scared to lose my virginity

>>18620452
who says you need to lose your virginity?
t. 19 virgin guy

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>>18620452
> when no one actually gives a fuck about that anymore. this is the kind of world to sleep around and not give a fuck, right?

What do /you/ want? I lost my virginity at 19 but it was with someone I had dated for a while. Romance isn't dead, despite what tumblr and mass media says, you don't need to be a slut.

It's fine if you want to fuck for the sake of fucking, but don't think you have to lower your standards for the equivalent of an irl xbox achievement.

>>18620452

At the very least make it a guy YOU would attempt to make sexual advances on....

>>18620455
no one, i just really like to get off and wanna step it the fuck up

>>18620465
i actually think it'd be pretty fun to sleep around and garner a few friends with benefits , i just have a hopeless romantic side to me.

>>18620477
sounds like you're a bit misguided
the repercussion of promiscuity will deem you in far worse position.
action speaks to who you are
if you were a true hopeless romantic like me, you'd never consider
such is the state of our misguided youth, including me

>>18620477

I feel you I'm a 20 yr old virgin male and I'm the exact same. Maybe just stick to masturbation for now until you find a special someone cuz losing your virginity just to lose it ends up being a let down

Google: "first world problems"

>>18620477
>>18620481
Promiscuity is not anything that will get her in a worse position. That's just male jealously expressing itself.

That said, just find a guy who is attractive to you and flirt a little.

>>18620481
the fuck are you even going on about dude? i wasn't claiming to be some kind of freak who tips the fedora of love whilst reciting gushy poems written at 3 am, i just love being able to love all over somebody and make them feel wanted and important and be super loyal and shit. didn't realize people took their "hopeless romantic" club so seriously. sorry to offend.

>>18620502
>>18620500
>Promiscuity is not anything that will get her in a worse position
who would marry a whore? who would love one? A dumb one, and everyone knows. No respect.

the cycle of a relationship teeters out through each one. Whittles. Every person you go through will invariably be compared to the last, and concessions will have to be made with every new one. You will never enjoy the little things anymore, you will never belong to another person, and you will never respect yourself or the person that loves you if you commit such sin.

The closeness you feel the first few times around will be snatched away, along with any hope for a lasting bond between anyone of value. Whores will stick with whores, and they will never feel love again.

Throw your spite at me if it eases you.

>>18620512
you sound like that one guy in high school who wore a trenchcoat and watched my little pony while thinking women owed you something because you held the door for them that one time and weren't a complete dick the one time they showed emotional weakness

>>18620520
Nice ad hominem.
No one deserves anything in this world.
Women don't mean much to me, because they were abandoned long ago.
Can't help but feel sorry for them.

>>18620512
You're going to have a very difficult time finding love with this much judgment in your heart.

That being said, I will still agree that sex is more enjoyable when there is a meaningful emotional connection. May as well invest in a good fap toy otherwise. But everyone is a little different, you'll know after you have sex. My first time was a big eye opener for me. Porn does jack shit since I got married.

>>18620512
The trick is to not tell people about all the fucking you did. Then you'll never be a whore.

>>18620542
What use is love if it's cheap? Anyone can love, but the valuable is the one that lasts and fought against all temptation. Sex is cheap, no reason to make love just as cheap. I could bang a whore for fifty dollars. Mutual masturbation. Who the fuck wants that?

What use are people if you'll just cycle through them instead of commit to them? That's more pain and sin in itself, spreading and clawing into others, restricting them from reaching their potential, forcing them to ward off their past.

>>18620546
Is an example of dishonesty - the unravel of sin that follows the initial. Running away - deception is what women were always good at, huh?
It's not the act of sex itself that is horrible, it's the lack of discrimination that led them to such action, the circumstances that lie around that.
They probably know of little beauty, of little love, and of little joy in life - this is all baseless, just thought.
No strong family to guide them, no one beside them when they committed. It's a shame. Just to look in someone's eyes and see how they've barred themselves from the opportunity of a lasting fondness for another one.

Suffice to say, I'll probably never find my one, as was already stated. The usual question is: To have never loved, or to have loved and lost? The second one is better on the forefront, but that's only through unusual circumstance that caused the sever. To have love and lost because neither feel anything anymore... how horrible. It's sickening.
In this world, I realize that women aren't capable of the same feeling that I may have, so I'll probably have to revoke all that I believe. But I'll give myself time; maybe there will be a woman I can lead into some happiness - or I just may be as hopeless.

tl;dr do what you will

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>>18620569
Okay bud, I'll bite, I was like you once, 17-18 was a hell of a time, but I got past it.

Love yourself. Love you for who you are. Drop all judgment of others and love others for who they are. You will be so much happier, and you will find genuine love. Love is such a pure feeling, and when it's real, nothing can taint it. No amount of past dicks or pussies will ever get between two people that share genuine affection. Just.. Let life happen. Things will never get better if you constantly hold others to your own high "standards". You'll always be disappointed, and you'll never truly understand why.
OP you have fun with whatever you do. If you want love, let love into your life. If you want sex, just be sure to use protection, and never compromise your wants and needs. Even casual sex is a relationship between two people. What you want from the sex will always be just as important as what your current partner wants. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise.

G'night all.

>>18620569
Pathetic. There's nothing wrong with fucking, but you can't stand people "getting away with it".

>>18620452
If you still have that romantic side, don't do it, but it's still up to you. What's the worst that might happen if you don't lose your virginity? You're only 19, you still have your whole life ahead of you.
Also
>this is the kind of world to sleep around and not give a fuck, right?
Fuck what kind of world this is, do what YOU want to do. Losing your virginity is no big deal, sex is overrated unless you have some sort of connection, but if you don't care about it, go ahead.

>>18620594
you may be right in the end, I have considered this.
>>18620598
get away with what? years of unfeeling and guilt.

>>18620452

Where do you live, OP? Just use Tinder if you're in a city

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>>18620608
Always remember that you evolve and change every single day. Who you are now is not the same person you were yesterday, and not who you will be tomorrow. Life is all about experience, and experience shapes who we are as individuals. Phases exist for a reason, mistakes exist for a reason, everything exists for something. Despite its brevity life is the longest thing you will ever know. Don't ruin your future due to the lessons of another's past. And at the same time, don't be afraid to make a mistake if it means you may learn a new lesson. You have time to experience many many different things, don't waste the life that was given to you holding on to judgments that prevent you indulging in all the wonders that this world has to offer.

Okay now I'm done

>>18620512
This is completely spot on anon.

To me, as a guy, losing my virginity was something that everybody pushed me to do. Someone even proposed me to give me a hooker. But i wanted it to be friendly, with someone i felt relaxed with. In the end, I lost it at the age of 19 with a friend of mine. But to me, sex is more enjoyable with someone you know or at least you share some type of relationship, sex for the sake of it just feels good but uncomfortable, it misses all the details and friendly things that happens when you know the partner. Eitherway, its your choice, do what you feel its right for you,not what is correct or appropiate, just what you feel is good.

>>18620627
Thanks