexual partners.
>>18631551
>girls in their twenties
>0-5
>0
lol can we finally exclude mormons from this discussion?
>>18631466
I've already come to terms I'll never find the girl I'm looking for. I just want a cute/average looking girl with no sexual experience. Unrealistic, but I'd rather be alone than settle for someone who has had a sexual history.