Both of my former girlfriends died

Don't relate love with death, that is all in your head. Allow yourself to process the events without any superstitions attached

Just stop caring, harden yourself, someone will look through it and undo the hardening. Ha, that reminds me, my LDgf recently faked her own death so she wouldn't have to deal with me. So, I can kinda relate, mourning for your gf like that.

Fakeass /pol/ bullshit.

>>18620259
>My LDgf faked her own death so she wouldn't have to deal with me
That's a seriously fucked up thing to do man.
>Stop caring, harden yourself
Can I even really do that? The times I had with them were literally the happiest moments of my life. I've never, ever appreciated anything more than them being with me. I can't just block that out. It's like cutting off the only part of myself I can still feel.

>>18620264
Don't even start that shit with me, okay? I don't have time for politics when my girlfriend is fucking dead! I don't care about who did what now

>>18620270
Yes, you can. Besides, you'll appreciate a girlfriend more if you don't feel anything beforehand.

>>18620270
Or, don't, actually, I realize now how cold and hypocritical I am in saying that. Im sorry.

>>18620270
Hold on to it until you can accept their death, and be ok with it.

Relationships begin, relationships end. People live and people die. I've taken to approaching everything with an attitude of thankfulness. It really sucks that your exes died but you can be thankful for the time that you had with them and honor their memory by living the best life you can. You have something they don't have which is time. Don't cut your life short. Alive or dead they're both in the past. Don't let their unfortunate demise wrap you in a cloak of fear. It's completely illusionary.

>>18620275
Ex girlfriend... You guys didn't "love each other enough to stay together. That's not love lol. It sucks someone you cared about died but guess what everyone dies. It's scary but it's part of life. You can be sad if you lose someone but you have to except that death happens. It's very unlikely that something like that will happen again but it's always a possibility. You could get in a car crash tomorrow and die, it's just the reality of living. All you can do is hope it dosen't happen and live your life with the intention of it being long and making it a happy one. Being afraid all the time or just giving up and killing yourself dosen't change how things will go on. Trying to build happiness is a better option. Hope that happiness lasts, and if it dosen't process what ever bull shot happened and then go back to trying to build a new normal for yourself and finding that happiness again.

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>>18620270
OP I know exactly how you feel, the girl I fantasized over for three years finally became mine, and it was only then that I found out she was a literal whore. Did I try to make it work anyway? Absolutely, because I loved who she was before she revealed that side to me. I considered her an angel. But guess what? She didn't care. Yadayada, I dumped her a year later because I was beating a dead horse fantasizing about the past. And ever since, I've been the happiest man I could possibly be. Sure it's difficult at first to let go of the memories of someone you cherished so much, and move on with your life, but it really is for the better. You WILL realize that sooner or later. Best of luck to you OP

Thanks for all the advice guys, it helped a lot more than you can imagine. I'll try to keep hoping the future will be better.