How do I eat pussy better? I have honestly no idea what to do.

Read the book She comes first. Also search for Nina Hartley video on how to eat pussy on the pornhub

>>18627871
You dont want to lick the vagina itself, you want to lick the top of it where clit is hidden. Also plenty video guides online.

Take note every girl is different. Tell her to grab your head and push it towards the place she likes and grab your hand and tell her to squeeze it when you are doibg good. You need to experiment and learn each girl separatelly. What one likes, other can hate.

Just the rule of thumb: dont change speed, pressure and angle. To get girl off, you need to keep doing that motion for a while.
>when you fap, you also need constant uninterrupted stimulation to cum, it is the same with clit

>>18627871
this is one of the most disgusting and repulsive things you can possibly do, and i'm a straight male
what the fuck, can you be in a relationship and never lick pussy?

>>18628971
It's possible but for most women they are expected/desired at least sometimes, just like blowjobs for men.

You have a better shot (if you don't care much about blowjobs) finding someone who thinks oral in general is icky than finding someone who exclusively does not want to be eaten out.

Also, if you've never done it, the idea is way weirder than the reality. It's just soft skin and fluid, not that different from a mouth.

>>18628978
good
if i ever get out of depression this should be a cakewalk then

Just google "cunnilingus guide". Lots of specifics and moves to try.

There's two main things to remember. The first being that going down on a woman is a complete experience. It starts before your mouth touches her mound. This means creating anticipation (whether from a dominant pushing her down and letting her know this is happening angle, or from a submissive body worship angle, or something romantic in between), making sure she is comfortable. I adore little more than with a guy dives between my legs only to start lavishly kissing/biting/licking my thighs. The mix of pleasure and frustration... Anyway, you don't have to do stuff like this every time of course, but the thing is that sex is as special and as wild as you make it out to be yourselves. And that's about more than just having some sort of perfect technique.
I recommend not disappearing under the blankets because it gets hot/uncomfortable for you and eye contact is less easy. She might be self-conscious but many women love to look down and take in the sight/make eye contact with you. An easy position is kneeling beside the bed with her draped on it with her legs spread. During, let her know you enjoy it. Really get up in there, show enthusiasm. No porn moaning, but a sigh or muffled noise if you are really into it is great. Grab her thighs or your ass to keep her in place or push her closer.

As for technique. An important thing to remember is that your task if you want to get good is essentially to collect potential moves and learn to adjust to an individual, be sensitive to their little signals. There's a lot of difference in sensitivity and preference, so what's Heaven for one woman is boring for another. Just make sure that you know what you're going for - whether that's fast and furious or slow and sensual - and have a certain rhythm you stick to. Not randomly doing all sort of things all over the place. Remember what she responds to and don't stay at anything too long.

>>18629024
Even the best sensation in the world grows stale if you keep at it. Remember what she has a particularly strong reaction to and revisit it later.

VERY important: if she's writhing and moaning that you are making her come, DO NOT, I repeat, DO NOT amp it up tenfold and think you have to go all the way now. If she is telling you that what you are doing feels so good that she's going to climax, you keep doing what you are doing. Not faster, not harder, literally just that what you are already doing. Even if it's a good kind of change, the being caught off guard from the sensation changing can mean a big setback.

If your tongue gets tired, get back to gently kissing, focusing on her thighs etc, pulling her up to make out... if she gets frustrated you can play with that by telling her to beg for it, that she still needs to wait a bit, be patient, whatever. Give a sexy twist to it.

Asking for instructions is fine as long as it's not awkward "...does this feel good?" or "does this hurt?" Frame it more positively instead. "Tell me what you like most", "tell me how it makes you feel", "show me what you want me to do" etc. You can get away with a lot as long as you pass it as dirty talk, it's less detrimental to a passionate atmosphere.

Also, fingers are fine, some ladies will love them more than others (LOVE them personally), but don't get hung up on trying to literally fingerfuck her. Focus on the clitoris and use your fingers to take over when you get tired, or to add another sensation/intensity. Don't just move a finger in-out. Try the come hither motion though, some women do love that.

And again for all kinds of more specific instructions for how exactly to lick, lots of rich guides online. Good luck!

>>18627871
Spell the alphabet on her clit.

>>18627871
the ABC method is a good way to find out where her good spots are

There are two main spots where you have to pay attention to: her clit (or as I like to call, "the pleasure button", since it kinda looks like a meat button), and her g-spot (somewhere near the entrance of the vagina); not all women have sensitive g-spots, but if your honey does, lucky you.

Now, pay attention to her reactions. This is how you know you're doing well. More intense moaning, putting her hand on your head, moving her hips. Follow her instructions.

If your mouth isn't being enough, use your fingers to help. Though, if she feels pleasure from fingering, it means she has a sensitive g-spot and you should focus there, too. Not every women have the clitoris as their main pleasure spot, after all.

Even if she's the quieter type, if you feel her getting wetter, it's a good sign. Wet means excited. If she doesn't get wet at all, you're either not doing a god job, or she's trans. Or maybe she got some serious self-bound issues to solve. Either way, remember: wetter is better.

Kiss her inner thighs and her mound when your tongue gets tired. Maybe give a small thigh hickie, if she likes it. Don't be a robot.

That's all, I think.

>>18629693
>>18629695
STOP THIS MEME
THEY WILL KNOW

>>18628971
you have low testosterone or you're a fag

>>18630486
cuck