A good friend and I talked about how people treat each other and how it can be achieved. It was simple enough but I became really upset when my friend explained she "needed" to be assured nothing was wrong.
It didn't seem right because she's a pretty well-adjusted person and I didn't understand why she wanted that. As she explained, she stated she wanted to be reassured. It seemed like her request was sound but I misunderstood at that time and I thought she was being selfish.
I got really worked up and she started getting worked up herself, which is a big first. Our conversation became heated and went eight different places and she eventually said
>"Anon! You wouldn't change for anyone?!?"
>Me: "NO!"
>Her: "I-I would change for you!..."
Her voice faltered at that last bit. She sounded very upset but we stopped talking about that and went back to our usual banter. I took some time to really think about it and I'm confused as to why she would say such a thing. I feel so terrible that I was such a dickhead to her... Anyone have thoughts and opinions?
>>18623427
She likes you m8.
>>18623427
Bitch wants you to do her shit for her and is trying to guilt trip you. I've seen this tactic before and it's nothing but emotional manipulation.
you werent being a dickhead, she argued in a way to make you feel like that, girls are dumb in certain areas but super cunning in others