>in a great relationship
>gf always has fun on dates, hold hands etc
>sucks at texting me back
is she just a shitty texter or...?
>>18629220
I think you're super fucking lucky if you're in a relationship and your biggest issue is that she's a shitty texter.
>>18629251
Well it isn't that she takes a long time to respond, it's that often she doesn't respond at ALL that gets me thinking...
the only way to find out is to send her texts over and over, obsessively over an entire week with increasingly desperate content
then when she breaks up with you, you can accuse her of cheating on you and confirm it in your own mind by her telling you that you are crazy
>>18629220
She's just a shirt texter.
t. shitty texter in a great relationship
>>18629220
She probably likes you but also likes the power she has over you in the texting game. "Shitty texter" is a meme unless the person has mental issues
t. "shitty texter" who just uses it as a means of manipulation
Usually one person in the relationship is a shitty texter. Just tell her it's important to you that you talk more and see how she's doing throughout the day. Otherwise find someone else to text.
>>18629220
Post her texts
>>18629220
One thing that helps is observing how often she is on her phone. I've noticed that if a woman always has their phone on them and always is checking/using it and doesn't reply then there is something to it. If your gf always forgets her phone or hardly uses it then I wouldn't think too much about it.
>>18629220
>>sucks at texting me back
Why are you in a relationship with a girl that cannot text you back? I mean, goddamn, that is the number one indicator she loves and cares for you and committed and will never cheat. Find another girl, one that willingly will text you first and stop all to respond to one of yours.