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Not popular and not a macho

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Have/had a great relation with this girl for 2 years. I can't explain but it's so more than getting along; our mids just connect perfectly.
Long story short:
-she's a 10/10 girl with great personality. Every guy looks at her on the street, and when I'm not arround even married ones try to hit on her(there is litarally a bandwagon of guys waiting for our relation to end)
-i'm a normal guy on the looks; smart, funny but short and poor
-her friends noticed that macho guys with expensive cars hit on her. Brag at her why she sticks with me
-she spent 2 years telling them to fuck off because i'm great, loves me and wanna marry me
-even her mother turned agains us; she got tired of all those things that are trown at her
-asked me to 'be that guy' so she doesn't need to convice others I'm owesome

I have no fucking idea why i'm posting here or what adv i want. I just hate the society and how they judge from the first look
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What are you talking about
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>>18620472
Most of my wife's orbiters from high school still try to hit on her constantly on facebook.

It's annoying but funny sometimes. So long as the love is there between you and your girlfriend you may want to try to find humor in the situation of the men hitting on her. They're barking up the wrong tree and they'll never fully understand why.
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She'll probably cave if you don't buck up a little bit. Been there.
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When your girl picks a fight with you, it means she wants to get fucked hard by you. Or harder, as the case may be.
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OP here
the guys that hit her are not a problem. Some of her friends that never found 'the one' in their life keep telling her that she;s out of my league and she can get with someone that looks like a model and has shit-load of cash the the point she won't miss a thing(and yes, guys like those hit on her a lot).
Those that hit on her usually only do it once since she make fun of them and tell them to 'move along'.
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>>18620507
Tragic
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This is the american society. You guys are so fucked up.

My uncle always told me Americans are the stupidiest people on the planet.
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>>18620472
How do you find out about these things. Do her friends flat out say it when you're around? Do you see dudes hitting on her while you're standing there? Or does she tell you this herself and what's her general attitude when she does.
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>>18620649
We talk all of our toughts and problems face to face. At first it came out as a advice, like 'you know, you should try to be more macho and all...some people might think you are not suited for me', and recently we had some tentions. She got very mad at me for something stupid, i know that's not the reason she is upset and conviced her to tell me the real reason. She started crying and telling me she;s tired trying to convince everyone that I'm a awesome guy and I deserve her.
No one told it to my face directly that i don't deserve her. Just some of her female frieds, but none of the real close friends that know both of us better
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>>18620733
>>18620733
yo she might be lying. Or one thing girls tend to do is over-exaggerate experiences, like for example, one or two people telling her you are not good enough. That might turn into 'everyone' or 'all my friends'. Truth be told, she might be the one running low on steam. How short are you? Are you fit? What is your occupation and are you working towards something better?

Just know that if she really does turn sour you've always got us mate. 4chan will always be there with the memes and the porn.
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>>18620733
Reason why I ask is because I was somewhat in the same boat. Girlfriend is 9/10 and gets hit on everywhere..She goes to work or goes shopping without me and it happens. I even went to take a piss at the bar of a restaurant and came to a guy bragging about his money. It should be no biggie and a source of laughs desu.

Assuming she told you the guys trash talk/compare themselves to you...You need to make sure that she knows that the easiest thing guys do to break a woman's resolve is exploit any doubt or flaw about you. It's the easiest fucking way to make a connection. Instilling doubt in a girl is a surefire way to get her drinking or overthinking.

Tell her to that you're working to impress her and not her friends. I've had this come up before and pushing the idea that you're a couple and you're the one who'll be there through good and bad and not those people helps as well. If third party opinions are irrelevant to you concerning her...the same should apply to her with you.

This is part of the reason why facebook is cancer for women too since they sit there and compare themselves to instagram sluts. You need to get her focus on her life with you and try to get her to cut out third party people.

No idea why her mom would be against you though wtf is up with that.
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>>18620752
I know she's not lying. We wre both short(1.70m), with be a bit tallet but she's a woman. I'm not fat, just a bit skinny but my muscles are a bit defined.
She told me that many of her friends tol her this, but i'm sure it comes mostly from her mother and 3 dumb female friends that are not so close to her.
I'm working in the IT atm, but i'm studying to be an engeneer (have 2 more years).
I feel like every guy that hits on her pushes her further from me. She does have strong daddy issue, so she's a bit of a attention whore but I do give her a shit-load of attention
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>>18620768
when she realized that her mother was against our relation she went bonkers..yelled at her for trying to separate us, telling her it's not her business and all, but the seed was already planted.
I would do anything to make her happy, i know she will do the same for me, but i wanna do those things for her, not for her friends or some cocky ass mutha fuckers that wanna fuck her
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Which country are you from, OP.
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