Has anyone here managed to do this? (I'm aware that this probably isn't the best place to ask this, as anyone over 30 who is on 4chan first thing Monday morning probably isn't a good person to ask for advice). I completely wasted my 20's for various reasons, lots of fuck ups and zero accomplishments. This year I have been taking serious steps to get my life in order, and I have both short-term and long-term goals. I am treating my 30's as a do-over of my 20's, It's pretty daunting though, especially when I know that I cant expect much understanding from employers, women,or peers. Anyone ever been in my position or know someone who has? Stories? Thoughts?