>mutual attraction with co-worker
>messages always responded to quickly
>slept together
>now takes long time to respond to messages
>says he wants to chill for a while but says messages are okay
>says he's still attracted to me
Is it time to take the hint, back off, and not make contact outside work?
He is either trying to let you down softly or at best trying to get across that he is looking for something casual (fuckbuddies) and not a relationship. Only proceed if you also want something casual.
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You or he involved with someone else? Is there a policy of non fraternization at your workplace that could jeopardize your jobs?
He wants to be fuck buddies and nothing more than that. It's up to you if you're down for it or nah.