On the train station? I use with it to go to work and I think "why not?". Do you guys think its a good Idea? Idk man, I'm alone and have no friends who could help me. What could I say? Should I just sit next to them and start a conv? But how? I fear that they might creep out and just go away without leaving a word.
And I seriously dont want to go to a bar or to a club alone, thats embarassing for me and I dont feel good at this...
Pic related, I look like this guy in the left pic (20)
If you're really bad at social interactions it's easier to ease into if you're drunk. So ideally you would be at a place where it's socially acceptable to be drunk. but
>And I seriously dont want to go to a bar or to a club alone, thats embarassing for me and I dont feel good at this...
Bite the bullet and strike up a conversation. Even if it goes poorly it's not like it changes your life in any way. Just keep trying to talk to people until you get better at it.
>>18626167
Unfortunately I dont drink..
>>18626190
Kek
All I can tell you anon is that chatting up girls in public spaces such as train stations is a bad idea, as most people are in a hurry and not looking for making new friends. It's just not the right setting and it's likely that you'll either annoy them or creep them out.
>>18626198
>Kek
Is that supposed to be funny? Is that really awkward when you admit that you dont drink any alcs?
>people are in hurry
But what if they just sit on a seat and wait for the train while they look at their phones like zombies?
>>18626216
>But what if they just sit on a seat and wait for the train while they look at their phones like zombies?
It still doesn't mean they want to be bothered by you. Social clubs, pubs, festivals, meet-ups - there are many places appropriate for meeting and chatting up new people
>>18626225
Really man? Is there really no other alternatives for me?
Guess I give up and regret everything I did when I'm 40 years old..
>>18626236
For all I care you can try approaching girls anywhere you want, I'm just telling you realistically the responses you'll get won't be in your favour. It would be slightly easier for a perfect 10/10 guy, but if you are someone who takes longer to dazzle a cutie, your chances are not high. It's a different case in an appropriate social setting such as a pub or even dancing lessons or dunno, karaoke place, because there people usually want to interact and won't perceive your approach as some creepy and desperate move.