>ISTJ
>Just below average height
>Cannot relax without substance use
>Social anxiety caused by bullying
>Neglected the gym for half a year
>Speech debuff on normalfags
Despite all this, I want to go out and lose my virginity to a girl. How hard will I fail? I don't think my vidya hobby will impress girls anytime soon.
The biggest step is confidence. We all know those guys who are fat ugly assholes that still get pussy and think "how?" Well sure they're probably punching below their pay grade but it's also because you have to actively try and fail and continue to try again.
If you're asking "Anon, how do I get confidence?" Simple, you be confident. Confidence is not an actual emotion that people feel, no matter how much people let on. The mind learns by actively doing things through repition. If you actively put yourself into situations you usually avoid, you try to make decisions faster, you walk as if you're not a sad sack. Learn confidence, fake it till you make it.