ITT: Paying for affection

nah, total waste of money. what would it help if you clearly know she only does this for the money?

>>18618098
The fantasy of it I guess. But I also have this stupid idea that It'll help me gain experience with women.

>>18618095
>Go see a movie, hug, maybe kiss.
Those usually cost more than straight up sex.

>>18618098
>what would it help if you clearly know she only does this for the money?
Some escorts are just really damn good at their job, that you walk away feeling like a human being regardless if it was just for money. They also have to cultivate some kind of relationship with you in order for this to work (and for you to keep coming back).

>>18618109
do you also think you would develope fighting skills if you pay someone to act like you knocked them out?

>>18618112
you'll never be able to shake that feeling completely. if you do, then you are even deeper in shit because you will end up as one of those poor souls who think that "she really does like me".

>>18618112
The money isn't really a problem, but it's good to know that it'll probably be more.

I guess I'd have to find a "good" one then?

>>18618120
I'd probably get better at resisting the feeling of being knocked out after a while, that might help in a fight?

>>18618120
>you'll never be able to shake that feeling completely.
You do, actually. That's part of their job.

>because you will end up as one of those poor souls who think that "she really does like me".
More like a friends with benefits kind of thing.

>>18618130
>>18618120
From what I'm gathering it's a bad idea and I should probably try improve myself and get a real GF.

>>18618129
how would you learn to resist the feeling of being knocked out if the person you paid PRETENDS to get knoked out by you?

anyways, it won't help you get better with girls. it will only make you more awkward or worse, give you a false sense of improvement.

>>18618130
you fell for that whore, huh? trust me, she doesn't give a fuck about you.

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>>18618122
There are websites like Erotic Review to help with that (I don't trust Backpage). Took me about eight months of research until I found the escort I frequent (pic related).

>>18618135
yes

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>>18618143
You really can't read very well, can you?

>>18618135
Escorts can also be good therapy, and boost your confidence enough to start dating actual women.

>>18618152
i know you have to somehow justify all the money you already paid that slut, but that's simply laughable.

>>18618158
That's actually been proven and discussed (sex workers consider themselves therapists). Not to mention prolonged loneliness and absence of affection from the opposite sex are common causes of confidence issues.

>>18618158
>what is sex therapy

>>18618170
and fat feminists consider themselves beautiful.
that doesn't prove anything.

ofc that's true, but it's a false sense of security. it's not translatable to rl. it will only make you dependent on paying money once you know how nice it feels to not be lonely and get affection. you still have zero clue on how to get it without paying for it.

>>18618172
when you go to therapy with your (not paid for) partner to improve your sex life. definitely not when you go to a hooker. you can't just give it a fancy name to feel better about it.

>>18618177
>but it's a false sense of security.
It's a jumping point to a genuine sense of security.

>it will only make you dependent...
People said the same thing about disability payments via social security, despite many under the program use it to get their lives back together.

>you still have zero clue on how to get it without paying for it.
It ups your mood and confidence enough to give interacting with women more shots. As it does it give you practise in simply interacting with the opposite sex, as many young men these days severely lack.

>>18618182
It's good to see misogyny alive and well on /adv/.

Also: http://psychologytomorrowmagazine.com/sex-worker-or-therapist/

okay. if you can suspend your disbelief long enough that is good go you. I would be constantly thinking about how I paid this person, and none of it is genuine

>>18618190
but people who receive financial aid also get help in getting their life back on track. a prostitute isn't the right person to learn about "how to interact with girls". firstly because that's not her job and secondly because she can only speak from her point of view - which is a hooker. do you want to learn how to interact and attract sluts?

the issue is that you don't learn anything of value aince they will ALWAYS react favorable, even if you act like a god damn sperg. it's what they get paid for. so you think you now know how to "talk to girls" and "make them laugh", but she just faked her reactions and you will fail miserably once the girl infront of you isn't required to put up with your autistic crap because you paid her to do exactly that.

>>18618200
That'd be your insecurity, then.

>>18618195
calling a cleaner a "sanitation executive" doesn't make him less of a cleaner.
it just makes him feel less of a failure. same with "sex workers" who try to justify their horrible life decisions because they are doing "therapeutic work" with their "clients".

>>18618206
>a prostitute isn't the right person to learn about "how to interact with girls"
A sex worker gives you experience with the opposite sex, which improves your ability to socialise.

>firstly because that's not her job
It's their job to create an inviting atmosphere to keep you entertained and at ease.

>because she can only speak from her point of view - which is a hooker
That's a dehumanising and bigoted approach.

>do you want to learn how to interact and attract sluts?
The usage of the word "slut" and "whore" in this thread is very telling.

>the issue is that you don't learn anything of value aince they will ALWAYS react favorable
Because that's their job.

>it's what they get paid for. so you think you now know how to "talk to girls" and "make them laugh", but she just faked her reactions and you will fail miserably once the girl infront of you isn't required to put up with your autistic crap because you paid her to do exactly that.
Incoherent syntax.

>>18618219
you're a lost cause, i give up. just don't say we didn't warn you when reality hits you in the face.