So about a month ago my ex from about 10 years ago contacted

Also forgot to mention we are both adult here, both of us are about 30.

It could be something going on in her life you're completely unaware of!

It's shitty of her to ignore you.

Nobody on here is going to be able to provide you with closure. You can only get it from her.

Waiting is never fun, but all you can do is wait and see if she speaks to you.

Sorry OP

>>18617372
she started seeing someone else

>>18617372
Maybe she had a recently traumatic experience and really needed a familiar, safe person to fuck and make her feel better inside.

All other answers are irrelevant imo.

The fact that she is your ex from 10 years ago complicate things emotionally. The fact that she initially rejected your kiss means she did NOT have the clear mindset of dating with you again.

You probably assumed that because she started fucking you later that she did want to date you. But that is only an assumption.

She most certainly does not know where to go with you, has emotions going wild and very unstable.

Also she not even consider dating you at all, and just "follow her hart... ahumm feelings" because she feels lonely and you were the easiest way to not feel lonely temporarily.

Try figuring out what she genuinely wants, get to know what the mindset, intention, and expectations are. And next time, do this before allowing your heart to open up for her again.

>>18617501
bump

>>18617501
How do I figure out what she genuinely wants when she is ignoring me and wont return calls/texts?

>>18617399
I would be pretty pissed if she was ignoring me for this reason, she could have just told me she was seeing someone else and I would have been fine with it.

>>18617384
Not OP but I needed to hear this too. Thanks.

>>18618502
>How do I figure out what she genuinely wants when she is ignoring me and wont return calls/texts?
You try talking with her. If she doesn't open up try gaining her trust. And at all times keep your eyes open for lose ends. Become a good detective understanding psychology, connecting the dots and doing some spy work on phone, follow her etc

>>18618527
>You try talking with her. If she doesn't open up try gaining her trust.

This is the entire problem, she wont respond to my message or calls so I really can't do that.

>>18617372
>A few days later she invited me over and we have been fuck budies ever since and going at it a quite a bit. After the most recent time which was last Sunday she started ignoring me completely and doesn't message me or respond at all.
She is a slut. She wanted a hookup and the people she fucked with for ten years are done with her ass. So she came crawling back to you.

>>18617399
I talked to her today, it was this.