Oneitis is falling for chad

>>18625196
>orbit her for 3-4 years
you are an idiot, you should have asked her out the moment you started liking her. Now it's done and lost

You could find a girl working somewhere else.

>>18625196
I hate orbiters, it's just a fucking girl, get over it.

You probably won't get along for a year if you are together, and you won't ever trust her and think she dates other guys if she looks so good and seems to be interested in other guys.

Why bother? If you really want to, tell her that you think she likes other guys but that you always liked her, just to get it off and move on.

>>18625196
Is this a joke or your is life is eirely like Jorah's?

>>18625196

It's ok, OP, everyone sooner or later crushes his head against this kind of situations.

Thing that really matters is that you understand that you put her on a pedestal, and as soon as you do this, the girl will never be yours, because in some way you are the one keeping her at distance. You refuse to accept her for her flaws and you materialize her in your mind like she's an angel. This is what an OneItis is. Learn from your mistake and move on. Next girl I hope you'll treat her like a friend, and everything will go fine. Eventually you could even develope feelings for each other. Godspeed!