I'm Male. My best friend is female. You already seeing where I'm going with this but this is something completely unexpected for me personally. We are in High School. I've known her since Middle School and by 8 th grade we became best friends. Out of nowhere this summer I got this feeling in my stomach and I just started thinking about her Sexually at first. Then romantically. She means a lot to me and losing her would definitely fuck up my self esteem that I have gathered over the past few years. Obviously I feel like spilling my feelings out to her. But what if she takes that completely in a shocked and negative way and then I lose the person I care for and who's there for me most most? The thoughts of her have become overwhelming. What should I do??
dont confess it'll be really awkward
remember the three c's stay cool, stay calm, and stay collected and ask her out
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Damn I'm trying to do that without overthinking it. I still talk to her about friend shit and gossip, it helps keep my cool. But damn do I get stressed thinking about it
i'd say kind of...ask her if she likes anyone like that/lead into it without outright saying it. if it seems like she'll judge you for it don't say anything and try to get over it, but if it doesn't you might as well go for it. just tell her that you have feelings for her but don't say that it's become overwhelming or that you started thinking of her sexually or whatever. that's what i'd suggest, it's up to you if you actually do it or not. good luck either way!!!
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Well thanks all for the help