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I've had a boyfriend for the past month-
it's long distance, but we are still really close
basically, he's really shy, and I want to help him out of his shell, mainly by talking to him and trying to make him feel better about himself
how do
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>>18614586
are you a fag?
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>>18614586
How old is he. How far away is he. How often do you talk. Have you met him in person.
Warning: Shy is not something you can cure. At best you can train him to deal with it in a better way.
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>>18614664
same age as me, 15, nearly 16
he's in Canada, I'm in Australia- 14 hour difference in time zones
we talk every day
haven't met him in person
I know that shyness isn't "curable", I was just wanting to try and summarize it as best as I could
I just want him to be more comfortable around me, and for him to be more confident in himself
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>>18614586
In your situation it might be best to keep talking with him and over time try to touch heavier or sensitive subjects to talk with him. It's hard to do if you're not with him in person, bust still doable,
On experiences, long distance never works for lack of better words. Expecially if you're separated by 14 hours time differences and vast sea.
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>>18614674
fuck off underage faggot
shyness is cureable to some degree tho, i've been shy as fuck first two years of my highschool, then i stop caring so much about what people think, don't judge him for little things, be supportive and shit instead, he'll relax eventually. you can try if you sense him being insecure about something, boost his confidence by saying u did that good or compliment him or stuff.
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>>18614674
you could try talking him into trying to take theatre classes for overcoming his shyness. But be warned theatre is full to the brim of fags and often turns people weird as well
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