[Boards: 3 / a / aco / adv / an / asp / b / bant / biz / c / can / cgl / ck / cm / co / cock / d / diy / e / fa / fap / fit / fitlit / g / gd / gif / h / hc / his / hm / hr / i / ic / int / jp / k / lgbt / lit / m / mlp / mlpol / mo / mtv / mu / n / news / o / out / outsoc / p / po / pol / qa / qst / r / r9k / s / s4s / sci / soc / sp / spa / t / tg / toy / trash / trv / tv / u / v / vg / vint / vip / vp / vr / w / wg / wsg / wsr / x / y ] [Search | Free Show | Home]

I was joking with my friends and they were saying how slutty

This is a blue board which means that it's for everybody (Safe For Work content only). If you see any adult content, please report it.

Thread replies: 11
Thread images: 1

File: tumblr_inline_mqhbhpwEWC1qz4rgp.jpg (48KB, 500x500px) Image search: [Google]
tumblr_inline_mqhbhpwEWC1qz4rgp.jpg
48KB, 500x500px
I was joking with my friends and they were saying how slutty women are.

I said you wouldn't like it if someone called your gf a slut and they got mad at me. They said I was out of line for making such a comment

What went wrong?
>>
No your friends are just shit.
>>
Nothing. They are just knobheads
>>
>>18620383
>>18620385

what was their logic?
>>
>>18620412
Hypocrisy/cognitive dissonance
>>
>>18620432

Can you be more specific?
>>
>>18620375
you are good people they don't it's easy
>>
>>18620375

>I was joking with my friends

Sounds like you started it.
>>
>>18620432
>cognitive dissonance
KEK / LOL
>>
>>18620375
Did you specifically mentions one of your friends girlfriends?
It's a justifiable reaction if you mentioned her by name
>>
There's basically two main explanations. The first is that they do not actually hold a very thorough belief that women are slutty (hell, they probably feel like women are not quick enough to give them sexual attention, at least when single), but it is just a social and bonding thing for them to trash women when they are with men. This is quite common, bonding by putting others down. By responding seriously you broke an unspoken expectation that you will "just know" that they don't have really strong negative feelings about this. The same is very common with racist jokes of people who find it really important to not consider themselves racist. They feel they can act shitty with close people without being judged for acting shitty and they get butthurt when you call them out on it. They perceive you as a holier than thou faggot.

Another option is that they do think that other women are sluts and they would hate any guy calling their girl a slut and they do NOT like being confronted with their own hypocrisy. Essentially cognitive dissonance as another anon said, you are causing them bad feelings by drawing their attention to the fact that they behave in a way that they do not actually fully agree with.

For the record OP you did a good thing. It takes courage to speak out to friends and not just give them the benefit of the doubt instead of actually judging their actions. If you're solid friends they will get over it and your comment will mean more to them in the long term than a comment from a random stranger. Just because they had a knee jerk defensive reaction to cover their pride doesn't mean it necessarily won't have any impact. I have been friends with many of the same guys for ten+ years and many of them used to trashtalk women and came around and now do not like to hear it at all (and do not like to be reminded that they used to be the same).
Thread posts: 11
Thread images: 1


[Boards: 3 / a / aco / adv / an / asp / b / bant / biz / c / can / cgl / ck / cm / co / cock / d / diy / e / fa / fap / fit / fitlit / g / gd / gif / h / hc / his / hm / hr / i / ic / int / jp / k / lgbt / lit / m / mlp / mlpol / mo / mtv / mu / n / news / o / out / outsoc / p / po / pol / qa / qst / r / r9k / s / s4s / sci / soc / sp / spa / t / tg / toy / trash / trv / tv / u / v / vg / vint / vip / vp / vr / w / wg / wsg / wsr / x / y] [Search | Top | Home]

I'm aware that Imgur.com will stop allowing adult images since 15th of May. I'm taking actions to backup as much data as possible.
Read more on this topic here - https://archived.moe/talk/thread/1694/


If you need a post removed click on it's [Report] button and follow the instruction.
DMCA Content Takedown via dmca.com
All images are hosted on imgur.com.
If you like this website please support us by donating with Bitcoins at 16mKtbZiwW52BLkibtCr8jUg2KVUMTxVQ5
All trademarks and copyrights on this page are owned by their respective parties.
Images uploaded are the responsibility of the Poster. Comments are owned by the Poster.
This is a 4chan archive - all of the content originated from that site.
This means that RandomArchive shows their content, archived.
If you need information for a Poster - contact them.